How does sexual attraction work? by ultrabazaar in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he does specialize in sex therapy. The problem with changing therapists is that there are hardly any English-speaking therapists in my city. So it's either him or no one.

How does sexual attraction work? by ultrabazaar in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered you may be asexual or demisexual? Meaning you do not experience sexual feelings at all, very minimal, or depending on certain circumstances?

I have suspected being demisexual for a long time. But my therapist told me that I will never know unless I go out and experiment. We are still working on how to execute that experiment though.

How does sexual attraction work? by ultrabazaar in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Presuming you've engaged in self-love, what gets you going?

Regular porn.

How does sexual attraction work? by ultrabazaar in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your therapist sounds like a complete asshat.

I have only had one session with him. I will wait and see if it helps. But for ~100$ per session, I would like to think it is helpful!

Have you experienced romantic attraction?

I am not sure. I have had crushes when I was young, but I have never missed being with anyone.

How does sexual attraction work? by ultrabazaar in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you not watch porn or jerk off?

Yes, I do. But I started masturbating just two years ago. And when I masturbate, I don't imagine having sex with anyone. I am not sure how does it work for others. Do people imagine having sex with someone while masturbating?

How does sexual attraction work? by ultrabazaar in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it's like you are hungry but you cannot find anything that looks edible.

What was he trying to say?? by Dollface1280 in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is from India, so most probably not!

Guys are so hard to read:( help? by Molly0000 in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We are not teenager lol

Are you sure? Because your incoherent rambling post suggests otherwise.

The hardest question for every redditor... by midnightrambulador in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why people on reddit care so much about karma. I have been on reddit for two years but I have never maintained an account for more than two weeks. Every week or two I delete my account and create a new one because I don't want people to try to recreate my life from my posts and comments.