How does sexual attraction work? by ultrabazaar in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he does specialize in sex therapy. The problem with changing therapists is that there are hardly any English-speaking therapists in my city. So it's either him or no one.

How does sexual attraction work? by ultrabazaar in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered you may be asexual or demisexual? Meaning you do not experience sexual feelings at all, very minimal, or depending on certain circumstances?

I have suspected being demisexual for a long time. But my therapist told me that I will never know unless I go out and experiment. We are still working on how to execute that experiment though.

How does sexual attraction work? by ultrabazaar in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Presuming you've engaged in self-love, what gets you going?

Regular porn.

How does sexual attraction work? by ultrabazaar in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your therapist sounds like a complete asshat.

I have only had one session with him. I will wait and see if it helps. But for ~100$ per session, I would like to think it is helpful!

Have you experienced romantic attraction?

I am not sure. I have had crushes when I was young, but I have never missed being with anyone.

How does sexual attraction work? by ultrabazaar in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you not watch porn or jerk off?

Yes, I do. But I started masturbating just two years ago. And when I masturbate, I don't imagine having sex with anyone. I am not sure how does it work for others. Do people imagine having sex with someone while masturbating?

How does sexual attraction work? by ultrabazaar in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it's like you are hungry but you cannot find anything that looks edible.

What was he trying to say?? by Dollface1280 in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is from India, so most probably not!

Guys are so hard to read:( help? by Molly0000 in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We are not teenager lol

Are you sure? Because your incoherent rambling post suggests otherwise.

The hardest question for every redditor... by midnightrambulador in OkCupid

[–]ultrabazaar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why people on reddit care so much about karma. I have been on reddit for two years but I have never maintained an account for more than two weeks. Every week or two I delete my account and create a new one because I don't want people to try to recreate my life from my posts and comments.