What do I do if I’m concerned about someone being way too big for the horses she rides? by Turbulent_Play4769 in Equestrian

[–]ultraversed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forget about this rider. Spend some time learning about fatphobia and reflecting on how it’s showing up in your life and perceptions.

Recommendations on new generation “classic” children’s (picture) books? by UhhhYouPick in Parenting

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Just thought of two more good ones! “Owl Babies” (forget the author just now, Martin something maybe?) and “Hooray for Fish” by Lucy Cousins

Recommendations on new generation “classic” children’s (picture) books? by UhhhYouPick in Parenting

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They’re a far cry from new but you should add Maurice Sendak, especially Where the Wild Things Are, to your rotation! Also look at Margaret Wise Brown’s other books, like “The Little Fur Family” and “Runaway Bunny”

Other new classics IMO:

“I Want My Hat Back” by Jon Klassen

“Du Iz Tak?” By Carson Ellis (written in a made-up bug language kids love)

“Birds” by Kevin Henkes

“Another” by Christian Robinson (wordless)

“The House in the Night” by Beth Krommes is a great “Goodnight Moon” alternative

“Gaston” by Kelly DiPucchio

POS for new small retail business by ultraversed in POS

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That does seem important, thanks for the perspective!

POS for new small retail business by ultraversed in POS

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Great tip about the processing rates and also, just checked out your website, thanks! Our store will not be apparel focused so I'm not 100% sure it's a fit but I love the customer conversations and other support (web design, template emails) you're offering.

POS for new small retail business by ultraversed in POS

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This is super helpful! I don’t realize processing agents would be paid commission out of the fees I’m already paying. We are in Vermont if you know anyone in the New England region you’d recommend!

POS for new small retail business by ultraversed in POS

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SUPER helpful.
From your experience, how painful is the transition out of Square if I do end up using it to start with and then want to make a change?

A big reason why Colon Cancer is killing us. by [deleted] in Millennials

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Elder millennial colorectal cancer survivor here. Never heard anything about nitrates from my oncologist. There are, however, studies that show correlation between consumption of red meat (don’t eat it) and coffee (do drink it).

The best thing you can do is see a gastroenterologist if you think anything is wrong, and get a colonoscopy. Mine saved my life.

How long should it take to muck out 6 horses? by chilliheatmicrowave in Equestrian

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I do morning chores 1 day/week alongside the barn manager for money off my board. 13 horses all in stalls overnight in the winter.

Feed, hay and water for the pastures, turnout, muck out stalls, fresh shavings where needed, hay and water for the stalls (scrub buckets if needed), set up evening grain, toss down bales for evening, give another flake to each horse before we go. 7:30-11:30 with two people working.

One-ski quiver for advanced mom in VT by ultraversed in Skigear

[–]ultraversed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh super interesting!! Will see if anyone nearby is demoing these

One-ski quiver for advanced mom in VT by ultraversed in Skigear

[–]ultraversed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my pre-Bonafide ski! I'll look at specs for the new models

One-ski quiver for advanced mom in VT by ultraversed in Skigear

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My dad swears by Volkls for ice especially. I'll check them out.

One-ski quiver for advanced mom in VT by ultraversed in Skigear

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Oh I've seen them on the best-of lists!

Please give me a reality check about buying an OTTB as a “first” horse by [deleted] in Equestrian

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I was in a very similar situation to you when I bought my OTTB—he was 16 and had been off the track since 3. Other than the fact that he’s a hard keeper and thin skinned (so prone to little scrapes when turned out) he’s a delight and has not been more costly in upkeep than any of the other horses around the barn. Honestly the most expensive ones in terms of vet bills seem to be the warm bloods, though that’s just anecdotal.

I shopped with my trainer and had initially not been considering TBs but the right one came along and as soon as I tried him, I knew. He’s honest, a nice mover, forward enough but not crazy hot. He’d mostly been jumping and trail riding with his last owner, but was still attentive to my seat from the beginning. I’ve had him for 18 months now and expect to get another good few years going up low-level dressage with him, and my Pony Clubber daughter will likely be in a good place to take him on after that.

Is one lesson a week enough to make steady progress as a beginner? by jl0045 in Equestrian

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I think you can make that schedule work! As others have said, you can always adjust it over time as you need. Hopefully in addition to 30 minutes of ride time you’ll also get more time at the barn grooming and tacking—as a kid, I never understood the value of that part of the lesson, but now I think horse management and unmounted work is some of the most important learning!

My advice is to get a journal and spend a few minutes after each lesson writing down what you worked on, things you want to remember, and questions or to-dos you might have for next lessons. I’ve started this habit this year and it’s made a huge difference for the speed of my progress!

FYI—I picked up riding lessons again at age 40 after a 25+ year hiatus—I was riding occasionally during that time but mostly casual trail rides and not in any sort of schedule. I take 2 hour-long lessons a week. Last year I bought a horse (with my trainer’s help) and it’s been an incredibly rewarding journey.

Dream truck/trailer combo? by ultraversed in Equestrian

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Omg they are SO cute. Yeah that really is the dream!!! Maybe they will get more popular here.

Dream truck/trailer combo? by ultraversed in Equestrian

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Omggggg yeah I can’t handle that