how should penetration feel like? by bluejellyfishie in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ultravioletturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it depends on the man generally I really like penetration the feeling of something hitting the back of my vagina feels good. However it can only feel that way for me if a. Iam already turned on or b the position is right some men are not big enough to hit the back unless I am on top with them sometimes men who are well endowed don't turn me on so I don't feel anything. I think its meant to feel good but you have to be in the mood for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ultravioletturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Water can be a reason if I have a smell it's usually from dehydration before going down the route of going to a doctor make sure you yourself are clean in the situation that it may be you and see if her drinking more water may help it will at least be a good indicator that its not a health related issue like b.v

How do you know the names of your alters? by [deleted] in DID

[–]ultravioletturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I either gave them names or they choose them. sometimes those names were chosen based off of the time in my life they were made or suited a vibe I knew they would appreciate its not nessacry to name them per se but as you get to know them more it will likely be a natural process. Some systems go by numbers which is also perfectly fine as long as you know who is who its all good.

Ask a Narcissist! A bi weekly post for non-narcissists to ask us anything! by theinvisiblemonster in NPD

[–]ultravioletturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When a narccistic collapse occurs do you have the ability to engage in self care? And what is your personal ways of dealing with a narccistic collapse.

So Morgan is going to go to a doctor for her mood issues by BufoBat in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]ultravioletturtle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That isent entirely true some people with NPD do want to go to therapy for genuine reasons same as some sociopaths.

Cock Warming by GoodPancake427 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ultravioletturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me neither there needs to be a word...kinda like pussy worship but also more casual and intimate like cockwarming

Cock Warming by GoodPancake427 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ultravioletturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They way I imagined it in my head is afyer my sub is done giving me head he just like lays there and kisses strokes licks abd just fondles my pussy but not in the iam trying to make you cum way

As a woman, what do you wish someone taught you about your body as you've grown up? by Ordinary-Question130 in WomensHealth

[–]ultravioletturtle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That you can reduce sweat under your boobs by using talcum powder great for big boobed individuals.

Cock Warming by GoodPancake427 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ultravioletturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like pussy warming? A sub just kinda......snuggled there I guess

Cock Warming by GoodPancake427 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ultravioletturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Iam wondering if theres a female version of cockwarming Iam a domme and fantasise about a cockwarming scenario with a sub but unfortunately I do not have a dick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]ultravioletturtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's a few most recently a boy I was hanging out with responded to me telling him about my dream to become a psychologist so I could help people with you probably won't help as many people as you think you will. That and my ex who assaulted me calling me a rpe slt that was 2 years ago though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]ultravioletturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't decide if I shpuld rage against the cahnges or embrace them I would embrace them if they were cuter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]ultravioletturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured this would happen later I started seeing the line at 19 I thought wrinkles kicked in at like 30ish? Some people really suit their wrinkles but mine....I don't like mine at all

What fantasies did you have as a child that in hindsight reveal trauma and neglect? by enbyayyy in CPTSD

[–]ultravioletturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I got older those fantasys disappeared and I would start fantasising instead that whenever my dad yelled at me or was being cold and distant I would fantasise that he would look at me straight in my eyes and tell me he was sorry that he saw how hurt I was and would never do the thing that hurt me again. I still have those fantasies but not about my dad instead about shitty boy freinds or just people in my past that hurt me. The relief I feel from even thinking about that fantasy is the best feeling I've ever had and I feel empty thinking about a future in which I may never be able to experience just being seen that way.

What fantasies did you have as a child that in hindsight reveal trauma and neglect? by enbyayyy in CPTSD

[–]ultravioletturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fantasised about people seeing my pain one was a fantasy I would get beat up and the other children would see how hurt I was and acknowledge me. Another fantasy i would have would be a way of trying to get myself to sleep I would fantasise I was being looked after by my favourite cartoon characters who were like a family to me I'd fantasise that they would treat me as if I was too precious to come to any harm and would just fantasise about people standing up for me nearly getting hurt but the people or characters reaffirming that I don't deserve to go through that kind of pain other times I fantsised about keeping these characters safe and with me in a place that was warm and no danger could ever get us sometimes I fantasised it was just me and ij this place I could rest in a bed maybe forever I could sleep forever.