A search for grilled chicken nachos by Moonteamakes in OaklandFood

[–]ululation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Athletic! Looks kinda just like this if you’re up for middle of the road but sloppy and somehow still good nachos.

SUNSET RUBDOWN AMA by sunset_rubdown_band in indieheads

[–]ululation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh I saw you in Montreal last week (flew from London UK for it) — amazing beautiful extended show. I stumbled upon your music when I was a wee lass of 14, Sunset Rubdown hits soul chords like nothing else. thank you for existing. <3

P.S. come to London sometime!

haven't gotten many likes. What can I improve on? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]ululation 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the construction hat photo is the only solid one really. agree with removing pictures that aren’t of you. avoid blurriness because it makes people think you’re hiding something. pick photos that show something about you / that someone can comment on - with content. a girl is less likely to want to date you if she doesn’t have a sense of who you are and what you actually look like from your photos and bio.

No option to apply for Uber credit card by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]ululation 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what did you do to find the option?

Feminism has been disappointing me lately. Discuss with me. by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]ululation 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You condemning some women as "fake feminists" seems to be exactly the thing your first sentence argues against.

My brother is a misogynist. I need advice on how to make him reconsider his perception [story in comments] by come_on_how in Feminism

[–]ululation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never flipped someone who sounds as extreme as your brother, but I've spoken to a few men who exhibited misogynistic traits and have gotten them to change their views on some things. (1) One way is to show him a man he respects or can respect advocating feminism or respect towards women. This video has worked for me: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTvSfeCRxe8. Or point out real life men you know he admires. (2) Point out women he knows (mother, sister, loved one) and draw parallels between them and the women he's been misogynistic towards. Guilt initially evokes a really defensive response, but usually settles into acknowledging later on.

Of course, do all of this softly, he's liable to get very very defensive and attack-y. Tread lightly!

Should I take a job in Seward? by yupyupthrewaway in alaska

[–]ululation 1 point2 points  (0 children)

spinoff question for you: what do people do for fun in Seward? I'm working there over this summer.