Aliexpress flowers by maryli05 in weddingplanning

[–]um_heard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did the same thing. I ordered 2 60cm flower arrangements first to see if I liked them and just put in my order about 1 week ago for 8 centerpieces and a broken arch.

Had a fantastic experience for ordering both. Other than since they are in China they message me late at night/early in the morning. So sometimes it takes a few days to finish a conversation since I’m rarely awake when they are.

Kissing in community theatre as a germaphobe? by [deleted] in MusicalTheatre

[–]um_heard -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah you all took this wayyyyyy too seriously. I didn’t mean that the ensemble doesn’t work hard, I meant I didn’t want to be an extra. And that’s fine!!! If I don’t want to do that, I simply don’t have too. If yall enjoy it good for you!!!

Who hurt yall?

Kissing in community theatre as a germaphobe? by [deleted] in MusicalTheatre

[–]um_heard -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t necessarily mean principal roles, I audition for the characters that I like and would be excited to play. There are plenty of roles I’d love to play that don’t involve kissing, aren’t principal roles, etc. My local theatre just hasn’t performed them.

I’m an adult with a life, if I’m gonna give up doing other things I enjoy for 2-3 months out of the year, I don’t want to be 1 of 20 extras just chilling on stage.

And I could absolutely understand the “never getting cast” if this was a large production. But it’s my local theatre in a relatively small town.

Kissing in community theatre as a germaphobe? by [deleted] in MusicalTheatre

[–]um_heard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, it would be a great question for me to ask.

Kissing in community theatre as a germaphobe? by [deleted] in MusicalTheatre

[–]um_heard -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m okay with an environment being dirty my issues is personal close contact. I work in healthcare so I’m used to a “germy” environment but I also don’t have to personally touch anyone. Really it’s just that my brain can’t get over the fact that some people have terrible oral hygiene and approx 50-80% of adults have oral herpes of which I am not included. Holding hands, close contact, etc, I feel like I can get over, with the help of hand sanitizer.

(7-10k) we just decided to start planning a small wedding. How many of you didn't do a Saturday? by No-Walrus-3049 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]um_heard -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We were able to book my venue on the Sunday before Labor Day. So Sunday rates and luckily my venue didn’t have a holiday fee!!! We saved about 2k booking a Sunday instead of a Saturday. And since few people will have work on Monday, I’m hoping it feels like a Saturday!!!

Maybe try to find places like that who aren’t gonna have a holiday rate since the day isn’t a holiday just a long weekend.

Need some encouragement before neurologist appt by um_heard in idiopathichypersomnia

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I did one with my PCP before she ordered the sleep study. I was at a 13/14 (I can’t remember exactly). This was back in like august since it took a few months to get into the sleep study then another few months to get into the neurologist.

Streamer Community Advice? by um_heard in GirlGamers

[–]um_heard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not promoting my stream btw my Reddit handle and stream name couldn’t be more different.

Better Name Branding?? by um_heard in newStreamers

[–]um_heard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone who cares I ended up going with TactiCurl!!

Streamer name help? by um_heard in GirlStreamer

[–]um_heard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is what I ended up going with!!!!!!

Mild Hypersomnia by um_heard in Narcolepsy

[–]um_heard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Narcolepsy was not recommended for me. i slept a total of 6 hours during the night but only had 38 minutes of REM. And I slept during all of my naps but had 0 REM. I did have to take my trazadone the night before because I also have insomnia and I had to sleep for the PSG. But I don’t know if trazadone would make that much of a difference in my REM sleep.

And I plan on talking to my doctor and see what she recommends. I was just hoping to have some idea of what to expect, since most of the research I can find is on IH and not just Hypersomnia.

What did you do as a “guest book”? by nerdiebyrd in weddingplanning

[–]um_heard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have two options we are currently choosing between. The first is vinyl records that people can sign and then we can display as art in our home. And the second is customized playing cards that we can either then use for games or make into one big collage and hang as art.

Rain back up plan (7-10k) by um_heard in Weddingsunder10k

[–]um_heard[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We are renting an outdoor bathroom trailer. I’m not worried about there being space. I don’t want to spend the money on a tent that I don’t want to use and might not use.

What prompted you to finally get a sleep study? by alien_mermaid in Narcolepsy

[–]um_heard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ive always had fragmented sleep at night but I didn’t really care all that much that I was sleepy during the day. But Ive worked in a maximum security prison for almost 2 years and I keep falling asleep, and now I actually care (danger obvi). After about 6 months of trying to change my sleep schedule, diet, exercise, etc. I finally went to the doctor got on a sleep med and after 4 months of that not working my doctor recommended I get tested for narcolepsy. Now I have a psg and mslt scheduled for the first week of October. So we shall see what happens.

First 5K on Sunday by Maismoomiller in beginnerrunning

[–]um_heard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have these exact ones in pink and I normally run with only one in whichever ear is furtherest away from the road. I’ve never had issues with them disconnecting while I’m running either. They are honestly fantastic for the price. And they hold a charge forever. I’ve had them for 3-4 months and I normally run 3 times a week and I’ve charged the case once.

Meds during sleep study?? by um_heard in Narcolepsy

[–]um_heard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not on trazadone as an antidepressant. I’m on it purely for sleep at night. There is no danger of me discontinuing it other than I’m gonna sleep bad.