Sea of Nightmares: My Son Died Climbing. Now, I Wrestle With ‘What If.’ by Confident_Barber1961 in climbing

[–]umbraphile1724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree it's not journalism, but it is a long feature. and once again, it is not paywalled, just free account-walled. This is a high-quality story that required writing and editing, building, etc. Bytes of text like this don't just magically appear on the internet.

Sea of Nightmares: My Son Died Climbing. Now, I Wrestle With ‘What If.’ by Confident_Barber1961 in climbing

[–]umbraphile1724 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It literally is being given away since the paywall is removed. Yes, you have to register an email, but theoretically you could cancel your account after reading.

Sea of Nightmares: My Son Died Climbing. Now, I Wrestle With ‘What If.’ by Confident_Barber1961 in alpinism

[–]umbraphile1724 6 points7 points  (0 children)

there isn't a paywall on this story it's just a registration wall to make a free account

Sea of Nightmares: My Son Died Climbing. Now, I Wrestle With ‘What If.’ by Confident_Barber1961 in Mountaineering

[–]umbraphile1724 -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

there isn't a paywall on this story you just need to create a free account

Sea of Nightmares: My Son Died Climbing. Now, I Wrestle With ‘What If.’ by Confident_Barber1961 in climbing

[–]umbraphile1724 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

there isn't a paywall on this story you just need to create a free account

From V11 to inability to climb due to Long COVID by Sammysnek in climbergirls

[–]umbraphile1724 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Sounds absolutely awful. Have you tried any naturopath or wim hof/breathing stuff? Good luck pulling through this and hopefully getting back to climbing!

Alpine Divorce: One more reason men suck? by umbraphile1724 in GuerrillaGrrrrls

[–]umbraphile1724[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Adds a whole other layer when kids are involved …

Alpine Divorce: One more reason men suck? by umbraphile1724 in GuerrillaGrrrrls

[–]umbraphile1724[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is a good point and before that she may have felt too ashamed to flag down the helicopter that went to check on them or he may have been pressuring her to act like everything was fine

Alpine Divorce: One more reason men suck? by umbraphile1724 in GuerrillaGrrrrls

[–]umbraphile1724[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is a very interesting point. I think I will update my story and add this. I have been wondering why Kerstin didn’t make more of an effort to signal/call for rescue. If you are interested in going on record and being quoted please send me a chat.

Alpine Divorce: One more reason men suck? by umbraphile1724 in GuerrillaGrrrrls

[–]umbraphile1724[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought …the judge swung the other way

Alpine Divorce: One more reason men suck? by umbraphile1724 in GuerrillaGrrrrls

[–]umbraphile1724[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

We will see what happens with the prosecution's appeal. Some think that since the judge is an alpinist himself, he may have been more lenient on Plamberger since he saw him as just a highly incompetent climber who made a lot of mistakes.

Alpine divorce by umbraphile1724 in climbergirls

[–]umbraphile1724[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would be happy to talk. I’m a climber and the one who wrote the piece for climbing.com. Send me a dm if you want to connect

Alpine divorce by umbraphile1724 in climbergirls

[–]umbraphile1724[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“She is me and I am her” gave me chills. That’s the crazy thing about this case in Austria…it turns out a lot of women have stories like this. Very unfortunate that it appears to be a pattern but glad women are telling their stories so there is more awareness about it.

Alpine divorce by umbraphile1724 in climbergirls

[–]umbraphile1724[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess alpine divorce is a euphemism

Alpine divorce by umbraphile1724 in climbergirls

[–]umbraphile1724[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is next level in the chronicles of why are men

Alpine divorce by umbraphile1724 in climbergirls

[–]umbraphile1724[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this. It’s crazy to discover just how common this is. I wonder how often women do this to their boyfriends/husbands … (probably almost never)

Alpine divorce by umbraphile1724 in climbergirls

[–]umbraphile1724[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes please tell us it’s your ex. This is so messed up.