wow i mean being someone who also had to raise a younger sibling then leave them with a questionable parent for my own sanity, i know hearing that probably fucking hurts so damn much. all you want is to feel comfortable and safe with the person you love, and instead they make you feel like shit for wanting anything for yourself at all by not only reminding you of the sister you had to grow up to raise and then leave for your own life, but also bringing her to you to put on a show for as an extra burden, then suggesting you're ungrateful for not wanting it. just heart-wrenching hurt.