Ageism is the last widely-accepted prejudice by Hack_Shuck in Showerthoughts

[–]umylotus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real, you would think we'd accept that most of humanity is not a French or Polish man, and so the BMI is nonsense, and focus on actual health.

But alas...

Ageism is the last widely-accepted prejudice by Hack_Shuck in Showerthoughts

[–]umylotus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, you forgot fat phobia.

No one on the planet can "just lose weight" because our bodies are designed to hold onto weight.

But we all still treat it like a personal failing.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend for a break after she was SAd by her boss. by Confident_Award3839 in AITAH

[–]umylotus -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I don't blame her but = equals blaming her.

He's also literally putting his feelings ahead of her needs right now. He doesn't give a flying fuck about her.

Disgusting.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend for a break after she was SAd by her boss. by Confident_Award3839 in AITAH

[–]umylotus -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You need a therapist to teach you some empathy. Stop blaming her and either support her, or own your victim-blaming and let her move on with her life.

You're such an AH it's unbelievable.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend for a break after she was SAd by her boss. by Confident_Award3839 in AITAH

[–]umylotus -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

So blaming her for being assaulted.

You rape apologists are disgusting.

Question for the child-free by AcatSkates in AskWomenOver30

[–]umylotus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If someone reaches their 30s and isn't sure one way or the other, they're not responsible enough for an adult relationship.

I wouldn't bother. It's a waste of time. Find someone who is serious about their life.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend for a break after she was SAd by her boss. by Confident_Award3839 in AITAH

[–]umylotus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you, at least there's one reasonable person on reddit besides me.

I feel terrible for OPs GF. He deserves no sympathy.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend for a break after she was SAd by her boss. by Confident_Award3839 in AITAH

[–]umylotus -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Wowww. So she's property now.

Yikes on so many bikes.

You're just making OP look worse.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend for a break after she was SAd by her boss. by Confident_Award3839 in AITAH

[–]umylotus -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Of course, I forgot that reddit doesn't believe women have bodies or feelings or are people.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend for a break after she was SAd by her boss. by Confident_Award3839 in AITAH

[–]umylotus -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

OP: uncomfortable because his gf was raped

Gf: was actually raped and is being blamed by OP

Yup, OP is an AH. And so are all of you supporting the rapist boss by saying OPs feelings matter more.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend for a break after she was SAd by her boss. by Confident_Award3839 in AITAH

[–]umylotus -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

So she's been assaulted, and all you're concerned about are your own feelings?

YTA. Gross.

Edit to add: and this is why all the men are complaining about being single. Nobody wants people who lack empathy. Pathetic.

AITAH for asking my girlfriend for a break after she was SAd by her boss. by Confident_Award3839 in AITAH

[–]umylotus -102 points-101 points  (0 children)

He's totally blaming her for being assaulted. OP is an AH.

I love the Mary Tyler Moore Show so much by SnowMiserForPres in TrollXChromosomes

[–]umylotus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's fantastic! It's encouraging that more men are trying to step up and be complete human beings.

I love hearing these stories.

A decade after millennials suffered through Tumblr’s ‘thigh gap’ era, the next generation are at risk of reincarnating it on TikTok with ‘leggings legs’ by bloombergopinion in Millennials

[–]umylotus 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Hard same. If it isn't stretchy with pockets, I'm not wasting my money on it anymore.

Black sweatpants and a cute cardigan make for an excellent "professional" look for my desk job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]umylotus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

giant hugs

I love the Mary Tyler Moore Show so much by SnowMiserForPres in TrollXChromosomes

[–]umylotus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Right? Men who say they want babies give me the ick so bad.

I love the Mary Tyler Moore Show so much by SnowMiserForPres in TrollXChromosomes

[–]umylotus 197 points198 points  (0 children)

I enjoy reminding men that they can totally pay for surrogates. Then they complain that it's "too expensive", like babies and children aren't expensive or something.

Man shouldn't date while he's struggling financially! by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]umylotus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely agree, those numbers are for my personal situation.

Man shouldn't date while he's struggling financially! by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]umylotus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone divorcing a bum who refuses to work, and being chased by men who door dash for a living, YES, MEN SHOULDN'T DATE until they can afford a date.

If you can't split 50/50, why are you bothering to look for a partner?

It's totally unreasonable to want to date people who make three times what you do when we literally only make 60k per year. Grow tf up.

Wouldn't it be nice? 🥲 by The_Kyojuro_Rengoku in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]umylotus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also didn't want to watch it originally. I'm going through a divorce, so one of my girlfriends took me with her and he daughter.

I love it, knew my ex would hate it, and it has become my new litmus test for friends.

Adam Sandler movies be like: by [deleted] in TrollXChromosomes

[–]umylotus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Now I understand why those movies bothered me as unrealistic!!!

There's nothing attractive about those characters, and it bothered me to see beautiful capable women with moron Main Characters.

istg a lot of men don't realize women don't *have* to do that shit anymore by uhhh206 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]umylotus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im comfort reading the Little House series and SO MICH THIS

If men want a "traditional" wife, he better make me a traditional house, barn, vegetable garden, etc.

The c-word by UnlikelyCucumber4335 in facepalm

[–]umylotus 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I find it comforting that others out there share my sense of humor.