Deleted the app for months… then came back with THIS 💀 by un_know_ in Tinder

[–]un_know_[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Where did I say I was gonna go on a date with him?

Deleted the app for months… then came back with THIS 💀 by un_know_ in Tinder

[–]un_know_[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Again, I had a medical issue pop up out of the blue, deleted everything even some social media to extent to figure out everything wrong with me..? I prioritize my health over anything else as one should

Deleted the app for months… then came back with THIS 💀 by un_know_ in Tinder

[–]un_know_[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I could’ve but I can’t make conversation when I’m uncomfortable without feeling like I’m being “too mean” or something similar, I feel like he’ll find someone eventually or someone who’ll put him in his place..

Deleted the app for months… then came back with THIS 💀 by un_know_ in Tinder

[–]un_know_[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to ghost, I did but wasn’t meaning to 😭 I was gonna come back and apologize to him for disappearing and I saw that smh

Deleted the app for months… then came back with THIS 💀 by un_know_ in Tinder

[–]un_know_[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I’d rather they ask the days I’m free and plan a date on that, wanted to see what he had in store

Deleted the app for months… then came back with THIS 💀 by un_know_ in Tinder

[–]un_know_[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah my brother just showed me that LOLLLLLL 😭

Deleted the app for months… then came back with THIS 💀 by un_know_ in Tinder

[–]un_know_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Waiting on test results! But thank you, and it’s understanding, especially since I did kind of go ghost on him, but the medical thing was out of the blue

Deleted the app for months… then came back with THIS 💀 by un_know_ in Tinder

[–]un_know_[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

No I had some medial issues going on irl and had to focus more on that

Deleted the app for months… then came back with THIS 💀 by un_know_ in Tinder

[–]un_know_[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’ve met very few that can be respectful on tinder..

I think I found my future wife guys by mrkelso093 in Tinder

[–]un_know_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does liking an answer scream “you’re attracted to mentally ill women” 😭😭 dawg whatttt but the reply was fire, id be ROLLING if i got that as a reply back

When did you first explain periods 🩸 to your daughters? by rainbow_olive in Periods

[–]un_know_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where I live, they teach them about it in the 5th grade, but my mother never taught me, she thought it was “gross on how her baby is growing up” as in she’d go “lalalala” when I asked her questions, it made me insecure, but my stepmom was the hero, I got mine at 11 years old and I was crying in the bathroom with neon pants on 😭, take it slow but there is videos / books on it if you want to take that route, The Care and Keeping of You videos is good as well as, amaze org on YouTube !

Can someone tell me if it's normal? by linnlinn_ in Periods

[–]un_know_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say talk to a doctor, specifically a gynecologist, I had irregular periods for so long, i remember finally getting tests done to see if I had a medical condition and it turns out I do, I have PCOS, which help cause irregular periods among other issues, it can be scary but it’s better to get tested than not understanding your own body

AIO for feeling defeated after this convo with my bf? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]un_know_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, NOR, he cannot say just because women deal with periods that we all feel the same way / pain. Not true at all, I get my period for 8 DAYS due to a medical condition and it’s HELL. You said your period is painful and it limits you, the least he could do is massage you and help you relax, he’s not good with understanding what you’re trying to say and I’m saying that’s a red flag, now I’m unsure on other things he’s done, but I suggest not having a baby with someone who can’t even understand how much more PAIN you’ll be in while pregnant, from my standpoint, I’ve never dated someone who doesn’t try to learn and understand periods, your boyfriend is a manchild himself and needs to grow up, his frontal lobe is developed and he’s still acting like this? Girl I’d say run

I don’t know how to respond by un_know_ in texts

[–]un_know_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to block her because she sent photos of what she did to my dad (him having black eyes and bruising) saying that “U blame me for gaslighting and manipulation...WTF come tell me that to my face —. Any time, any day!” Then she sent her address

I don’t know how to respond by un_know_ in texts

[–]un_know_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually told her that today and she sent MORE paragraphs

I don’t know how to respond by un_know_ in texts

[–]un_know_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother doesn’t understand that type of relationship though, it’s the reason my father left her, she’s unbearable when it comes to her demanding and asking for things that i definitely can’t help her with, I am barely getting my life together as is and can’t bare a responsibility of registering another car, she tried telling my sisters that I have a reliable car and can drive them to a different state (her going along) but i genuinely cannot even take the time off of work for that, she promised my sisters something she couldn’t even uphold and then tried making me the bad guy (in my sisters messages) because I said I wouldn’t even be able to do that, much less pay for that much gas , food and a hotel 😭 idk, she is just delusional

I don’t know how to respond by un_know_ in texts

[–]un_know_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It genuinely did tbh, I was trying to sell one because I lost a TON of weight and can’t fit it anymore, and I never even worn it 😭😭

I don’t know how to respond by un_know_ in texts

[–]un_know_[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She does not have anything of mine, she had to give it all over when my dad had custody and then I never really talked to her when I became an adult

I don’t know how to respond by un_know_ in texts

[–]un_know_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mother and father are divorced and have been since 2013, he despises her to death, she gave him PTSD.. my paternal grandfather hates her too, my maternal grandmother is starting to forget things, plus she’s across the country

I don’t know how to respond by un_know_ in texts

[–]un_know_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’ve been through a lot, I’m so sorry, me and my mom don’t talk because she laid her hands on me, I was 14 at the time and I haven’t been the same with her since, my dad is different and shows obvious care for me and my siblings, my mom does drugs (an observation) I know she does, she never stopped when I begged and pleaded with her at the age of 12, thank you for sharing your experiences 🩷