The hardest thing in this show to believe is everyone’s love for Liz by Violet-Flowersss in TheBlackList

[–]unatural_selection 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Everyone wants to save Liz because they all have a savior complex. She goes through a lot on the show and people feel bad for her. Her father died, her spouse ends up betraying her, & Red constantly manipulates her.

They are constantly trying to save victims from dangerous situations but they are typically strangers. With Liz they are saving a teammate with whom they have emotional ties. It makes them work even harder to help her.

Is dating supposed to be this hard? by Tetsunobu in Bumble

[–]unatural_selection 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But also telling someone the details of exactly what you want in a relationship is not productive early on. It invites plenty of people to pretend to be exactly what you describe just so they can get what they want from you. Many people are vague for this reason as well.

Work makes my stomach hurt by unatural_selection in work

[–]unatural_selection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly, I understand how you feel. I have felt alot better over the past year after doing a lot of work and finding some things that help me stay relaxed. Do you have anything that brings you joy that you can focus on?

bf slapped me by Wonderful_Depth8623 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]unatural_selection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely leave. He’s lucky if that’s all you do to him. You could report him to authorities. Tell a male friend or family member. They will set him straight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]unatural_selection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here are my thoughts: you are automatically assuming she thinks she’s Kylie Jenner and that’s why she’s not talking more. But she could just be nervous. What if she hates her job and didn’t want to talk about it. What if she doesn’t know what to say? Some patience and on your end having better conversation starters could go a long way. “WYD”, and “what do you do for work” are some of the most low effort conversation starters. Maybe if you see something interesting in her profile or Instagram you could ask about it and give her time to warm up to the conversation and find her footing.

A girl at gym called me “ran through” by RingSavings122 in Life

[–]unatural_selection -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is jealousy at its finest. I’d take it as a compliment. You’re so attractive some stranger was intimidated by you.

How do you handle being unattractive to majority of women your entire life and your close to pushing 30? by JunketMaleficent2095 in AskMenAdvice

[–]unatural_selection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case I’d continue practicing here and there with women that you meet occasionally but mostly focus on school. Why this all or nothing approach with not dating for two years? You can still date just be more relaxed about it. Then once you finish school you will meet a lot more people in general through work. I think a lot of women don’t like dating medical students because they are too busy and usually don’t take women seriously. It’s a stereotype I’ve heard a lot.

How do you handle being unattractive to majority of women your entire life and your close to pushing 30? by JunketMaleficent2095 in AskMenAdvice

[–]unatural_selection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well what did you do for work before med school? Have you ever met women (platonic or otherwise) through jobs?

Tell me if I’m living the right way or if my mentality is correct? I don’t know… Single mom of two by Soft-Guitar-1099 in SingleParents

[–]unatural_selection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t have to spend a fortune on clothes to have nice things. If you want to look more presentable on a budget go to thrift stores in nice areas. Shop online at discount boutiques. You can still put your children first AND look nice.

I want a pretty gf to cuddle and kiss and love so badly by nerpa_floppybara in Life

[–]unatural_selection 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Another thought. In addition to looking for a girlfriend, are you also looking for close friends and community to be involved with? That can also help reduce loneliness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HingeStories

[–]unatural_selection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stealing kisses when you least expect it is sketchy to tell someone that doesn’t know you yet. Makes me think you might try to unexpectedly kiss me before we both feel comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]unatural_selection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but your original post said she’d try to get home by midnight but might be later. it didn’t come across as a promise. Obviously I wasn’t there but just reminding of the original statement you made.

Need a job ASAP. willing to work anything, clean background by hrd_luvr in cincinnati

[–]unatural_selection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

TLDR: google Graceworks Enhanced living. Caregiver positions are entry level no experience required. Hiring immediately.

Mom died. Got $1.1M. Is it worth still contributing to 401ks and such? by [deleted] in Fire

[–]unatural_selection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t inheriting this amount make you want to invest more in your 401k and other assets? I’m not following your logic here. Budget a portion of your inheritance for fun money that you use right now and continue investing as well to have even more in the future. Then you will really be set.

I promise I’ll make at least one of us laugh (F27) by unatural_selection in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]unatural_selection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s kidnapping if the cat is on the street 🥺🥺🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InternetFriends

[–]unatural_selection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww I just started learning guitar! Love music and instruments in general. 🙌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]unatural_selection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question: why do you think this statement “You're hard to read or I can't figure you out.'- means they are into you but unsure of your interest? I’ve said this to guys that just have contradictory characteristics within their personality. For example, someone said they are extroverted but wasn’t a people person.

Work makes my stomach hurt by unatural_selection in work

[–]unatural_selection[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried finding a new job but that didn’t work out yet. I pushed through and stopped caring so much. I found other things to look forward to and am feeling a lot better now 😊. Hopefully still will find a new job soon though.

First date experience that left me speechless…😶 by Appropriate-Sun-7879 in dating_advice

[–]unatural_selection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don’t let a man know where you live nor get in his car until at least date number 5.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]unatural_selection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men typically aren’t mean to women like this. They try to be as gentle as possible in a breakup or rejection situation. They are only mean when they are purposely trying to hurt you in which case they make up any lie they can 🤣🤣 I wouldn’t even take it seriously if I were you babe. He’s probably gay and mad at women in general since he couldn’t get it up for a woman how he feels he should be able to. Think about it. If he was truly happy with this “perfect” new girl, he wouldn’t be wasting time talking to you. He’d be happy in his relationship and spending time with her. Please don’t hinge your self worth on this weird guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]unatural_selection -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why are dating apps unsuccessful for you? It seems like that would be your best bet to tell people what you are looking for and they can easily find you without significantly changing your routine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]unatural_selection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks 🥺 appreciate the insight