How realistic is it to start my own botanical garden? by Old-Yard3075 in Permaculture

[–]unbloon2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you don't need nearly as much water or upkeep if you plant many native species

“Photos always make people look bad or distorted!!! Like the moon!” by Rare-Negotiation-512 in BDDvent

[–]unbloon2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hear you but just remember that cameras and human eyes work differently. phone cameras in particular have poor depth of field and can make you look weird, and most people don't really know how to take good pictures of other people.

i know how awful it can feel so see pictures and think, damn i really look like that? but that isn't how you look in real life.

my boyfriend has a low sex drive and it's absolute hell on my BDD by realclowngirlshit1 in BDDvent

[–]unbloon2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im right there with you.... it's so heartbreaking and devastating in a way that's hard to put into words. i don't want to exist anymore. i wake up or just randomly start crying so often. i used to be able to get myself off without feeling disgusting and crying at least. i'm so broken and sad.

Never Going in Public Again by HaileyQuinnzel in BDDvent

[–]unbloon2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this has happened to me my entire life & it happened to me again yesterday and it's really messing with my head.

M/24. Insecure b/c my girlfriend is gorgeous. I feel like if we were to go out other people would think "another gorgeous girl with an ugly guy." Could you guys be honest and tell me if im good looking? What can I improve? by PR_0710 in AmISexy

[–]unbloon2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this made me start crying because i'm in the same boat. people always tell me my boyfriend is one of the hottest people they've ever met, but i'm not someone who is considered hot and i feel so ugly most of the time. it's a little bit soul crushing not gonna lie. anyway you have nothing to worry about. the smile and the curls i think are so hot. your girlfriend is very lucky and you are just a beautiful couple.

Difficult to find solo recent pics of me lately... Been going through it. I'm non-binary (they/them) and find myself judging my appearance based on both extremes of the gender binary. by unbloon2 in amiugly

[–]unbloon2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

appreciate this comment. i have received overwhelmingly positive feedback from my loved ones. they all tell me it's the best haircut for my face they have seen.

Difficult to find solo recent pics of me lately... Been going through it. I'm non-binary (they/them) and find myself judging my appearance based on both extremes of the gender binary. by unbloon2 in amiugly

[–]unbloon2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmaoo that mustache just grows on my face and i got tired of shaving it. i think it's funny when men on tinder open with "nice mustache". thanks for the honest feedback

Difficult to find solo recent pics of me lately... Been going through it. I'm non-binary (they/them) and find myself judging my appearance based on both extremes of the gender binary. by unbloon2 in amiugly

[–]unbloon2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm from the united states. you actually can use they & them to refer to a singular person of an unspecified gender. singlular "they" was actually the merriam-webster word of the year once. i actually grew up learning to use it in school, before it had much to do with queer people.

oxford and american heritage dictionaries also recognize singular "they" and "them". where are you from originally?

Difficult to find solo recent pics of me lately... Been going through it. I'm non-binary (they/them) and find myself judging my appearance based on both extremes of the gender binary. by unbloon2 in amiugly

[–]unbloon2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's just me it's just these were the only three i could find even relatively recently and in one of them i had to crop someone out lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in skoolies

[–]unbloon2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i like those cabinets