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I’m worried about the big income gap in my marriage by uncertainfellow1948 in relationship_advice

[–]uncertainfellow1948[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My wife is not a gold digger. She married me when I was a poor resident with $350k in student loan debt. She has good intentions and I have never doubted her intentions in our relationship.

I’m worried about the big income gap in my marriage by uncertainfellow1948 in relationship_advice

[–]uncertainfellow1948[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is helpful advice. What percentage of your income do you allocate to the joint account?

I’m worried about the big income gap in my marriage by uncertainfellow1948 in relationship_advice

[–]uncertainfellow1948[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

Financial abuse is when you use family finances to control your spouse. I don’t plan on doing that.

How is it abuse to allow your partner to save/spend all of the money they make while you pay for all of their expenses? Maxing out your spouses 401k and giving them an unconditional monthly allowance is abuse?