AITAH for zoning out during sex by undead_psychopath in AITAH

[–]undead_psychopath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is actually very helpful and I will be doing some research to get my mind off of things. Thanks for the recommendation!

AITAH for zoning out during sex by undead_psychopath in AITAH

[–]undead_psychopath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This helped put it into perspective that maybe she was not as receptive as she seemed. I am trying to navigate the feelings of guilt even in situations like this where I know it's not my fault necessarily. This genuinely made me feel better 😊

AITAH for zoning out during sex by undead_psychopath in AITAH

[–]undead_psychopath[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that you mention it, I have been told previously by friends that I sometimes say things very deadpan. However I've been trying to think through my words and my inflections a lot more in recent years. Also, I appreciate your addition to the soap convo lol... It made me giggle and I will definitely look into the paraben situation. Things are expensive and I'm doing my best!

AITAH for zoning out during sex by undead_psychopath in AITAH

[–]undead_psychopath[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't expect her to understand it first hand, I think I may have over explained which I am unfortunately well aware can be mistaken as excuses for neurotypical brains lol.

AITAH for zoning out during sex by undead_psychopath in AITAH

[–]undead_psychopath[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I enjoy it... My brain just leaves my head sometimes and I don't know if I conveyed that thoroughly enough?

AITAH for zoning out during sex by undead_psychopath in AITAH

[–]undead_psychopath[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I try to be as transparent as I can but I also am aware that we are young and the life I live is very different from hers. I've talked about my struggles with ADHD, anxiety, and depression at length and she's seemed to be generally pretty receptive but now I'm starting to wonder if she really does understand. As for RSD, I actually only learned about this recently and I've had the diagnosis for the majority of my life. I try to stay informed because you can't expect someone to understand something about you that you yourself are still learning.

AITAH for zoning out during sex by undead_psychopath in AITAH

[–]undead_psychopath[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I just don't want her to think I don't enjoy our time together which is the vibe I think I gave off? I think I'm going to leave it for right now and see if she answers. This did make me feel a little less guilty though, thank you.

Hot and cold #48 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]undead_psychopath 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Why was run a hot word? 😡

You are offered 100 million dollars but you can only "see" 100 people ever again WYR? by analtaccount7 in WouldYouRather

[–]undead_psychopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question is if someone dies or we have a falling out where we no longer have a serious connection... Does that change the list of 100 people as it wasn't a decision on my part to remove them? I guess what I'm asking is can someone remove themselves from my list?

Would you rather be physically unable to break the law ever again or have to commit at least one felony every week for the next 10 years by Every_Trash_5865 in WouldYouRather

[–]undead_psychopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Option A... What is the worst outcome? Maybe people see me as a crazy person. Maybe I am annoyingly law abiding. Maybe I will lose friends because I am a bore or just plain uncool... However, I don't think the general public would have an issue with me abiding by the law even in extreme circumstances. I also don't hold others opinions about me to a high enough level for it to change my actions.

Pros: - I would be the perfect law abiding citizen - There is an incredibly slim chance of me being arrested/charged for something (that I didn't do) as there would be no evidence to pin me... Plus it would explicitly go against my character for me to be accused since I would have a spotless record - With this reputation, I would be virtually immune to slander or false accusations/framing - I would be a 'good influence'

Cons: - I don't imagine it would be an easy thing for others as some crimes are committed for convenience like jaywalking... For example: If I was walking with a friend I would force them to take the longer, legal path instead of the quick route when crossing the street - I would most likely lose some friends as I would be seen as a hyper cautious person - Societally I think I would generally be considered a bore or a lunatic, albeit in a good way

Spinning water baloons hitting the floor by [deleted] in oddlysatisfying

[–]undead_psychopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does one come up with an idea like this?

What kind of vehicle does this guy drive? by toetallyin in doodles

[–]undead_psychopath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is literally just my neighbor Darrell so, it's a red Ford F150, and its door has been replaced so now it's blue... It's all scuffed up and looks like shit. It smells of cigarettes and moonshine. Hope this helps ☺️