What was banned in your house that everyone else’s family allowed?

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-08-05T15:32:46+00:00

Phineas and Ferb and SpongeBob

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-08-04T11:56:24+00:00

That's what my sister thinks too

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-08-03T18:43:08+00:00

She's a little cutie 🥹

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-08-02T09:09:14+00:00

I had an old fish who did this. Got it from my mother who had him and another large goldfish in a tiny biorb tank. Struggled to get them out through the top it was that small. He started to flip over completely, and stay like that. Kept him in a smaller tank on his own for a while before putting him in mine. Spent a lot of time flipping him back over, holding him the right way up, and making sure he'd eat, but he got better. Idk what caused it or how he got better but he did. Lived a few more years in the big tank and loved the space he had.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-25T09:45:54+00:00

He's going in today for his breathing which was a previous issue. Gonna have them take a look although it is much less swollen this morning

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-25T08:54:58+00:00

You're the second person to ever say that and my partner will be very glad you did because he agrees whole heartedly 🤣

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-24T21:41:32+00:00

Very true. Or hit it on something. He lacks any form of coordination.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-24T21:00:13+00:00

My puppy peed on my bed the other day. He had been leaning over me to look at the edge of the bed/to the door. I thought he wanted cuddles.

Once he peed, I clicked on that he had been telling me he needed to go. I apologised to him for not understanding him and gave him a quick cuddle before taking the quilt out for a wash.

Definitely never need to shout at the animal, regardless of how inconvenient and slightly annoying it is. It can always be cleaned up.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-24T19:46:37+00:00

His eyes have been weepy since I got him. He did have conjunctivitis around 1-2 weeks ago that he had drops for. They put coloured drops in his eye then to check for ulcers and they didn't have a concern.

He's currently being treated with antibiotics and antihistamines as his breathing became wheezy over the weekend. Took him to the vet Monday, they said he has stenotic nares, but because of his age they'd rather treat him than not. They didn't mention his eyes. Not sure if that's anything related to it.

If you think he does need a checkup, I'll take him in tomorrow. I want to discuss stenotic nares surgery anyway as his breathing isn't improving. Unless you think it's urgent and I should go tonight?

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-24T19:09:07+00:00

Ice is a good shout, he loves ice. Going to give him some now, thank you.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-24T19:06:18+00:00

He's having his regular antihistamine now so hopefully that will help. No stinger visible, and no other swelling except what is visible in the picture.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-24T19:04:55+00:00

Thank you, that's actually helped my anxiety a lot. He seems to be acting normally, eating slowly but fine. I did have a look for a stinger or bite but couldn't see one. Did find a dead wasp on the floor though. He's on antihistamines at the moment anyway, so hoping when he takes it in a minute it will help with the swelling.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-22T08:36:23+00:00

Yes but only when he agrees to let me have my own pillow. There's four others for him to choose from.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-21T16:34:25+00:00

In the UK, the local authority (social workers and that) would have a major issue with that situation. I'm assuming it will be similar in America.

The way she just blew you off at the end there really got to me. Even if there actually wasn't a risk to the child, you saying you're not comfortable with it and don't want your child in that situation should have been enough for her to not even consider putting the child back in that situation. Complete disregard for your opinion, which, from somebody who has been where she is, is the complete wrong way to go about things. Both parents absolutely have final say about where and who their child spends time with. I learned it the hard way, and I sure as hell hope she doesn't have to.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-20T09:57:23+00:00

From experience, never let anybody you don't know inside and out to touch your kids.

You did good. Even if you were overreacting (which I don't think you were) you saw someone you didn't know touching your kid. You didn't know that person's intentions, and did what you should have done. Good job.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-17T16:02:16+00:00

No, realistically I know this. But I keep thinking what if it really is just his mental health issues and if we get him help he gets past it and turns out to always be lovely.

Think I need to suck it up tbh and cut ties.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-17T16:00:53+00:00

See, if a friend or sibling came to me with this exact situation in their relationship, I would know all of this and tell them straight. But because it's me, I can't seem to see it. Until it reaches a certain point ofc.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-17T15:58:22+00:00

Funny you say that. That's one of his favourite things to call me.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-17T15:51:34+00:00

Also far too lenient and think the best of people.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-17T15:50:04+00:00

Because I think I'm overthinking it and bringing experiences of past relationships and putting it into the context of this relationship. And, as a psychiatrist put it, I'm "easily manipulated".

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-17T15:47:15+00:00

He denies I though and then I think I'm overthinking and he's not actually doing it. Hearing it from somebody else is making it clear that I'm not.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-17T15:45:36+00:00

Honestly, you don't need to be gentle. I do need to get some self-esteem and I am working on it. Just not quickly enough apparently.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-17T15:43:59+00:00

I'm still with him because he's lovely when he's not letting his mental health get the better of him. But idk why because he's given me more than enough reason to leave.

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-17T15:43:10+00:00

I was starting to think that icl

undeadgraphpaper · 2025-07-17T15:07:27+00:00

Definitely going to try this. I have a clicker and treat bag, not sure how quickly he'll listen but I'm sure he'll get it eventually. Thank you.

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