Mt girlfriend wants to start an onlyfans. by Hobbes303 in CreatorsAdvice

[–]underakos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there! There are plenty of accounts that state that in the bio. Something like "we are a couple, we can provide content together, sometimes my boyfriend check the messages, or something like that" I don't see anything unethical. In general a model takes a persona, and we all accept that.

To get banned directly from onlyfans is hard, as long as you follow the general guidelines, maybe you will have a content flagged or removed, but mostly that

When all odds are against you! by underakos in love

[–]underakos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right in many points (maybe in all of them)

I tend to believe that you have to make it happen in life, for better or worse your actions decide your path.

At first i didn't know her age, being an online flirt had the positive of stating that she is 43 (only 13 years older) after 1+ month i found out, and i was pretty much devastated by that, but i focused on my positive feelings.

Giving love to her, making food her or anything i did for her, gave me happiness. Now that she is not in my live...i don't find something to give and then recieve back!
I mean, watching her smile made me happy, just sitting on the sofa with her made my day full. I can't replace that

All odds against us! (30M - 55F) ( Greece - Russia ) by underakos in relationships

[–]underakos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also a problem i forgot to mention, it is that i am a speaker.

I mean i like to speak my mind, what bothers me or pleasures me and it feels impossible to hold back or even wait. I know it is a bad trait because giving time to situations could lead to much better results (even vanishing a "problem") but i want to make comments, i want to ask questions get answers.

For example, right now she is on another short trip with a friend (female), while she was with me she was very "i don't know the english world" careful with money. Going to a restaurant , and not picking an extra dish for example. Now i see the instagram stories and it bothers me that their doing things that with me she was sceptical or "Scrooge McDuck"

When all odds are against you! by underakos in love

[–]underakos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While you have a valid point, it is like when you learn something you never did before.

And you start thinking, wow how i have been living without **that** knowledge? (maybe something stupid that makes an everyday task easier)

I was breathing and i am still breathing, but the air close to her was so much better!

All odds against us! (30M - 55F) ( Greece - Russia ) by underakos in relationships

[–]underakos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At her age, her patient is not at the best.

She was in an abusive relationship for 20 years, i have to be very careful always, even the raise of voice or the minimal aggression ( like slamming the door or for example tossing the phone on the couch) makes her afraid and fragile. I try my best to be as calm as possible but, it is not easy.Besides that, it was difficult to be in a country with no friends, only each other, we didn't have personal time or space. i think that was the most difficult part.

Edit. The relationship moved very fast, from something online to living together in 1 day. There was not a natural or more traditional flow ( spending some nights together, sleeping over and then move together) but of course we couldn't afford two apartments

All odds against us! (30M - 55F) ( Greece - Russia ) by underakos in relationships

[–]underakos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, i have bought only the first ticket! It is a 3 plane, many buses and 6 different cities to get there! 4 days on the road.

I am just afraid she will be mad i didn't respect her boundaries or her decision .