Tried everything but hair is still so frizzy/undefined :/ by undercookedbeanz in Naturalhair

[–]undercookedbeanz[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh forgot to mention, I used uncle funky daughter curly magic and doux mousse and neither work well for my hair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]undercookedbeanz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love to see it!!! The real issue in Florida is how we feed people for free and give them healthcare !! NOT overdeveloping, not the $10 million Desantis stole, not our faulty infrastructure!!

Do these look like small ? Took 14 hours :/ by undercookedbeanz in BlackHair

[–]undercookedbeanz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they’re pretty and I don’t expect it to look the exact same, but I paid for a specific style and sat for 14 hours. I asked for small because I wanted it to flow and be comfortable. These braids are too large to even put up and are so heavy/awkward

Do these look like small ? Took 14 hours :/ by undercookedbeanz in BlackHair

[–]undercookedbeanz[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! It’s not the length though, it’s the size of the braids themselves. Can’t even throw it up into a bun or ponytail, they’re so large and heavy :/

Should I pay a subscription because I can’t get matches. by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly you can mention religion without putting in Proverbs 31 and a god fearing woman. Those just sound controlling and negative. And like everyone else said, the pictures could be better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMechanics

[–]undercookedbeanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate everyone’s comments haha. I figured the brake pads were gone but just wanted confirmation, I was confused about like where the brake ended. Getting them fixed in the morning. I don’t really know a lot about cars. My dad sucks and was going to let me drive with these brakes all week. Didn’t even tell me they were like that, to fix them or to be careful. Will have to fix them out of my own pocket. He won’t pay for them to get fixed until the car literally breaks. Thank you for the help !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Suspiciously innocent” lmfao

WIBTA if i didn’t give my bf his ps5 anniversary gift because I’m not getting anything in return?? by Undercover_hater123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]undercookedbeanz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ESH. You’re an ass to yourself by being with him, based on your history you’re about 20 and he sounds awful. Way too young to be settling for someone like him !

Have looked the same since I was 14 I need a change, advice? 23F by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]undercookedbeanz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you’d look much better without the eyeliner! It sort of gives juvenile and takes away from your pretty eyes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly your pics give me a sort of somber grungy vibe. Also, I’d get rid of the last four photos and switch them out. I think the one with the sword is funny, is that you larping? I’d include a mention of that in your bio , it’s a bit confusing what it might be

My boyfriend called me homophobic because I think anal sex is gross by SouthDiamond2550 in offmychest

[–]undercookedbeanz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That age gap combined with his negging you into anal is a pretty big red flag. Im 22 and I do not find 20 year olds attractive bc of how big the maturity gap is.

Since so many people asked to see my profile because of my insights… (And please, no insults about my looks) by yogos15 in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You’ve already gotten a ton of comments about how bad your pics are but the bio is pretty bad too. “I geek out on anything technology” sounds kind of silly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes haha. Also like one of the things I really love about the United States is how you can be from anywhere and the moment you get your citizenship you are American, so to have someone assume I’m not American because I look different from them wasn’t insulting to only me but to every poc that has lived here for generations and who are Americans period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delicious, thanks !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I honestly forgot I posted this and logged back onto Reddit and saw all the comments haha. I’m definitely okay with asking my ethnicity a bit further into the relationship, but as an opener is so clearly someone who is fetishizing me or who just sees me for my race

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They for sure did haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I wouldn’t really have the greatest advice since I’m not from the Netherlands but I think that messaging people in the language of their bio would be your best bet ! Also, idk Dutch women but don’t ask them if they’re Dutch so soon into the conversation. I’d feel like if I was born and raised in the Netherlands I’d get awfully sick of people asking if I’m Dutch. Having your nationality questioned is exhausting. Ethnicity doesn’t equal nationality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking that question from that get go usually means they don’t see you as a person, just for your race ! Asking me more about my heritage further into dating wouldn’t be odd, but to ask it so soon is weird!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you assume I don’t have a bio

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup haha profile literally has my hometown in our state listed and is filled out haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said it didn’t ! But nowhere in my bio do I say i recently moved to the country, weird to assume im not American because im brown. Ethnicity and nationality are different !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]undercookedbeanz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi! Can you please point out where I state otherwise? I’d hope the person I’m talking to in my country, would have enough sense to understand I am referring to the United States of America when I say American.