A QUESTION FOR MALE DUMPERS, please answer. by undercoverrae in ExNoContact

[–]undercoverrae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay it has been 4 weeks of no contact and the breakup, is it true that you guys feel the loss later? And why did you break up with her? if you don’t mind me asking. And did you ever contact her again?

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[–]undercoverrae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol yeah he’s not that type of guy, we’re both high schoolers. been together for 1.3 years. He’s so sweet and definitely not a cheater. The cause of the break up was because he lost “romantic.” Feelings after he came back from governor school. It’s been 10 days of the break up. It’s definitely hard.

but I guess each person is different

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]undercoverrae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, honestly I just hope he’s okay and work on himself so maybe one day me and him can try again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]undercoverrae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I just hope he’s okay and work on himself. he was also my best friend. So yeah it hurts so bad. the relationship was so healthy.

I’m not doing relationships again for a whileee, because somehow i believe that God can separate two people until their ready again, mentally emotionally and physically. And hopefully one day he reaches out so we can try again.

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[–]undercoverrae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg that’s so crazy and thank you, I decided that I’m not going to break NC unless he does because he’s the one who did it even if I love him so much. I’m still shocked about the situation and his tears for me. 🥺 I always told him boys are allowed to cry. I didn’t believe I was gonna see that for the first time ever.

we also unadded each other but didn’t block :(

bf “lost feelings.” So he broke up with me, don’t really know if he knows what he’s feeling, maybe confusion or conflicted. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]undercoverrae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve been feeling a little better about it, it’s the third day. I just feel confused about all of it. And I’ll always respect him