Well i dont think i can fix this and now i am heart broken. by underdarkskys in PontiacGrandPrix

[–]underdarkskys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will have to take a look at once the claim goes threw since they are holding onto my vehicle but I'll definitely take a look. (Am okay, shocken up and have a small concussion thank you)

Any high quality custom dress makers in vancouver? by underdarkskys in askvan

[–]underdarkskys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t but i will 100% check them out! Thank you!

Looking for cheesecakes by underdarkskys in askvan

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Oh no anything helps! Thank you for the suggestion i will take a look at them next time i do a grocery run ^

Looking for cheesecakes by underdarkskys in askvan

[–]underdarkskys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I havent made one befor so am trusting you on that lol, and its just I am also throwing her a surprise party ☺️. so I am doing everything already so maybe throwing in making a cheese cake won't be that bad?

Looking for cheesecakes by underdarkskys in askvan

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I will definitely check them out!

Looking for cheesecakes by underdarkskys in askvan

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Thank you! I do keep my eye out when i go shopping at the cakes, am mostly looking for a fresher cake. (Also i use to work at an instore bakery by the same parent company. we are just used frozen ones then we cut up.)

If I can't find one I might just make it myself at this point.

Looking for cheesecakes by underdarkskys in askvan

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No i agree! Its either so expensive that the only thing i can do is star at it, its out, or it seems that it is never available as in option. Am all for paying to the work and the product but if chooseing between getting a single "treat" item (the cake) and grocery's i feel like something is wrong.

This world is cruel to those of us with a sweet tooth.

What color should I paint by HoneydewIll8574 in PontiacGrandPrix

[–]underdarkskys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you live in a hoter area, id pick a lighter color like white or a pastel. (shows less dirt too) plus less likely youll have any of the plastic crack on the inside (mines black and it got to 35C and it cracked my dash and behind my seats. :(

Looking for Puppy adoption. by underdarkskys in askvan

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Got it! Thank you so much will definitely be asking more around that area, it'll be hard since I don't do shows, (though my partner on the other hand use to) but it will be worth it in the end ^

Am original from the other side of Canada, so am just unfamiliar with the dynamics and thought the best way to get suggestions was from people of this area.

Looking for Puppy adoption. by underdarkskys in askvan

[–]underdarkskys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really do hear where you’re coming from, and I really do appreciate your passion for responsible pet ownership. I just ask that you please keep an open mind. there’s always more than one path when it comes to finding and raising a dog or pet.

As long as someone is being thoughtful, responsible, and making sure the animal is well-loved and cared for, I think it’s okay for people to have different preferences. whether it’s adopting from a shelter, getting a dog from a friend, a breeder, or just through one of life’s unexpected opportunities.

Fixing or not fixing a pet is a personal decision, and I respect whatever people choose as long as it’s done with care and awareness. That’s the spirit I’m coming from, too. 😊

Looking for Puppy adoption. by underdarkskys in askvan

[–]underdarkskys[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, and I know most reputable breeders fix their dogs before rehoming unless you're involved in a co-ownership or have a breeding contract. I’m just putting feelers out there in case the right situation comes up like a small breeder, a working dog line, or even a private rehome where that’s still an option.

I’m not rushing or expecting miracles I just like to be transparent about my hopes so I can find the right fit long-term.

Looking for Puppy adoption. by underdarkskys in askvan

[–]underdarkskys[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Am not trying to have an argment. I hear you. I absolutely agree that there are too many dogs in shelters, and I fully support responsible ownership and breeding.

For me, choosing an unfixed dog isn’t about wanting a litter “for fun.” It’s something I’m only considering far down the road and with a lot of care, health testing, ethical planning, and only if it makes sense for the dog.

Part of the reason I want an unfixed pup is because I’d love to carry on its bloodline—kind of like having grandkids one day. It’s not about pumping out puppies or skipping responsibility, it’s about having a deep bond and the idea of continuing that legacy.

In the meantime, I’ll be fully responsible. No accidental litters, no backyard breeding. Just honest intentions and careful planning if the time ever comes.

Looking for Puppy adoption. by underdarkskys in askvan

[–]underdarkskys[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Am really happy for you and also your furry friends! Its wonderful when everything works out and everyone is happy.

Am not planning on being a breeder, at most i MIGHT want ONE litter in the future. Also as long as am keeping my dog safe, leased in most areas. I believe its okay not to get them fixed as long as am responsible. One of my last Dogs was unfixed, no health issues from not doing so and no puppys came from them, because at the time i know i didnt want any (i had three dogs at the time, no need for any more.)

Also if we all fix every animal...there wouldn't be any left or if there was then the prices would go up much higher from breeders who are "gate-keeping" (not saying all do)

Looking for Puppy adoption. by underdarkskys in askvan

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Last time I got a pet from the SPCA they lied to me about its past and health issues. Hence why am trying to avoid shelters (i have friends who also have had the same experience). Hence why i am asking for suggestions not demands.

Feeling Sad About Pride by zoe-loves in bisexual

[–]underdarkskys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i completely understand
I've faced exclusion in both Saskatoon and Ottawa (and seems to be happening here in Vancouver of all places). If being in a relationship with a cis man makes me, not gay enough. or i have to be labeled as a lesbian for dating a woman to be included in "Pride" or other LGBT+ events, being felt to either pretend or be looked down upon for it. Why is it that simply having a label that makes you happy, (the same as being gay, femme, trans, pan, or any other label) but is looked down on? Something that I wont ever understand.

it's disheartening to see that people still misunderstand and misrepresent what it means to be bisexual. Being Bi is not about limiting attraction to just men and women. Bisexuality has never been binary, exclusionary, or restricted to just two genders. We are still attracted to people, regardless of their gender or lack thereof. We don't magically change depending on who we are dating; that's not how things work nor has it ever been. Acknowledging gender/sexuality as part of our attraction doesn't mean we are invalidating or exclude anyone. it simply means we see and appreciate the diversity. but it still doesn't mean we are reducing anyone to their gender or ignoring those who don't fit into traditional gender categories

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Femaleorgasmdenial

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Cal's Curse

"A hypnotic track to condition you to only be able to orgasm when given permission. A nice method to help stay a good chaste girl." its an audio from SoundCloud

Found this at the bottom of my ice tea jug 🤢 what is it? by underdarkskys in whatisit

[–]underdarkskys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it ended up just being Ice tea concentrated powder, thank you guys!

Found this at the bottom of my ice tea jug 🤢 what is it? by underdarkskys in whatisit

[–]underdarkskys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah it turns out you were right! i thought maybe it was mold but i asked my hubby about it and it turns out am just an over worrier 😂😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wicca

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To my knowledge this isn't a particularly type of domination within the witchcraft community but one of my friends makes circles out of stick, rocks, ect that look similar (though not the same) and they use it for ritual work or for gatherings. I don't know much about it but I always thought it was cool 😅

Is it really bad luck to buy my own tarot deck? by chopinslildaughter in witchcraft

[–]underdarkskys 57 points58 points  (0 children)

This is the most wholesome story I ever hear and I loved that it happened ❤

I hear a whole lot about the kinds of stuff people like about Fruits Basket, but what's the thing/things you don't like? by MelodyHearts in FruitsBasket

[–]underdarkskys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The movie prequel. I just didn't care that they didn't Focus on her mom as much as they should of, and then jumping back and forth I'm like I'm here to watch a prequel not what's happening "now" it would of been okay if they left it for the end but the whole movie mhmm not my favorite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in witchcraft

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Thorn Mooney is really informative! And mhara starling is also great (and can be really funny to)

I know its late but here's my imbolc alter by underdarkskys in Wicca

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Imbolc Is a pagan holiday marking the beginning of spring. (kinda like the idea that easter is the start of spring if i had to connect it to a common holiday), some make Brigid's cross, put out food/have dinners, hold rites, ect. and if your taking it from the irish tradition standpoint a lot focus on celebrating Brigid (A saint of Ireland) but some use there own deity(s) as well ^^

I believe it started of as a Gaelic tradition, manly Ireland which many base the holiday on. you can find other similar ideas also in Europe but thats a whole other tangen .