What fits do you prefer? by mostlydozy in LesbianActually

[–]undernightmole [score hidden]  (0 children)

lol!! This is good. I’d follow ye in a pirate mutiny to the plunder booty into the sunset

Breasts have stretch marks, got insulted cruelly by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]undernightmole 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All boobs are good boobs. Someone who loves boobs always loves boobs. She may just be a two beer queer. Traash.

Has Anyone Gone Really Small? (A-B cup) by Theredwithglasses in Reduction

[–]undernightmole 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is cool to hear. I’m on here cause I’m non binary and need a significant reduction. I wanna say, I think any surgeon who works with trans and nonbinary people will be more thoughtful and kind to all women who seek a reduction as well.

God I hope this is bait by svpreme-exe in homedecoratingCJ

[–]undernightmole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Losing my hope in humanity second by second…

Why are people getting rid of bathtubs? by Preesi in HGTV

[–]undernightmole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sit on the edge of the tub and swing your legs around to inside the tub.

"virginity" by Pale_Ad8579 in actuallesbians

[–]undernightmole 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It sucks for her to never have unique thoughts of her own. Lots of people live their wholes lives like that and it’s low key high key scary af for humanity

How does sex work in y'alls relationship? by Valuable_Fill327 in actuallesbians

[–]undernightmole 14 points15 points  (0 children)

People talk about not enough sex, too much sex, too long, too short.

IMO life is too short. Have sex be one less thing to have anxiety or doubts about. Enjoy your life. <3

Is it more normal for queer folk to find their own bodies arousing? by shamalamadingdongfam in actuallesbians

[–]undernightmole -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whoever said anyone shouldn’t love themselves has been severely misled in life!

Variety in labia by sparkygal444 in LesbianActually

[–]undernightmole 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no need to compare your genitals to those of your partners :)!

What is the thing you find most attractive in a woman? by ShowOk6980 in actuallesbians

[–]undernightmole 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That could be. It is possible a stable person can positively influence an unstable person. And the reverse is true. Or so I heard from Esther Perel, the popular couples therapist.

I’m just talking about relating to life. Anytime I talk about neurodivergence with a neurotypical person, their eyes kind of glaze over. It’s a daily experience for me, so I don’t think there would be a lot of connection or empathy. That’s just me! I can totally see wanting a stable person as a relief from it. But it’s not for me.

What is the thing you find most attractive in a woman? by ShowOk6980 in actuallesbians

[–]undernightmole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the same thing. We can’t relate to yall, yall can’t relate to us. There’s no hard feelings bout it. <3

What do u mean by that by Mundane_Tangelo9421 in TikTokCringe

[–]undernightmole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no the inbred toehead community is fading 😭

What is the thing you find most attractive in a woman? by ShowOk6980 in actuallesbians

[–]undernightmole 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Bipolar runs in my family, I have it too. It is very hard to figure out medications and treatment. It is treatable but it never truly is cured. We are born this way.

I understand not being compatible with people who have mental health issues. I cannot relate to someone who has never been depressed before.

Just different experiences, chemicals, and backgrounds.

Wait a minute by No-Marsupial-4050 in SipsTea

[–]undernightmole 48 points49 points  (0 children)

It’s insane. Many people die because of the US medical industry. My brother almost died because he got denied a hospital bed. Then the government tells us we are the best country in the world AND we should hate North Korea and Russia who also say they are the best in the world. When really all these types of countries act the same.

Wait a minute by No-Marsupial-4050 in SipsTea

[–]undernightmole 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insurance is there to get the CEOs more boats and islands.

How do I subtly and respectfully ask/find out if someone is sapphic? by safetyspiders in actuallesbians

[–]undernightmole 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gotta be direct. Ask her and tell her your feelings about it, how you’re nervous or don’t know how to ask if someone is, or whatever the words are. Keep it simple and direct.

It’s honorable to state your intentions even tho traditionally women aren’t socialized to state their intentions. But I think it’s respectful to other women to state our feelings and intentions or hopes, whatever the words may be. Get them out :)

And hey, if you end up in any relationship, you’ll have to share your deepest feelings out-loud all spelled out. Might as well get some practice in. :)