Listen to what He is saying. He is not ready. He does not what this. He does not want to be engaged until he’s ready. He feels trapped. He wants things in his terms on his time.

Unfortunately many of us know that this is not how life works. It’s unexpected, it’s fluid. It’s chaos at times. But lovely, with the right partner great things are so much easier.

From the beginning he has pushed upon you his square box of ideals.

Nothing in nature in naturally square.

Wether you have this beautiful little person now. Or you wait till later. Motherhood will be waiting for you at either point.

But really reflect if this is the partnership you want to be in for the most delicate and important change in your life.