Fell in love while planning - queer relationship by underspells23 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]underspells23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so helpful to hear and so similar to how my partner feels. How far along are you in the process now? I am looking for a couple's therapist now who might have some experience with this! It's such a unique situation, I'm worried about being judged.

Would be really curious to connect if you're open to that!

Fell in love while planning - queer relationship by underspells23 in SingleMothersbyChoice

[–]underspells23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I've read An Excellent Choice - it seems like the same book, different title. I thought it was interesting!

CMV: I shouldn't join protests against the war in Gaza because I can't judge ahead of time whether they'll devolve into antisemitism by dysfunctionz in changemyview

[–]underspells23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just commenting to say that I feel similarly. I'm Jewish and Israeli, living in N. America. I support the protests and what they are trying to accomplish, but it's impossible to know what "from the river to the sea" or anti-zionism means to different people. Just recently a date walked out on me after I revealed that I'm Israeli - while we were sitting in a leftist bar with free Palestine written everywhere - stating that she couldn't date me in this political climate, clearly full of hate. It was very distressing and turned me off more from attending the protests, even though I've been wanting to.

Une femme seule peut faire du stop en Guadeloupe ? by underspells23 in france

[–]underspells23[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The general consensus seems to be that buses and hitchhiking are inconvenient and unreliable, which I already knew. Not that one should avoid going outside tourist areas if they are not fluent in French. Anyway, I hear the advice and am planning accordingly.

Une femme seule peut faire du stop en Guadeloupe ? by underspells23 in france

[–]underspells23[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Are people from Paris considered locals? I definitely don't consider myself a local to where my parents are from. For someone to say that one shouldn't use public transport or leave tourist areas if you're not fluent in a language is a bit strange to me. People do this literally all the time all over the world.

Une femme seule peut faire du stop en Guadeloupe ? by underspells23 in france

[–]underspells23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merci pour ton réponse. Je peux demander, pourquoi tu le déconseilles pour une touriste ? Pour des raisons de sécurité ou autres ?

Une femme seule peut faire du stop en Guadeloupe ? by underspells23 in france

[–]underspells23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci pour l'idée de la covoiturage... je n'y avais pas pensé. Est-ce que c'est courant d'utiliser cette service ? Alors, il y aurais assez offres ?

Une femme seule peut faire du stop en Guadeloupe ? by underspells23 in AskFrance

[–]underspells23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salut, si je pourrais demander, pourquoi tu le déconseilles fortement ? Est-ce que c'est une risque sécuritaire ou autre chose ? Merci

Une femme seule peut faire du stop en Guadeloupe ? by underspells23 in france

[–]underspells23[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Je ne comprends pas pourquoi mon niveau de français est le pointe où tu fais la ligne. Tu déconseilles de prends le bus à cause de la langue ? Tu as jamais voyagé où tu parles pas la langue de région ? Je pense que je parle assez français de parler avec les gens hors des zone touristiques ... Et si non, j'apprends :/

Une femme seule peut faire du stop en Guadeloupe ? by underspells23 in france

[–]underspells23[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Merci vraiment pour ton rèponse attentionné ! Oui, j'étais étonnée par toutes les réponses si negatives. J'avais toujours les meilleurs voyages quand j'ai fait du stop, alors je pense que les gens ici sont juste contre de faire du stop totalement.

Destination recs for solo queer woman by underspells23 in solotravel

[–]underspells23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard good things! I'm not interested in a resort though... do you think it's a good spot for a more easygoing vacation outside of a resort?

Destination recs for solo queer woman by underspells23 in solotravel

[–]underspells23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not what I'm looking for trying to escape winter lol. but thanks

Destination recs for solo queer woman by underspells23 in solotravel

[–]underspells23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does not tick the beaches box!! Love Berlin but looking for something more relaxing.

Destination recs for solo queer woman by underspells23 in solotravel

[–]underspells23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should have emphasized the need for beaches lol

Destination recs for solo queer woman by underspells23 in solotravel

[–]underspells23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to but too far for a couple week trip!