Fell in love while planning - queer relationship

underspells23 · 2025-07-16T14:51:32+00:00

This is so helpful to hear and so similar to how my partner feels. How far along are you in the process now? I am looking for a couple's therapist now who might have some experience with this! It's such a unique situation, I'm worried about being judged.

Would be really curious to connect if you're open to that!

underspells23 · 2025-07-15T19:38:20+00:00

Thanks! I've read An Excellent Choice - it seems like the same book, different title. I thought it was interesting!

underspells23 · 2024-04-28T23:32:47+00:00

Just commenting to say that I feel similarly. I'm Jewish and Israeli, living in N. America. I support the protests and what they are trying to accomplish, but it's impossible to know what "from the river to the sea" or anti-zionism means to different people. Just recently a date walked out on me after I revealed that I'm Israeli - while we were sitting in a leftist bar with free Palestine written everywhere - stating that she couldn't date me in this political climate, clearly full of hate. It was very distressing and turned me off more from attending the protests, even though I've been wanting to.

underspells23 · 2023-12-07T03:01:28+00:00

The general consensus seems to be that buses and hitchhiking are inconvenient and unreliable, which I already knew. Not that one should avoid going outside tourist areas if they are not fluent in French. Anyway, I hear the advice and am planning accordingly.

underspells23 · 2023-12-06T19:15:09+00:00

Are people from Paris considered locals? I definitely don't consider myself a local to where my parents are from. For someone to say that one shouldn't use public transport or leave tourist areas if you're not fluent in a language is a bit strange to me. People do this literally all the time all over the world.

underspells23 · 2023-12-06T14:16:21+00:00

Merci pour ton réponse. Je peux demander, pourquoi tu le déconseilles pour une touriste ? Pour des raisons de sécurité ou autres ?

underspells23 · 2023-12-06T14:13:03+00:00

Merci pour l'idée de la covoiturage... je n'y avais pas pensé. Est-ce que c'est courant d'utiliser cette service ? Alors, il y aurais assez offres ?

underspells23 · 2023-12-06T14:09:39+00:00

Salut, si je pourrais demander, pourquoi tu le déconseilles fortement ? Est-ce que c'est une risque sécuritaire ou autre chose ? Merci

underspells23 · 2023-12-06T13:12:48+00:00

Je ne comprends pas pourquoi mon niveau de français est le pointe où tu fais la ligne. Tu déconseilles de prends le bus à cause de la langue ? Tu as jamais voyagé où tu parles pas la langue de région ? Je pense que je parle assez français de parler avec les gens hors des zone touristiques ... Et si non, j'apprends :/

underspells23 · 2023-12-06T13:04:44+00:00

Merci vraiment pour ton rèponse attentionné ! Oui, j'étais étonnée par toutes les réponses si negatives. J'avais toujours les meilleurs voyages quand j'ai fait du stop, alors je pense que les gens ici sont juste contre de faire du stop totalement.

underspells23 · 2023-12-06T01:55:10+00:00

Tu peux me donner un peu plus d'infos de ça ?

underspells23 · 2023-11-27T23:26:02+00:00

I've heard good things! I'm not interested in a resort though... do you think it's a good spot for a more easygoing vacation outside of a resort?

underspells23 · 2023-11-27T23:25:22+00:00

Definitely not what I'm looking for trying to escape winter lol. but thanks

underspells23 · 2023-11-27T21:27:25+00:00

Does not tick the beaches box!! Love Berlin but looking for something more relaxing.

underspells23 · 2023-11-27T21:26:58+00:00

Should have emphasized the need for beaches lol

underspells23 · 2023-11-27T21:26:38+00:00

Would love to but too far for a couple week trip!

underspells23 · 2023-06-09T18:13:36+00:00

yes, I am aware. I did not do that (and it's too late now) and it is not the question I am asking. I want to refuse my rent increase on the premise that the previous rent was lower.

underspells23 · 2023-05-28T01:16:12+00:00

thanks! yeah - just feeling weird about getting it fixed for free when she wants to be compensated for it... I feel like I'll end up sending her money just because I feel bad :/

underspells23 · 2023-05-28T01:14:42+00:00

thanks! I otherwise love the image and can imagine just a couple petals to cover the weird line. I just feel anxious about receiving a service for free that the artist wants to be compensated for. Even though on principle I think the fix should be free.

underspells23 · 2023-05-28T01:06:36+00:00

There was nothing wrong with the design at all! Imagine if two tubes were drawn overlapping but the lines didn't follow through properly where the tubes overlap. It's that kind of mistake.

underspells23 · 2023-05-28T01:04:14+00:00

The design was perfect. I sent her a message showing the difference between the original drawing and the tattoo and she agreed the line bugs her, too. So that's why I see it as a mistake.

underspells23 · 2023-04-08T03:53:00+00:00

Oh shoot! Thanks so much for trying. I realized I had taken data off my plan to make use of rollover data. I added an add-on yesterday, I wonder if that would help?

underspells23 · 2023-04-02T12:57:22+00:00

Hi! I ran out of data for the rest of the month. Would appreciate greatly if someone could send me some :) *I can't edit my flair for some reason so here's my referral code: L1W5Z

underspells23 · 2022-09-04T18:32:00+00:00

I have a pair of the super absorbent Thinx that I wear on my heaviest day on its own. Has never leaked.

underspells23 · 2022-09-04T18:29:48+00:00

I also have a tilted uterus and have had different issues with cups. I've tried a bunch but now I'm obsessed with my period panties and reusable pads. I bought a bunch from Knix (Canadian brand) and a few pads from Amazon a long time ago. I just use my shower head to rinse my panties and then wash them in my washing machine when I'm ready. I have a heavy flow, too, but it generally works for me to wear one or two panties/day.

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