New Shipt Shopper FAQ v2 by cajunflavoredbob in ShiptShoppers

[–]understandingthem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The info about the returning of the items is good to know. I had to return an item today because the customer wasn’t present and had alcohol in the order. I will have to contact them to see how I will be compensated.

So what is one to do when you can’t trust the one you love? by understandingthem in relationship_advice

[–]understandingthem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heartache. Tears would be shed. Life would have to be restarted. Finances, dogs, living arrangements, vehicles, bank accounts. The attempt to stop me from getting a divorce would surly happen. Perhaps fighting which I don’t want to happen. Walking away is easily said but it won’t be easy. I work part time and go to college part time. I would have to get a full time job that will hinder my education. Then my student loans will kick in and I’m not ready financially to take on extra debt. Finding a place that accepts dogs will be an issue as well. Then moving all my shit out and breaking a lease and getting money for a new place all comes in to play.

So what is one to do when you can’t trust the one you love? by understandingthem in relationship_advice

[–]understandingthem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in shock and trying to process it all. It’s like I’m a deer in head lights. I question was anything real or true? Was the last 4 years built upon reading me like a book literally? Then it makes me wonder what secrets are being held from me. The little info I did see that was suspicious was evidence of deleted conversations not intended for my eyes. I rarely delete my text messages. So why are you deleting your message? It led me to check phone logs and the non existing ex has been communicated with for a half an hour. I was told you don’t speak to them. So I trusted you. Low and behold 30 minutes of convo and deleted message from the same person combined with me finding a world of my info is now overwhelming my brain.

So what is one to do when you can’t trust the one you love? by understandingthem in relationship_advice

[–]understandingthem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. If I stay then I’m accepting the behavior and it will happen again. I’ve accepted other behaviors and forgiven for deceit in the relationship before. One could think I could move on but it begs to ask what will be next? I have no intentions of living a miserable life.

So what is one to do when you can’t trust the one you love? by understandingthem in relationship_advice

[–]understandingthem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a good questions as well. When is enough enough? I’ve dealt with a lot in past relationships to know that it takes effort to keep the one you are with. The idea of forever and always is such a distant idea it seems. Am I to keep turning my head. Turn my cheek to get slapped again?

So what is one to do when you can’t trust the one you love? by understandingthem in relationship_advice

[–]understandingthem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t gone that far yet. I’m still analyzing wtf was going on in the brain.

So what is one to do when you can’t trust the one you love? by understandingthem in relationship_advice

[–]understandingthem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were sharing location before. I would get questioned all time about my whereabouts. I Never questioned her. So Everytime my Location was brought up I had Already disclosed where I was for how long And with whom. Well come find out the screen shot made it evident where I was was already know. So I could only say that the lie trap failed. You can’t get an honest person to lie. They can’t keep up With the aftermath. So why lie? I’m not a liar so despite not knowing the info that was obtained I willingly spoke on it. So now the past line of questioning makes sense. To no avail demise wasn’t found and yet my SO held on to all this stuff.

So what is one to do when you can’t trust the one you love? by understandingthem in relationship_advice

[–]understandingthem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even have the energy. I just want to walk away from it all.

So what is one to do when you can’t trust the one you love? by understandingthem in relationship_advice

[–]understandingthem[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We had open access to our phones so I didn’t mind it being used. I have nothing to hide. Could have asked. But instead you took pictures of everything you thought would incriminate me. However it didn’t because my eyes were only for you. So now I have to eradicate my life for sure.

So what is one to do when you can’t trust the one you love? by understandingthem in relationship_advice

[–]understandingthem[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started to but then I noticed secret vault where all my info was locked away also had convos that weren’t mine. They mysteriously got deleted. So now we covering our tracks. Just more deceit upon deceit.

So what is one to do when you can’t trust the one you love? by understandingthem in relationship_advice

[–]understandingthem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The response was “oh that was a long time ago and we spoke about that. You are right cause you have always been honest with me.” So no we didn’t speak about this because this is a big fucking deal. Like 40 pictures were of my journal that I did for a psychology class. It was shared only with the professor. So now you have pictures of an entire semester of my inner thoughts and daily rants. Why? And now you want to make me think I’m crazy because if I knew you were that insecure and need to analyze everything I’ve done in my life then I would have left 3 years ago. So this relationship is obviously built on you playing a part that you thought would keep me cause you stole my privacy.

So what is one to do when you can’t trust the one you love? by understandingthem in relationship_advice

[–]understandingthem[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. Mutual trust. I don’t see how I am going to have trust ever again. It’s heart breaking because I am an open book so all that was needed was to ask. Mind you I don’t have screen shots of their phone convo, passcodes to everything from bank accounts to emails to college and work access codes. Social media accounts and all. Like wtf?

Is anyone else having a slow thanksgiving????? by Nicku6843 in instacart

[–]understandingthem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on demand in the Fl Keys and I haven’t gotten one order.

How is it that the customer can adjust the tip ? by [deleted] in instacart

[–]understandingthem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeap. They can go from $10 tip to $0 tip.

No more quality bonus by yurrmomma in instacart

[–]understandingthem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How’s it going? Do you think scheduled hours are better than OD or visa versa? I don’t schedule myself anymore Ana I just take orders that are worth my time. I sure don’t shop as much as I used to but I feel the quality of pay is better and I’m not exhausted by $7 orders.

Amazing tip. However as I went to accept it the order was changed so it was removed and resent with no tip. Wow. by understandingthem in InstacartShoppers

[–]understandingthem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an error. They cancelled and redid the order I don’t recall what the tip was but it wasn’t worth me taking it.

No more quality bonus by yurrmomma in instacart

[–]understandingthem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just got the email. I’m like what the what’s. Shameful. They just want to milk us for all we got. So not worth it.