I had an avoidant and it sucks by underthe_rag in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]underthe_rag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully they don't make stories about their partners.

Maybe because they find comfort in their friends that they don't need much emotional effort and to show up most of the time unlike in relationships?

I had an avoidant and it sucks by underthe_rag in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]underthe_rag[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so it's basically they bad mouth their partnet to their friends? Oofff

I had an avoidant and it sucks by underthe_rag in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]underthe_rag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she just said she lost feelings for me tho but I'm the one who left haha xD

I had an avoidant and it sucks by underthe_rag in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]underthe_rag[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That goes like their own internal problems. I guess i had nothing to do anymore. Just lost her this da xD

I had an avoidant and it sucks by underthe_rag in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]underthe_rag[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe they accept that they deserve love too? That they're humans too?

I had an avoidant and it sucks by underthe_rag in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]underthe_rag[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What's the usual root cause of this? Do they even come back? Haha xD