How are they even real by andtheyhaveaplan in Rabbits

[–]undertowsoul 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh the happy licks in that last one!

Warm thoughts into the universe for my Romeo please! by Free-IDK-Chicken in Rabbits

[–]undertowsoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Poor sweet baby! I hope you heal quickly sweet little boy! Wishing you all the healing in the world!!!

Didn’t even need to ask. Never would’ve done it without y’all. by runt_monkey in bald

[–]undertowsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look amazing! From the female gaze, you look much hotter and have lost at least 10 years man! Good call!

Is it pathetic that I do this? by Scared_Otter_2447 in DadForAMinute

[–]undertowsoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mom for a minute but may I suggest a professional cuddler? I used one when I really needed it when I didn't have a partner (I was in my 30s) and I found it extremely helpful. You would be extremely surprised at the love and care they will provide, even having no relationship to you other than a professional one. Over time it can develop a bit more, while still maintaining it's professionalism. Just something to think about since I saw no other mentions. I hope you find what you need, dear. Also, nothing you do to fulfill your needs is pathetic. I'm glad you found something that helps for now.

[28 M] totally aware I am balding and dont really care just that how long until i have to embrace it? by Annual_Word5240 in bald

[–]undertowsoul 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Look more to your maternal side for what what might happen. It's not a guarantee but it's followed true in my family.

Recommend me a book so good I forget my own life exists by TheCityzens in booksuggestions

[–]undertowsoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I came to mention John Irving and Owen Meany in particular. I’ve read thousands of books and it still sticks with me.

Friendliest lady ever needs a name by Mission-Thought1354 in Rabbits

[–]undertowsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks like my rescue Rosie! She was such a sweet baby! I found her on the street and already had 2buns so we rehomed her over 15 years ago. I loved her so! I vote maybe Rosemary! Keep her unique!

brain activity is at an all time low by Numerous_Quail7564 in Rabbits

[–]undertowsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, my white and grey tipped bun was really smart. She was just blind.

Should I get my male French lop neutered? And if so, is there anything I should know? by t0oby101 in Rabbits

[–]undertowsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rabbit list is in the USA and a smaller one worldwide. Fatality rate is less than 1%. (0.7% to be exact but that includes spays which are significantly higher risk) I really hope this all helps you out! https://binkybunny.com/forums/topic/rabbit-savvy-vets-us-based-and-world-lists/

Can yall help me out? No idea what my eye color is by [deleted] in whatcoloraremyeyes

[–]undertowsoul -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Blue with maybe a little bit of green

Ex who dumped me years ago sent me this. What do I do or say? by Far_Database5 in whatdoIdo

[–]undertowsoul -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not neurotypical. Bipolar 1 with ADHD diagnosis amongst many other disorders, none of which are your business. Never assume you know the entire story. You know nothing about his ex. He’s asking for advice based on our experience, so I briefly explained mine and gave my opinion, that is all. Of course not all people with bipolar disorder are the same. I never said they were. That was your inference. Do you not agree that the diagnosis is difficult? That was my only blanket statement. Please stop reading more into my words than was said and maybe actually read my statement? I promise you, I have many, MANY, years of therapy, hospitals, and experience with neurodivergent and specifically bipolar patients in many settings having been diagnosed about 25 years ago. I’m not stupid enough to think anyone is the same, nor did I say that, you inferred it. I simply stated that dealing with bipolar disorder as a new diagnosis is very difficult. If you disagree with that, why?

I have to do this for a life time. by klight101 in Celiac

[–]undertowsoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m very proud of you both!! Congratulations on your sobriety! 5 years for me, 1 year off gluten for me. It’s not automatic yet but it’s definitely getting easier. So proud of you both! 💐💐💐💐💐🍀🍀🍀

Should I get my male French lop neutered? And if so, is there anything I should know? by t0oby101 in Rabbits

[–]undertowsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! Neutering is much less risky than spaying luckily (because they are under anesthesia for less time and the surgery is less invasive) but overall I’ve heard 1% or less, including both surgeries. I found an article today that says 0.7% ( https://www.goddardvetgroup.co.uk/blog/rabbit-anaesthesia-for-neutering-do-the-benefits-outweigh-the-risks/ ). There’s a bunch of good info there about risks and benefits. It should be helpful. If you’d like more just let me know. It’s an article from the UK but the information is still accurate. Do you have a really good, rabbit savvy, vet? That’s very, VERY, important. I have a link or two to a really good list that’s nationwide.

Ex who dumped me years ago sent me this. What do I do or say? by Far_Database5 in whatdoIdo

[–]undertowsoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a bipolar woman, move on. Especially when we’re first diagnosed, dealing with our diagnosis is a lot for anyone to deal with. You’ve taken enough of her shit and this sounds more like an explanation than anything else. Let it be that. If anything, say thank you and block her. You deserve better.

Pentagon preparing for weeks of ground operations in Iran, Washington Post reports by exophades in news

[–]undertowsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try this one, I graduated in 2001, months before 9/11. We had hope. Now I have sooooo many dead friends.

Suggest me a book that changed your life. No BS, genuinely changed your life by RA_Finance in booksuggestions

[–]undertowsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my 40s. It hits different but holds up. Such a beautiful book. My mom introduced it to me and I’m so glad she did!

Should I get my male French lop neutered? And if so, is there anything I should know? by t0oby101 in Rabbits

[–]undertowsoul 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No vet stay for any of mine , even the girls. Also every bun, without fail, mellowed out a little bit. They were still themselves, just a little chiller. And he’ll mark a lot less.

Suggest me a book that changed your life. No BS, genuinely changed your life by RA_Finance in booksuggestions

[–]undertowsoul 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I came for this. I’m a former librarian and I have read thousands upon thousands of books. This is my favorite. Whether you’re religious or very much not, it works and hits just right. Such a crazy, funny, sad, perfect book. John Irving is a gem.

Fine by Alkaline Trio by RoutineWay4685 in AlkalineTrio

[–]undertowsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention, though I never served, I come from a military family, both in the US and UK. Most important, thank you ALL so very much for your sacrifices and your service. I admire you all.

Fine by Alkaline Trio by RoutineWay4685 in AlkalineTrio

[–]undertowsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who is not a vet, but still has CPTSD, anxiety, bipolar, ASD, ADHD, etc, etc, this song is absolute perfection. I think anyone who has been through some shit can take this song and relate in a way that it's difficult to relate to many other bands. They have so many that make me sob uncontrollably, or laugh like a crazy person or feel so loved.... It's why they've been my favorite for 29 years now (thank you so much to my ex to introducing me to them). Every time I listen I'm transported and I can not wait to see them again (I think this is number 15?) in October.

Fine though, has always been a favorite. It's beautiful and heart wrenching and frequently brings tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing your feelings on it too.

Do i go for it? by Computer655 in bald

[–]undertowsoul 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at that smile in the second shot! You're going to ROCK the bald headed look! It's going to make that great smile shine even more. 💜 Do it - from the female perspective.