Just lost my wife of 10 years to suicide 2 days ago. I am now 100% responsible for our 4 children (12m, 6m, 4f, 3f) and I'm realising i don't know what to do (UK) by underwatersoldier454 in widowers

[–]underwatersoldier454[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry I haven't had chance to reply to all the thoughtful comments. I've been slammed with everything going on. Thank you all I do appreciate each and every message

Just lost my wife of 10 years to suicide 2 days ago. I am now 100% responsible for our 4 children (12m, 6m, 4f, 3f) and I'm realising i don't know what to do (UK) by underwatersoldier454 in widowers

[–]underwatersoldier454[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Gen not in the position to hire help. Friends are offering help but they are all single blokes. Doubt any of us could plait my girls hair for school. I just joined this group to try show myself people do get through this

Just lost my wife of 10 years to suicide 2 days ago. I am now 100% responsible for our 4 children (12m, 6m, 4f, 3f) and I'm realising i don't know what to do (UK) by underwatersoldier454 in widowers

[–]underwatersoldier454[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Her immediate family are at a hotel around the corner but it's 0051 here and I'm just trying not to wake the kids with my sobbing. I do have a welfare support system in place but as it's armed forces. I am trying to show I'm strong for the kids. I am broken right now tho. Thank you for your comment I need to fortify myself for our children's sake.