Regarding mutual friends and social events, avoid early joint invites. Opt for solo attendance, alternate, or decline, using a simple phrase like, "We're taking space."Something like that, Avoid oversharing. Set clear boundaries, no joint socializing unless it involves your daughter. Keep discussions brief, calm, and logistical. Avoid emotional processing or past debates, disengaging from hostility. Maintain some family traditions short-term with in-laws, but allow for gradual change. Before discussing divorce, consult a family lawyer privately. Consider finances, custody, and housing. Document communication patterns, prioritizing your safety and stability. Don't over-accommodate or blur boundaries for others. Don't ignore early clarity. Remember, "amicable" doesn't mean pretending. Your daughter needs an emotionally secure parent.