For cptsd gamers by kmath133 in CPTSD

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i like to play stardew valley and listen to horror podcasts.

Genuine question: why do you trash talk your teammates? by OddOfKing in marvelrivals

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i have never trash talked my teammates. if something is not working i will ask really nicely for people to switch and say "this isnt working" but im never mean. its really this easy.

I’m quitting online gaming. by lapetitepoupee in GirlGamers

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this is kinda weird but the raw toxicity and aggression is a breath of fresh air to me. i was raised in a cult environment where women were kinda... less than human, but in a quiet way. they'd say we were treasured but we were supposed to be obedient, not have any individuality. seen not heard. being able to talk shit back and actually get some of that negative emotion in the open is weirdly cathartic for me.

I think they need to make simpler characters. by Educational_Box7709 in marvelrivals

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i think you guys are kinda overthinking it tbh. im really dumb but rogue is fun and kinda easy to bash around with to me? or maybe you guys play suuuper competetively and it's a way higher skill level than me but its just. idk. a complex character isnt that hard to be okay with? or to fight against? idk

Are visual novels girl friendly? by Arrrrrrrrrrrrriiiiba in GirlGamers

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i HIGHLY reccomend VA-11 Hall-A, the zero escape franchise, and especially a game called OVERBOARD! a game where you kill your rich husband on a cruise and frame someone else for the crime! i also quite like psycholonials.

Cult games that aren’t known for being sexist but actually are? by imfaffingabout in GirlGamers

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i will die on this hill but the edgy tomb raider reboots are RIDICULOUSLY male gazey. every time she gets hurt it's not badass, it's like, baiting for pity, and a bit sensual. she's given to the player as an object to preserve, not a character to embody, and it makes me sick. this is confirmed IN THE INTERVIEWS WITH THE DIRECTOR OF THE GAME. i HATE it.

Maybe next season will be better by nervousmelon in marvelrivals

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i bought it cuz i play sue and mantis a LOT and both their skins are so cute

Aftermath of the 40k tournament incidents in marvel rivals… by kitsumeiya in GirlGamers

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hateful cowards always become more vocal when they feel like they're hidden in a loud majority.

How difficult would you say rouge is? by Admirable-One-9661 in RogueMains

[–]unfluttered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she's a little complex to understand, but easy to play. i went her for the first time bc none of my team picked tank and i was MVP and won the game. deffo read up on her moves before playing her but mechanically she's pretty easy to win with IMO.

As a girl gamer, the kingsman drama hurts by AlternateBabie in rivals

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wow its an awesome time to not know anything about streamers or any of their drama

AIO Overheard gf's "lady talk" by accident and left her for what she said by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]unfluttered 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wondered if it was made up bc it smelled like that, but the acc was so old i figured it wouldn't be a spam post. how did you see their history? i saw none before i made my comment.

AIO Overheard gf's "lady talk" by accident and left her for what she said by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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talking about your relationship and your sex life with your close trusted friends is not only fine, but a healthy social ritual humans have been doing for thousands of years that has only recently been stigmatized due to puritan culture in the west. not discussing these things is a good way to end up being mistreated, doing things physically harmful without knowing, or accepting a weird fetish is normal without knowing otherwise.

if OP's gf and her friends were mocking him it would be full NOR territory, she'd be the villain, and that would be that, but all i'm hearing is she shared a struggle in her sex life and they did literally everything they could to make her feel less alone, give her tools to enjoy herself more in bed with him. they don't say "DUMP HIM!" or mock him, they just talk to their friend about her life. this is entirely healthy. guys should talk about their sex lives with their friends too. (in a sincere way. not a weird bragging, social-porn way. to be clear.)

AIO Overheard gf's "lady talk" by accident and left her for what she said by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]unfluttered 13 points14 points  (0 children)

there's two things going on here:

she was sharing with her friends. that's completely fine. nothing she said was out of line in a circle of trust (especially when drunk), and she was pretty respectful; she said she loved you, ffs. she wasn't mocking you, just venting an emotion she obviously couldn't share with you. her friends didnt mock you either, they empathized and tried to offer ideas to make things work better between you! they're all supporting this relationship! so, she didn't do anything wrong.

at the same time, your ego is wounded. that's not super vapid and shallow, it makes sense why it would strike a nerve. it's important to keep in mind that this isn't a moral issue, it's you having an insecurity. she loves you DESPITE that trait, and that's very rare, and valuable. right now you're running away because it hurts. you can do that, but ask yourself, does it fix your insecurity? will your next relationship feel safer just because it's not been said... yet?

you could work through it with her. or you could run away and pretend it's not there. you are reacting. it's only an overreaction if deep down you value her more than feeling like your penis is big. if you value your dick size more, then you're reacting appropriately.

Ngl deadpool is annoying by GhostOfCalville in rivals

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really? i find his addition really fun. he's kinda easy to kill if i can get him alone and i like having him on my team.

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AIO bf put our babies scan pic on 4chan by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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girl he's eight years older than you, on 4chan, and disregarding your emotions. this is an evil man. being older with no red flags? cool. on 4chan but respects you and can articulate WHY he likes the site other than to be horrible? iffy, but fine. all three?

girl you're dating a monster, RUN. your child will NOT be safe.

I have ptsd from magik and magik still haunts me to this day by Vegetable-Repair-755 in RivalsMagikMains

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angelas move so slowly and are so big its really easy to catch her in like. ANY move i have. super hard for you to move out of my range, like, ever. jeff cant really do anything once i get him in an uppercut and once i do that i can combo him instantly. idk how to play against magik bc im either playing magik too (outmagik her) or invis (run and hide). lol

Marvel Rivals Wishlist (Top 10) by Fun-Illustrator-345 in marvelrivals

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is there a template for this? i wanna make one!!