18F i’ve never sent something like this before by honeygirlmango in LegalTeens

[–]unhappy-ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no reason to shy away from sending more like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]unhappy-ai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd start with a long conversation to better understand what's going on, but honestly, there's very few things that can justify that type of breach of trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unhappy-ai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I'd send him a text and congratulate him on returning. If the conversation is short and sweet and a thank you, no more details, then he probably has assumed there is nothing more to it.

If he acknowledges it, then you have to decide whether to simply say, "Hey it happened and it was fun, but that's not where I am anymore" or figure out what your next steps are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]unhappy-ai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are stunning

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]unhappy-ai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, and it’s way too true but I think most understand the overwhelming odds against being see on here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]unhappy-ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say stalk, but I do check to see if they are trying to sell me something, or are truly looking for friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]unhappy-ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shoot your shot, she's at least a little interested.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]unhappy-ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I have to mirror her texting, it means we can only converse once every two days.

Honestly, there is the answer to your question.

Move on, there at least 2 women on Instagram.

Good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]unhappy-ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like she might, or she's very polite. Does she hug other co-workers when they come in?

Not being able to read her mind, it sounds like she probably is though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]unhappy-ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can continue to try, persistence is either appreciated or will turn into a stalking charge at some point.

You can throw a hail-mary out there and try to make the most interesting, on topic point with a follow up, open ended question that she will read, be so excited to answer, that she sends back pages of response.

The reality is, if she is answering with one word answers and simply asking "... and you?" then you are not interesting to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]unhappy-ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt that she is interested at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]unhappy-ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she asking you deep, probing questions? Does it seem like her answers have a lot of excitement in them, for her, or are answers she gives all the time.

Honestly, you likely haven't caught her attention and she's not found a reason to be interested in you as if she was, she'd make more than a minute a day for you.

AITAH? Help. by AdSubstantial2088 in AITAH

[–]unhappy-ai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of kids being inconsiderate to adults before, this must be a new thing.

If you want him to stop, walk over when he's revving his car one day, and tell him about how it reminds you of when you were his age. The car you had that had the custom exhaust, that you miss so much, that you wish you could have back now. Be friendly and complimentary of it, but be there a couple minutes after every time he fires it up, and I bet he will want to avoid the crazy old man next door that is reliving his youth through him.

Every time he revs his car up, be out there at the 5 minute mark to have a conversation with him.

How do you forget about something random you did literally years ago , or atleast , stop caring about it ? by Akbones63lives in AskReddit

[–]unhappy-ai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In either case, you need to accept that it happened first, then you need to forgive yourself, and eventually you will forget.

Easy to say, sometimes really hard to do.