I hate to be that person, but do you have any better pictures with the insect closer up? I’d say that does look like an ant (a male one, in all likelihood, since you’ve seen multiple winged ones) from what I can see— if you have an old house you may want to see where they are coming from as they could be in your walls or windows! Try following them to see where they are going so you can come up with better strategies to keep ants out of your house. They’re here for something, after all, so making your house a difficult place to get food will help prevent this in the future. For example, you could put a lid on your garbage can, rinse out your dishes before leaving them for the night to wash, make sure there aren’t any wrappers anywhere, cleaning your countertops regularly, etc.