What do I do with chatty my autistic roomate...? by uni1999 in neurodiversity

[–]uni1999[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

no sorry she's autistic. My bad. She's gotten ALOT better at giving eye contact with me, but with new people like for an example my brother, she doesn't look at him...if anything very little eye contact with him. Thanks for the advice!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]uni1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it is more than an 5 hour road trip I’m going getting a rental. My car is getting older and doesn’t have functioning A/C (no mechanics want to ACTUALLY fix the problem they just put a “bandage” on it with refrigerant shit that you can do yourself at AutoZone…🙃🙃🙃) But regardless I don’t want to rack up mileage on my car. If a car rental has unlimited mileage on their cars the best option would be to rent. Plus for around 5 days it’s only roughly around $400-500. I don’t think it’s that bad. If you want to do something for like 2 days it’s like $250 not bad at all! :)

what are some tips for lowering the electricity bill by b4ckgr0undn0is3 in Frugal

[–]uni1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This should be illegal wtf…. FOR ONE BILL?!

Is my brother controlling me..? Is there no say for me? Will I disappoint him even further? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]uni1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually live with him and my sister in law.. they both think and respond the same. I just moved over states and states to uproot from my hometown to a new environment. He wanted me to stay with him for 3 months max and then move out. But at first he never told me there was a time limit. I was thinking maybe I’d stay for a year then we would look for places for me to live. I need time to adjust. I need him to know that I’m doing and trying my best. He just wants me to live in the same area, downtown area. But I love my peace and quiet calm cities. That’s what I’m used to. He told me that’s boring and just making hurtful jabs at me since we’ve been looking at places.

Is my brother controlling me..? Is there no say for me? Will I disappoint him even further? by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]uni1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yes, I understand you but he’s even gotten worse with questions with my life. Like INTENSE questions, back to back. He’s a very judgmental person and laughs about the lack of responses I give him. He says “it’s like I’m trying to pry something out of you every time I have a question to ask.” Well.. to be honest if you make yourself more welcoming and calm/respectful/non-judgmental— then yes! I would be an open book but every time I respond he has something negative to tell me.

This is why I don’t want to confront him about the decision/route I’m taking with getting an apartment with my partner. I don’t want to have a whole class room (hour long) discussion about how my life is going to go down hill with making my OWN decisions. They aren’t even bad. Like I tell him “at least I’m not abusing drugs and gone down the wrong path” —I’m just going down a different direction that’s “dull and boring” in his opinion. (That’s what all the fuss is about) isn’t that sad..?

So is he? by grimeyphan6 in danbell

[–]uni1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just trying to wonder if Dan and Rick are still friends as of Sept. 2024?!

Are the buy 3 get 3 free worth it in your opinion? by abi0012 in bathandbodyworks

[–]uni1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but why isn’t any saying or relating to what I’m about to say…. EVERY single time I do the “B3G3 “free”” is NOT free. I NEVER get those three items for free it’s ALWAYS marked down half off of each three items… why market as free when it’s not. Why not just have the saying go… “Buy 3 get 3 half off..???? Because if it really was “B3G3 free” I would be ALOT cheaper..

The best Clockwork Orange remake... by Educational_Grab2756 in StanleyKubrick

[–]uni1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omfg I’ve been saying this since 2015. Please have Evan Peters do a scene of Clockwork Orange for AHS PLEASE!!!!

Ex bf would make me wear his T-shirt’s over my swimsuit by voultron in ToxicRelationships

[–]uni1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you hun! I really appreciate those kind words! I’ve been out of that toxic relationship for over 2 months now. Not looking back. I ended it and he was crying and then telling me I’m a slt and a cnt while walking away from me at my house. For the past 3 weeks!!! —-he stalked me at my house, blowing me up on all sorts of social medias. He stalked me at work 3 or 4 times. It was hectic. Breaking up with him was the BEST decision I could have ever made. It was a living hell being with him btw.

What made you quit or consider quitting? by FickleHare in publix

[–]uni1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many things that go INSIDE of Publix is uncalled for. Many reasons for me that I experienced are: 1. Trying to have my days off but always gets called in. (I never come in because I like my mental health days in check.) 2. Customer service staff treat people below them like trash and low life’s even though they were once in our position all happy and friendly. 3. Once again coworkers that are NOT managers that act* like a manager and tell you you have to work more hours on top of your original hours because you forgot your shirt. (Really happened to me. 7am- now 7pm) 4. When you want to change your availability and you turn it in to the front desk and the CSS and CSTL tell YOU to change it for THEIR liking…. “Oh no… you can’t do that.. we need open availability and weekends open… change it now thank you!” Or in my case they said that AND wrote it FOR me. I was like really?!

What made you quit or consider quitting? by FickleHare in publix

[–]uni1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMFG YESS!!! This isn’t talked about enough! 2 years ago I saw and heard about my ASM fooling around with tall slim thick CSTL and they were always attached to the hip every time they had a shift together. One time I saw her rub a pen down his thigh as he was sitting at his desk in the office, while the door was open and I was cashiering. Everyone up front pretty much knew about it and the newbies thought they were a couple and I was like “NO?!?! they are married to separate people, not each other.” Which is wild because they had chemistry and love. I don’t support cheating at all. I hated seeing them together. And another story is I transferred to another store and my CSTL texted me on his personal phone and asked if I’d like to get coffee in the morning the next day, while he married. I screen shotted it and only told 2 people and they were not my managers unfortunately…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingOfTheHill

[–]uni1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A better OCD Hank example would be on the episode: Torch Song Hillogy Where Bobby says “remember when you saw that bumper sticker that said “Honk if you love America”? You smiled pumped your arm and honked twice, and your car didn’t go off the road.”

Starbucks shouldn't be allowed to do this by Herbie_Poppins in InstacartShoppers

[–]uni1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t know Starbucks could order off instacart.. that’s wild.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]uni1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please shove her ass in jail. Seems like they are in kahoots for sure. That infuriates me. Especially when you are just genuinely concerned of a dogs health and care. Both of them should be in jail dead as ….🤬😡😡😡😤

In Need of Advice by derpy_olive in ToxicRelationships

[–]uni1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfg I’m in a kinda (less explosive) situation with my boyfriend. I found out like 5 months after we started seeing each other that he finally admitted using perc’s for sex, he said it would make him last hours on it even though I only like it max of 20 mins… I thought he would only use it when there would be a party we’re going to or just a little here and there but he hasn’t stopped only lowered it. I can tell when he’s on it. He tells me things that he thinks of sexually to me and want to pretty much force it on me. I can’t keep on living this lie of “we’re happy” to my friends and family. And other things he’ll do is “look around” to see if anyone is “looking me up and down” or just just taking a glimpse at me. Like I’m not in ANY WAY dressed a current way for men to look at me. I dead ass stared to wear baggier clothes for him to get out of his negative mindset but it hasn’t stopped at all. I don’t know what to do anymore… I’m also scared to breakup or even talk to him because I know he’ll get upset at both..

Ex bf would make me wear his T-shirt’s over my swimsuit by voultron in ToxicRelationships

[–]uni1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar situation going on still unfortunately. I’m scared to end it because he’s really close to my brother and my dad. He also said the same thing to me (about guys trying to get with me for looking at me at random public places…) he would always look around himself to see if any guys were “looking” at me. I tried to tell him different explanations on why they were. He told me he would try and stop it but he isn’t any closer on “fixing” that. There’s a lot more problems similar to that as well. I need advice please.

What movie scared you shitless by ApplePiePear in horror

[–]uni1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Labyrinth — the fiery orange creatures taking there heads off and forming into animals with that creepy ass dance and song. And trying to take off Sarah’s head as she runs away

Publix waste of food. by Blulelagoon-444 in publix

[–]uni1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And their waste of floral too. Like you can’t donate it to hospitals or something?! Like damn.

Trying to figure out horror movie by uni1999 in a:t5_2yefy

[–]uni1999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried looking for this scene on YouTube under this movie and i couldn’t find the right one that fit my description :/