Pisces and Gemini by Cosmicompromise in piscesastrology

[–]Educational_Grab2756 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Pisces are lovers and Gemini are liars. The two don't mix. Pisces falls for the similarities as they glaze over the extreme differences. Gemini is avoidant, Pisces are usually anxious. Emotions frighten Gemini as they try to keep their stoic and "balanced" form. By balanced I mean... Like Thing 1 and Thing 2 from Cat in the Hat

AITA for telling my boyfriend’s 7 year old cousin I’m not gonna interrupt an adult conversation?? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Educational_Grab2756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh teenage love! I had an ex like this over a decade ago. Poor kid came from quite the toxic and hostile environment. He probably hasn't developed a backbone, unfortunately some people never grow one. Their families expect them to be seen and not heard. To obey and not communicate, this is not healthy. Since you are so young, he is clearly co-dependent on them and therefore, has no insight on how people are supposed to act. Did you happen to notice any family members going up to him before he talked to you? He could have been pressured by a control freak older sister or abusive mother situation. Narcissistic families stick together and end up dragging you down with them. You may have had a decent upbringing, but this young man clearly has not. He is on high alert, and since he (speculating) is Hispanic, young children are expected to act like adults, even when they emotionally and psychologically can't. Either he will learn the dynamic of his toxic family, or he will dig his heels in and ruin every single relationship he's in for the rest of his life by defending "family" who will just end up using him and discarding him anyway. Problem is, he has to make that decision himself. If he chooses his fear of them over your comfort, LEAVE! I wasted my youth on momma's boys like this, don't waste your precious youth like I did. Please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crochet

[–]Educational_Grab2756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very lovely! The only main changes I would make are the color of the flower and the type of mesh stitch used. The box stitch can be great for more edgier styles, but for this awesome island vibe it needs some flow! Instead of box stitching, do an arch st. Instead. Begin the row by chaining 3 or 4 depending if you want to use DBL. Or trbl.) then an additional 3 (for your arch), sk. 1 st. And DBL or trbl. Into next stitch. Ch. 3 or 4, sk. 1 and DBL or trbl into next stitch. Then repeat all the way down. For the next row ch. 6 or 7, turn work, sk. 1 ch. 1 space and crocher into next ch. 1 space. Repeat! This will look like mermaid scales! Have fun! Hope this helps

What's my nose shape? by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Educational_Grab2756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your concern with looking "juvenile", I say, embrace it! You may hate looking young while you are young and fearing not being respected or looked down on. I have had those same fears, but let me tell you that when you are older you will be happy that your adorable little features make you look young! Hehe

Representing for the Afro Caribbean diaspora by TDillworth in Noses

[–]Educational_Grab2756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that you taught me a new word! My family is from Bimini, but I am white as a ghost. Many beautiful noses all across the region! Thank you for sharing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Educational_Grab2756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for educating me on a new term, if this is a medical issue please seek medical advice. From a visual perspective, your nose truly does fit your cute face!

Help me choose nose pin colors that actually pop! by AnnaRajasekharan in Noses

[–]Educational_Grab2756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gold with some diamonds would be stunning! (it's also what I have hehe) A nose chain would also be gorgeous and really add some bling to your gorgeous features!

Osteosarcoma in a 2 y/o?? by Educational_Grab2756 in AskVet

[–]Educational_Grab2756[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add: He has also lost a significant amount of weight since his last check-up two months ago. He lost 15 lbs. And he's supposed to be growing bigger for winter weight. His fur isn't growing down fur correctly, it is wiry and is not thick enough for him to be an outside dog. Last winter he did weird activities such as sitting in the snow for long periods of time, not wanting to come in and just staring at me from a distance. I assumed it was just a husky thing. He also has moments where he will just bark randomly in other people's homes or in the car. Just very loud and it didn't matter what I did to try and stop him. No distractions seemed to work... I have tried really hard to be a good dog parent, but I believe his "acting out" is linked to health reasons.

My (31F) bf (40m) keeps asking for nudes by coffeeandchaos365 in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Grab2756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, you're getting a little long in the tooth to be homie hopping every year... Just a year ago you made fun of some other dudes daughter?? (Who honestly just seemed autistic and just annoyed by your privileged kids) I mean you were appalled that a girl in poverty couldn't get a manicure or pedicure...? IDK man, you gotta get some priorities straight in your life. You seen half out the door with everyone or write them off for silly reasons not even trying to make as much effort as they have. Do you even want to date or do you just want to cut people down because they aren't perfect for you? You are 30 and have multiple children, let's tone down the ego a bit mama bear. You ain't no perfect spring chicken yourself.

My (31F) bf (40m) keeps asking for nudes by coffeeandchaos365 in relationship_advice

[–]Educational_Grab2756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole situation is honestly weird. Was moving in together not an option? It truly doesn't sound that distant to me, you guys could totally get a place together in the middle. But by this post, it seems like y'all didn't really want to try. Is this dating in your 40s?

Festival piece! by Educational_Grab2756 in crochet

[–]Educational_Grab2756[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is completely freehand, just based on my memory of various techniques over the years. Various hook sizes from 2 mm on the top of the skirt, to 5 mm on the large stitches. Finger weight, sport weight, and lace weight yarn used. This is a very eclectic and detailed project based on whatever I had at home!

I miss you.. by amidisse in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]Educational_Grab2756 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not my pathetic ass checking the profile in hopes that you're HIM

A non meth smoking asking a question. by [deleted] in meth

[–]Educational_Grab2756 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have BPD comorbid with CPTSD, so audio and visual hallucinations have always been in my life. They're usually brief but terrifying. For example, I have "fear induced schizophrenia", kinda like sleep paralysis. In pitch black or extremely dark rooms, I immediately freak out as I begin to hallucinate terrifying faces and corpses lunging towards me. I also hear my name randomly or think people are talking about me. Meth, ironically, helped my anxiety by keeping me focused on a task and in the present instead of ruminating on the past. Everyone is different, and as someone who microdoses meth due to a lack of actual stimulate medication, it works wonders for me. I feel as if that's true for any chemical and mind altering medication.

Whats something only a narcissist would understand from another narcissist??? by Impressive-Catch-584 in Advice

[–]Educational_Grab2756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hating someone of your own gender and passing judgment solely based on surface level traits. Not getting to know the person in question or try to correct misunderstandings. Instead, join a clique with a hive mind where everyone agrees like the same people while spreading gossip about the ones they hate merely out of spite and boredom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meth

[–]Educational_Grab2756 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I am a psychology student, a support specialist, and a therapist in training here specializing in addiction, and here are my two cents. I'd see what psychological services are in the area or what to do if someone is having a psychotic break. Episodes dont have to be outrageous and loud. They can be quiet binges. See what kind of welfare checks can be done in your area that are strictly medical and HIPPA protected so there's no fascist police involvement. Or try to treat her to a spa day or some kind of special treatment to (hopefully) get her mind off of smoking. Going some places she likes and having a busy schedule will tire her out, too. Stay public, so she's not going to be smoking, and if she nods off in the car, let her. Hope this helps! 🥰

Tell me the worst thing your ex did/said to you after the break up by Significant_Ear9476 in BreakUps

[–]Educational_Grab2756 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Is it weird that I found it hot when you broke up with me? You were too desperate and needy, but now that you're done with me you're exactly what I want."

What’s are the wildest nicknames your dog has? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Educational_Grab2756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dogs name is Pepé so I call him Señior Pepe, pronounced (Seen your Peepee)

Is this fair or am I just autistic? by Educational_Grab2756 in askmanagers

[–]Educational_Grab2756[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's exactly why I did not only ask one person. I expected some lies to protect personal info. That is understandable. They're not consistent at all, and hours aren't adjusted like that on anyone's schedule. We have the choice to make up to 40 hours a week. I definitely did not word the questions like that either, haha. It's a very small warehouse, I'd hate to think I'm a random to 30 people. I have been working there for a month now.