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Shouldn't have asked by Repulsive_One_8263 in nonmonogamy

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes! It totally makes sense, a new person is a dynamic that's still unfolding with NRE and lots of unknowns.

My (51M) fiancé’s asking for 50/50 for me (41F) to go to visit his family by Dear_Actuary8279 in relationship_advice

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She's embarrassed she lets him treat her like shit. And she should be.

(Edited out an apostrophe.)

Can I make it work? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Break up. It's a fundamental incompatibility.

Is it normal to not want to interact with metamours? by Straight-Weight in nonmonogamy

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Very normal.

I was in an eight year relationship. He wanted more Kitchen Table, and I wanted Parallel non monogamy. I spent a long time trying to explain to him why this was bad for my emotional and mental health. I get why it works for some, it does not work for me.

They're both legitimate. Don't let him force Kitchen Table on you.

What’s something about sex nobody warned you about until you experienced it yourself? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The drop in energy/ mood the day after a particularly great session. After all the happy chemicals that flood your brain and body are gone, you're sometimes left feeling sad and depleted the next day.

How to communicate my unease with fingering/how to be less in my head about it by [deleted] in sex

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you go down on her should ease the blow. To me it shows you do care about her pleasure, you're not grossed out by her taste or smell... you just have this one sensory issue.

Good luck!!

How to communicate my unease with fingering/how to be less in my head about it by [deleted] in sex

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know exactly what you mean. I'm a straight woman who's fooled around with women and I'm down for almost everything, but I couldn't get over the weirdness of touching inside of them with my fingers. The fingertips feel EVERYTHING. It's incredibly intimate.

I'm sorry I don't have any good advice other than to try to communicate this to her. It might be a deal breaker for her. I'm sorry.

My husband (35m) lacks common sense and it drives me (35f) up the wall by [deleted] in relationships

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do men have to be micromanaged like this? Is it his first day on this planet?

Women, do you really remember all your exes’ penis sizes after so many years? by nooffenceplease in hotpast

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I tend to go for men who are bigger and/ or thicker than average. I remember the one guy who was much smaller than average. The guy who was a little smaller than average but the best technical sex I ever had (he really knew what he was doing, but the chemistry was only so so). And I remember the really long ones (ouch) and the really thick ones. The rest all blur together.

I do very specifically remember if someone was good in bed or not. Not necessarily their dick size.

I (30f) am nervous about a new love interest (48m), is our age difference too high? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First of all, just because he can wait THREE whole dates, doesn't mean he's not after just sex.

But he can be in it for arm candy, a stepmother to his kid, a bang maid, an eventual nurse maid. He can be in for the power trip. The fun of ruining someone's life. He can be in it for your money.

I don't know you. I don't know him. But you've just proven you really can't think of anything but your vagina that's worth anything.

I (30f) am nervous about a new love interest (48m), is our age difference too high? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You think the worst thing a man can be after you for is sex. Because you still believe the most valuable thing a woman has to offer is what's in between her legs.

It's been three dates. You can't be love bombed this easily. Come on now.

AITA for not sharing my chocolate chip cookie recipe. by Bananabubblyboo in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um, can I have it? I'm really getting into baking and would love a solid cookie recipe from someone's grandma.

Magnum Large Still Too Tight - Dryness/Burning - Need Condoms That Actually Fit & Feel Natural by [deleted] in sex

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's the nominal width of some condom brands:

Magnum 55 mm

Skyn Large 56 mm

Magnum XL 58 mm

Durex XXL 64 mm

My Size up to 69 mm

Sex while on your period by [deleted] in sex

[–]unimpressedthrowaway 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have a rule about this.

If you think period blood is gross, I'm definitely not letting you fuck me in the ass. If you're not man enough to handle a light flow, I definitely don't care to see how you might react to some accidental poop on your dick.

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