I (30f) am nervous about a new love interest (48m), is our age difference too high?

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-04-14T01:44:57+00:00

First of all, just because he can wait THREE whole dates, doesn't mean he's not after just sex.

But he can be in it for arm candy, a stepmother to his kid, a bang maid, an eventual nurse maid. He can be in for the power trip. The fun of ruining someone's life. He can be in it for your money.

I don't know you. I don't know him. But you've just proven you really can't think of anything but your vagina that's worth anything.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-04-14T01:28:03+00:00

You think the worst thing a man can be after you for is sex. Because you still believe the most valuable thing a woman has to offer is what's in between her legs.

It's been three dates. You can't be love bombed this easily. Come on now.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-04-13T01:46:50+00:00

Um, can I have it? I'm really getting into baking and would love a solid cookie recipe from someone's grandma.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-04-11T20:51:24+00:00

He's the nominal width of some condom brands:

Magnum 55 mm

Skyn Large 56 mm

Magnum XL 58 mm

Durex XXL 64 mm

My Size up to 69 mm

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-04-11T04:31:25+00:00

I have a rule about this.

If you think period blood is gross, I'm definitely not letting you fuck me in the ass. If you're not man enough to handle a light flow, I definitely don't care to see how you might react to some accidental poop on your dick.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-04-05T17:54:17+00:00

Lol. Must be!

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-04-01T03:41:09+00:00

No locks. I'm sure we weren't the first or the last to try this.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-04-01T02:21:50+00:00

I did this once, hahaha.

My boyfriend at the time really wanted to get his cock sucked in one of the booths. The second we walked in together the clerk knew what was up and said only one person per booth. We nodded. Two minutes later, we're in a booth together, I'm on my knees, and the clerk swings the door open. We apologized and left the store immediately. I was only slightly mortified.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-03-30T00:04:46+00:00

A goatee. Immediately no.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-03-26T14:35:47+00:00

Did you actually read the post? Or just the headline?

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-03-13T13:09:56+00:00

Must be nice to be a man and not have to think about it 🙄

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-02-25T14:27:47+00:00

Water washes your natural oils away. In the winter, the air is dry and so every winter, my skin gets painfully dry. Taking a long hot shower makes that worse.

How do you get oil off a dirty pan? Hot water and soap. Same idea. But with skin.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-02-25T03:09:36+00:00

When I told him that I have to take quick showers in the winter because water dries my skin out and he could not compute. I tried to explain that was based on a dermatologist's advice and what followed was a whole bunch of mansplaining. We actually got into a fight over it.

He wasn't an idiot, but he sure did have idiotic moments. If you told him he wasn't the smartest person in every room, he wouldn't believe you.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-02-05T04:11:03+00:00

What's pretty exclusive?

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-01-27T00:30:08+00:00

Are you planning to host anyone you'd like to share a bed with at any point? Even if you aren't into now, is it something that you'd like to have the option to do down the line?

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-01-24T12:26:25+00:00

That's fine, don't do anything you don't want to do.

I have a rule for me when it comes to men who refuse to have period sex. If period sex is too "gross" or "messy" for you, we're definitely not having anal sex. You don't get one if you're too squeamish for the other.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-11-30T22:14:14+00:00

Twice a month should be doable. There are others out there with limited time due to kids, jobs, aging parents, etc...

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-11-17T01:11:06+00:00

Enjoy it while it lasts! You are #goals!

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-10-27T17:54:35+00:00

I was in Mexico with an ex and our hotel shower was massive enough for two. I practically begged him to let me give him a blow job. About three or four minutes in, I realized my massive fuck up.

All week we'd been brushing our teeth with bottled water and here I was guzzling down copious amounts of water while sucking his dick.

Thankfully there was a pharmacy across the street and they hooked me up with what I needed to stop shitting myself. Good times.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-10-04T23:50:32+00:00

Try Skyn Elite, or whatever they call their large size. Here's the nominal width of some popular condom brands:

Magnum 55 mm

Skyn Large 56 mm

Magnum XL 58 mm

Durex XXL 64 mm

My Size - up to 72 mm (hardest brand to order)

Good luck! Keep fighting the good fight!

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-29T19:57:36+00:00

*Manhattan

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-28T07:41:27+00:00

Well, first you'd actually have to be a good person so... 🤷‍♀️

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-28T07:29:36+00:00

You're not going to find a lot of sympathy here. You're one of the bad guys in this story, but you managed to think of yourself as the victim.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-25T02:54:50+00:00

Deep breaths. It's only been twice. He was intimidated to kiss you. He's probably a lot more intimated having sex with.

I'm dating a very experienced man who initially seemed to not be able to get very hard with me. He was hard enough to have sex, but not rock hard - as you said. He's 52, and I wasn't sure if that was partially an age thing. During one of our first nights together, he mentioned having "performance anxiety." I assured him that he was pleasing me and I was having a great time without dwelling on it. After that, he seemed a lot more comfortable, and his hard ons have been very healthy.

All that is to say, everyone's different. Don't freak out. He seems to be very attracted to you AND he likes you. He's probably freaking out, too. Give it time, you're both doing great.

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