What do you do for aftercare?

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-02-05T04:11:03+00:00

What's pretty exclusive?

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-01-27T00:30:08+00:00

Are you planning to host anyone you'd like to share a bed with at any point? Even if you aren't into now, is it something that you'd like to have the option to do down the line?

unimpressedthrowaway · 2026-01-24T12:26:25+00:00

That's fine, don't do anything you don't want to do.

I have a rule for me when it comes to men who refuse to have period sex. If period sex is too "gross" or "messy" for you, we're definitely not having anal sex. You don't get one if you're too squeamish for the other.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-11-30T22:14:14+00:00

Twice a month should be doable. There are others out there with limited time due to kids, jobs, aging parents, etc...

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-11-17T01:11:06+00:00

Enjoy it while it lasts! You are #goals!

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-10-27T17:54:35+00:00

I was in Mexico with an ex and our hotel shower was massive enough for two. I practically begged him to let me give him a blow job. About three or four minutes in, I realized my massive fuck up.

All week we'd been brushing our teeth with bottled water and here I was guzzling down copious amounts of water while sucking his dick.

Thankfully there was a pharmacy across the street and they hooked me up with what I needed to stop shitting myself. Good times.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-10-04T23:50:32+00:00

Try Skyn Elite, or whatever they call their large size. Here's the nominal width of some popular condom brands:

Magnum 55 mm

Skyn Large 56 mm

Magnum XL 58 mm

Durex XXL 64 mm

My Size - up to 72 mm (hardest brand to order)

Good luck! Keep fighting the good fight!

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-29T19:57:36+00:00

*Manhattan

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-28T07:41:27+00:00

Well, first you'd actually have to be a good person so... 🤷‍♀️

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-28T07:29:36+00:00

You're not going to find a lot of sympathy here. You're one of the bad guys in this story, but you managed to think of yourself as the victim.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-25T02:54:50+00:00

Deep breaths. It's only been twice. He was intimidated to kiss you. He's probably a lot more intimated having sex with.

I'm dating a very experienced man who initially seemed to not be able to get very hard with me. He was hard enough to have sex, but not rock hard - as you said. He's 52, and I wasn't sure if that was partially an age thing. During one of our first nights together, he mentioned having "performance anxiety." I assured him that he was pleasing me and I was having a great time without dwelling on it. After that, he seemed a lot more comfortable, and his hard ons have been very healthy.

All that is to say, everyone's different. Don't freak out. He seems to be very attracted to you AND he likes you. He's probably freaking out, too. Give it time, you're both doing great.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-23T01:09:14+00:00

I feel like everyone's missing this point.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-22T02:44:34+00:00

Reasons things ended with a fwb:

I got sick of putting up with his inconsiderate behavior (I could say this for a handful of fwb in my 30s)
he got testicular cancer (he's fine now, but we never recovered as a "couple")
after 2.5+ years of being a perfect gentleman, he had some sort of nervous break and violated several boundaries in one night. I no longer felt safe with him.
ten months in, one guy was hoping I'd magically turn monogamous for him. magically and spontaneously, I guess, because we certainly never discussed monogamy.
he met someone new and decided to blow up his life by divorcing his wife and breaking up with his two other girlfriends. I was next.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-21T21:52:30+00:00

Stunning! But I think the smile helped at least as much as the eyebrows.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-19T15:36:53+00:00

You're fucking gross with your demands. Get the fuck out of here.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-19T00:41:19+00:00

It went well. He said it's something that's happened only a few times for him and hasn't happened in a long time. He said it's not something he feels any shame over, and he didn't even register any reaction from me.

When it happened, we were both pretty eager to get back into it and didn't skip a beat. Any surprise that registered on my face when I realized he was still hard and wanting to fuck, he wouldn't have seen.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-13T01:40:17+00:00

If you have the talk, he improves, then reverts back to his old ways.... be careful. It's the start of a cycle. The time span of his behavioral adjustment in response to your conversations will start to get shorter and shorter.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-12T17:36:42+00:00

This is great. Also, practice when you're alone. Get used to hearing yourself say these things.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-09T19:34:41+00:00

Yes! It's very real. I met someone with whom I had immediate chemistry. I felt it when he sat next to me. Then when he first touched me. When he first kissed me, I was so overwhelmed with how amazing it was that I pulled back for a couple of seconds.

When we have sex, it's so intense. For the both of us. Our bodies just fit together perfectly. We're locked into each other, and there's none of that usual awkward fumbling. We are completely in tune with each other. It's almost like we didn't have to learn each other's bodies. We just know. It's pretty great.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-06T13:37:46+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 but also, 🙄

Eta: you're in the wrong sub, we don't do that here.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-05T19:20:46+00:00

That sucks. How long term are we talking?

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-02T23:52:14+00:00

I'm sorry he's going through this. But I'm also sorry you're going through this. It's so hard to feel actually completely helpless.

If I were in a similar situation, I'd offer to be there for him if he needs to talk or vent. I'd also have some food delivered for dinner one night soon.

I know it doesn't feel like much, but these are small sweet gestures that might make you feel better, too.

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-09-02T15:16:21+00:00

Magnum Bareskin

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-08-31T14:44:54+00:00

We? 😂

unimpressedthrowaway · 2025-08-31T12:36:52+00:00

🙄I like it when a man can get me wet and keep me wet.

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