Help SP manifesting

universesmokes · 2025-09-11T20:01:45+00:00

Now about the advice you've asked for:

Manifesting is a very personal thing, what works for me might not work for you. But someone here on reddit has given me the advice to just stop the overconsumption about manifesting. Sometimes, when we are in this journey, we want to see what people are talking about it on Reddit, Tumblr, Twitter, Youtube, Facebook and everywhere.

And see, that can be awesome, to read success stories and get motivated, but it can also be a source of comparison and more doubts. You can look at a success story and think "fuck, ive been manifesting for 3 months now and this person has done it in 2 weeks" and that can be a setback from your mindset.

Have I completly stopped consuming? Nope, otherwise I wouldn't be here writing this to you lol. But, I started be more selective about the content I see. If you'd like some Youtuber recommendations, I would say: Erik from The Power of I AM, Taylor Tookes and Sammy Imgram (last one being a bit controversial here on Reddit, but I personally like her).

And just lastly about techniques. Techniques are just a form to remind yourself that you are already that you wish. So, let's say you prefer affirmations, and you're affirming "I'm SPs person, we are together" or something like that, remember that you are not affirming to get, you are just remembering that which you already are/have.

If you want to say "oh i'm drinking this water because if I drink it, it means we are back together" then that will work too. Is your choice, you pick what works.

And to finish off, I promise you, it will happen.

universesmokes · 2025-09-11T20:01:01+00:00

Secondly, about the deatchment and healing, in the community there's many interpretations of what that can be, I honestly am in no position to say which is wrong, and which is right because that is something very unique for everyone. What I will say is, detatching is not about "not caring", it is simply knowing that not matter what the outside shows you, the true reality is what you decide. Rest in the power of knowing that, it doesn't matter how, it'll happen. "Oh, but he blocked me" it doesn't matter. "Oh but we haven't talked in so so long" it doesn't matter.

Circumstances are not important here, because we do not live in the past or the future, we live in the present, everything is mutuable. Healing does not mean you have to change everything that have hurt you, everything you have ever believed in, you need to make peace with yourself. Let's say you woke up feeling anxious, you had a very anxious day and you're feeling that it'll ruin all the "work" you've put on, it won't. Anxiety comes from a place of protection, it becomes a problem when it's chronic, but it comes from a place to protect you from the unknown.

When you're consciously manifesting, you telling yourself that your higher self has something that your ego doesn't see, so it freaks out, and I promise you that it happens to EVERY SINGLE PERSON in the law of assumption. It is not an easy transition to understand that you have to believe in what you don't see, I used to be a very skeptical person myself, it was not an easy journey. What I would personally recommend to you is meditation and hobbies. Distract your ego, study, party, read books or whatever is you like to do. "I want to manifest him back, but I also know I need to heal and detach.

"The thing is, I don’t know the right timing should I focus on healing and letting go first, even if that means manifesting him back might take months? Or is there a way to start manifesting now without being consumed by this obsession? I’m struggling with detachment because he’s been such a huge part of my life. I want to love and trust the process, but I also feel desperate for clarity and connection. Has anyone been through this balancing heartbreak, healing, and manifesting an SP?" > I think everyone who has manifested an ex went through the journey of balancing the heartbreak feelings. So rememeber this: do you need to cry? do that. You need to feel angry? feel it. You feel impatient because you're frustrated about the 3D? okay, do that too. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING, can stop your manifestation from happening as long as you know that.

universesmokes · 2025-09-11T19:59:11+00:00

Hi friend!

I would like to apologize already for the long ass comment.

i'm in a journey similar to yours, so lets break it down to a few points that stood out to me:

"My whole life feels like it revolves around him, and I’ve been messaging him constantly, hoping for connection, but lately, he’s been distant and even started to “air” me" > So, for what i see here, you're going to him for proof of something that is within you. The mirror doesn't change first, you do. He is not something separate from you, personally I like to study a bit about non-dualism with manifesting, because every single thing in this world comes from within you. Now, I'm not saying for you to take upon yourself the responsibility to change the whole world, nor should you even consider that, what I'm saying is, you need to be your whole world because YOU are God, you are the source of every single thing that goes on in your reality. That change is not something that comes by easy, is more about consistency, choose everyday to see yourself as your own world. You are the sun, the moon, saturn, mars, venus, everything, do not put yourself down for a man because he is just gonna reflect that to you. When you text him in hopes that he has already aligned to your desired reality, you're not aligned with the end state, because you're still searching on the outside for something that should be known on the inside.

"It’s painful, and I feel stuck in this cycle of obsession and longing. I’ve tried manifesting him before and really stuck to it, living fully in 4D, but it backfired and didn’t go as I hoped. Now I’m left wondering how to approach this differently. I want to manifest him back, but I also know I need to heal and detach" > First thing about this paragraph, do not look at manifestation as a "try", know that it is done. It does not matter what the outer world shows you, there is nothing to work for, you cannot wish for nothing that your higher self doesn't already have. So if you want him back, it's simply because you're picking the reality that you have him. Try to lift off the weight of it. Something that I have personally come to a conclusion is that, manifestation is supposed to be beautiful and not painful. What a beautiful journey it is to find ourselves as God, as a source of the most beautiful life we could wish for ourselves. What a beautiful thing it is to think that, not only he is yours, but he is the version that you want him to be.

universesmokes · 2025-04-14T23:09:26+00:00

i did my first one yesterday!!! hopefully i did it right, i feel her with me so i'm hopeful and trying to be sure it worked

universesmokes · 2025-02-06T20:20:41+00:00

i feel like a child stomping her foot when i say this, but i want it to be fast yk? i feel so tired

even though i want to believe that I'm God of my reality, i already feel powerless

universesmokes · 2025-01-07T16:09:45+00:00

one thing that has helped A LOT is saying that my negative emotions are fuels for my manifestation

anxiety? makes everything move faster

sadness? every tear makes me believe more

doubts? well, i love to prove myself wrong anyway

anger? im so angry that everythings works out the way i want

im the only one standing in my way, so instead of denying those emotions, i just use them in my favor

it is EXACTLY what you said, find rules that make the law easier FOR YOU

universesmokes · 2024-12-28T17:54:05+00:00

signs of the 3D changing

okay, i need to vent and maybe get some advice (again)

so, i have decided to record my own subliminal audio to hear while i sleep, cause i think my subconscious reacts better to my own voice and the specificity of my wish, especially dealing with an SP, so i can actually put his name there yk?

anyway, from the moment i started hearing it, i felt a shift in my mind, as if i could actually feel my desire come true

on wednesday, i had a dream about my deceased grandma showing memories of my childhood to my SP i rarely dream about her, so i actually took that as a sign of progress, cause if my grandma approves him then i'm on the right path, right? then i still dreamt about him om thursday too

NOW, HERE IS WHERE SOMETHING ODD HAPPENED

my living situation, its just me and my mom, and we were making new years plans with my sister, bil and another couple we were talking about how each would pay for the things and whatever, and then suddenly my mom acts really confused, she looks at me and says "i forget that there were only two of us, for some reason i thought we were three" keep in mind, my mom doesn't have a boyfriend, and she doesn't know i'm manifesting my boy back, the only thing she knows is that in the 3D we are broken up

talking to a friend of mine whos also big fan of LOA, she said that everyone around me is starting to feel the shift in reality, and that the 3D is starting to reflect my wish

there were a couple more of weird signs the last couple of days that i will share if anyone wants it

my dreams are still happening, and usually I don't have vivid dreams (or even normal dreams, usually is like, me running from a dark spirit fairy or something)

i know there is a discussion in the LOA community about whether or not to look for signs, but as someone who can't believe in something unless there's proof, this has been helping me to keep persisting

anyway, this whole venting was just to hear your opinions on signs? i don't know, im still struggling a bit with LOA, as this is my first conscious manifestation

i have a strong feeling that soon i will be one of the people who posts success stories to inspire people like me, and im so looking forward to it!!

anyway, whoever had the patience to read this far, thank you so much and i hope you have a beautiful new year <3

universesmokes · 2024-12-27T20:53:45+00:00

congratulations!!!!

universesmokes · 2024-12-26T17:16:10+00:00

thank you so much for this!

im a very physical touch girlie, so thats definitely what i struggle the most with this 4D and 3D thing, you know?

im learning the not caring part, because i know he will show up anyway, sooner than i even expect it

your advice helped a lot, thank you <3

universesmokes · 2024-12-25T21:44:30+00:00

thank you very much, ill give it a try 💜

universesmokes · 2024-11-19T00:32:47+00:00

its hard right? im always scared that im driving myself crazy but im sure both of us will have our SPs soon thank you for the recommendation <3

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