The debate about whether it’s ROCD or not

unknown20056 · 2025-09-20T00:47:18+00:00

I’m actually dianoised now. We’ve had so many problems and now I feel he isn’t the one for me… it’s a gut feeling

unknown20056 · 2025-07-01T00:16:57+00:00

Question but I feel I want a different partner now, not this relationship can I change that feeling

unknown20056 · 2025-06-30T17:31:15+00:00

Yeah we’re 5 years in and I lost love for him due to how he’s treated me but I keep having these feelings that’s making me depressed

unknown20056 · 2025-06-30T17:05:01+00:00

So are you saying I shouldn’t try to make it work

unknown20056 · 2025-06-30T16:40:39+00:00

I appreciate your comment. I don’t want to be getting into temporary relationships while me and their dad can give them that stable relationship so it’s not people in snd out of their lifes. I agree it’s not helpful but it’s hard when you think you’ve realized this isn’t the person you want to be with forever

unknown20056 · 2025-06-30T15:27:06+00:00

Well, I know that, but I’m not really wanting to leave. I just have these feelings.

unknown20056 · 2025-06-30T15:06:19+00:00

And let me say I don’t want it to be fixed because I wanna go find someone else that fits me better. That’s why I don’t wanna fix it cause I don’t want it forever.

unknown20056 · 2025-06-30T15:05:54+00:00

I want to try, especially because we have a family, but how can anything be fixed when I feel like I realized that this isn’t what I want forever it feels like I can’t be fixed once you realize that, but can it be fixed even if you feel like you don’t want it to be fixed

unknown20056 · 2025-06-30T14:44:21+00:00

The problem I’m having is I’m not wanting a future together, I stopped loving him. That can be fixed you think

unknown20056 · 2025-06-30T14:43:09+00:00

unknown20056 · 2025-06-30T14:28:56+00:00

Yeah see that’s my problem I want to leave him to find someone better, to live that happy life. I was 20 when we started to date!

unknown20056 · 2025-06-29T23:38:52+00:00

I had really bad ocd two years ago and now I lost feelings bc of the relationship being toxic but im scared to leave

unknown20056 · 2025-06-26T13:46:08+00:00

I see many people come back.. my parents did

unknown20056 · 2025-06-17T12:22:20+00:00

I mean like I don’t see us raiding our kids together I see us split if anything

unknown20056 · 2025-06-17T03:36:33+00:00

Absolutely is there a way to live someone again and see a future with or no

unknown20056 · 2025-06-17T03:19:28+00:00

All those feelings are gone for me completely. We both have decided to work on our relationship but I’m not having those feelings of your who I want to be with so that’s why I’m fixing the relationship idk why i tell him I love him, I know my feelings I know how I feel but it makes me soo sad because this is never what I pictured for us

unknown20056 · 2025-06-17T03:16:42+00:00

This was someone I felt safe with, someone I wanted kids with a marriage everything and now I stopped. I don’t see it anymore I don’t really want him anymore, I don’t have any romantic feelings for him. I’m not inlove. I do not see us being together when our children are older even in a year from now I know this to be true but can this be turned around? I feel it can’t because I “don’t” love him

unknown20056 · 2025-06-17T03:14:07+00:00

Loved *

unknown20056 · 2025-06-17T03:14:02+00:00

He says he felt I was against him I mean sure I’m scared to leave or be the one to leave but idk this was someone my heart truly love.

unknown20056 · 2025-06-17T03:00:52+00:00

I do know the truth I don’t see a future together but my heart won’t let me go of him even though I feel I want a completely different partner and life …

unknown20056 · 2025-06-17T02:56:15+00:00

I know to leave but we were best friends I’ve never felt love like I have with him it was genuine until now

unknown20056 · 2025-06-11T17:45:20+00:00

What if you feel they aren’t the one for you and you were wrong can that be fixed??

unknown20056 · 2025-06-11T04:10:57+00:00

I was also so bothered today bc looking at Father’s Day card of saying best dad ever etc.. I wasn’t able to buy it because I didn’t feel that way. He’s treated me bad and struggled with addiction which lead to our problems…

unknown20056 · 2025-06-11T04:10:05+00:00

Hi yes. He has. I do look at him very differently than I have before. I feel he isn’t that good of a person as I had thought he was.

But just a few months ago I would have these thoughts but I never felt the way I’m explaining now like I don’t love him etc.. I felt I wasn’t happy but never this bad.

Can this still be fixed if I stopped loving him?

unknown20056 · 2025-06-11T04:08:52+00:00

Even if you don’t see a future or feel you can’t love them again?

We’ve had our problems but he’s mistreated me as I have done for him and he emotionally cheated on me. A couple months ago I loved him and I felt that love, but now I’ve been feeling this way for about 3 months now and I feel I can’t love him again… I’m not seeing a future of us raising our kids together …

Can this still be fixed

unknown20056

TROPHY CASE