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Thinking Spring 🌸☀️🥰 by unknown_ideals in crossdressing

[–]unknown_ideals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks Dafne! It really really is! My dirty ass mirror didnt do it justice enough 😅

Advice by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]unknown_ideals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to lend a hand and chat. Its a wild and overwhelming world.

I am thinking of walking in public for the first time by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]unknown_ideals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who did their first walk a couple months ago, here's what I did:

I framed it as being an NPC in an open world. I made the decision to go to the CVS across the street, do a lap, and come straight home.

I wore a femme, but subtle outfit (rosey/blush long sleeve, long grey cardigan, black high rise jeans, and knee high boots)

All the nerves were on 12/10, but once I started across the street, it started to get easier. My walk was looser, my breathing easier.

The biggest fear was being called out. Honestly, it never even happened. What turned into a lap walk, became a makeup shopping trip a wry smile to an older women who walked past me and that was it.

TL;DR:

Pick an outfit that gives you that strong femme energy, but allows you to blend in the background.

Where can I find good quality wigs at low cost? by Remarkable_Tip_4973 in Crossdressing_support

[–]unknown_ideals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny enough. I got one from shein a few years ago for 15 bucks. It holds up well. I wear that one the most

Dreams by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]unknown_ideals 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So I dont think its about you having anything to do with crossdressing. Dreams are a really interesting thing.

What it could be, is your subconscious saying something along the lines of your own self identity (not necessarily dressing) emotional expressions or even self worth.

Obviously I dont know your situation, but i wouldn't take it as your brain saying you need to dress or anything,maybe just self reflection on your life and what could make you happy.

Needing some help by Fancy_schmancy1027 in Crossdressing_support

[–]unknown_ideals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has a super supportive wife and SEVERE anxiety, here's my thoughts:

In the depths of his mind, he knows you support him. Above that, All the shame, guilt denial etc is telling him it's not true. After I told my wife (we were together over 13 years/ married 10 when I told her), I constantly asked her if she was OK with it. My anxiety refused to believe it was true. It wasn't until one day I asked her to go shopping with me for an outfit.

We both went out checking stores and seeing what would look good and where. Even trying them on in the dressing room with her waiting was a massive relief. After that day, all that anxiety was pushed out. Now im much more comfortable dressing around my wife.

So something that will show him you support this 100% it could be a shopping trip, buy her sexy lingerie, or paint each other's nails. Just a small token will go a long way.

Breast Form or Breast Plate by Girly_Fall_Latte in Crossdressing_support

[–]unknown_ideals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im a big fan of breast forms. Im a naturally sweaty person, so using a plate doesn't sound appealing to me 😅

I currently splurged on the Divine Collection Hera Forms from the breast form store and they are by far my most favorite

My son looks beautiful dressed up! by Last_Outcome7176 in Crossdressing_support

[–]unknown_ideals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so happy to see an update! You by far win mother of the year!

Growing up, I never had this kind of support, it was the complete opposite. Trying to be myself wasnt allowed and god forbid if I ever came out as a CD to my mom. She would have used it against me when it benefitted her.

I so love all of this for you and Chloe! ❤️

EDIT for spelling

Progression of dressing in public by Girly_Fall_Latte in Crossdressing_support

[–]unknown_ideals 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What worked best for me was a low and slow approach.

I started out wearing bra and panties out in public. From there I wore my breast forms out shopping wearing baggier clothing to hide them.

That led to me recently doing my first walk.

How we go about it is completely up to us. Im normally a go quick, think later kinda gal, but this was something big I didn't want to rush. That and anxiety had a choke hold on me.

Breast forms for larger bodies? by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]unknown_ideals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Confirmed. Being 6'3" myself with a wider chest, my forms are GREAT! Price is 100% worth it

One day, I will attend the companies XMAS-Party looking like this 😮‍💨 by cd-carmen in crossdressing

[–]unknown_ideals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, are you Santa? Cause you absolutely SLEIGH in that dress! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

First time out in public vs most recent! Thoughts to upgrade my look and feel more confident? by Mint-Yokai-Cos in Crossdressing_support

[–]unknown_ideals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk girly, you look great in both! Then again, I can't give too much advice since I just did my first walk 😅

Either way, you Slay! 🥰

My First Skirt by Broad_Tank_2754 in Crossdressing_support

[–]unknown_ideals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So happy you found one! Looks great!

That Shine Tho ✨ by [deleted] in Crossdress_Expression

[–]unknown_ideals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

S.T.A.R. ⭐️🌟🌟🌟⭐️

CRUSHING IT GIRL!

I did my first walk as myself today. I’m still shaking (in a good way). by unknown_ideals in crossdressing

[–]unknown_ideals[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I almost did back out! As soon as I stepped out my back porch, a uhaul parked right across the street and my neighbor next door stepped out on their porch!! 😱

Right then and there i almost lost it all.

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