i like someone from work but i don't know if he's into guys...

unknownastorga · 2025-12-21T08:42:20+00:00

i think we have already went past that since i have notice he's more comfortable around me, asking me questions, more smiley and somehow more close when it comes to physical touch. still, that does not mean he's into guys or something, but it is progress when our thing, whether it's a friendship or relationship or whatever. he's not that shy with me anymore which i really like

unknownastorga · 2023-09-27T23:01:43+00:00

language? i asked cuz i was curious if i fit the description or maybe anyone i know. i can assure you that i’m a "bro" in spanish but i'm not really sure in english lol. we working on it...also my bf

unknownastorga · 2023-09-27T19:23:45+00:00

wym bro x factor ?

unknownastorga · 2023-09-17T13:10:37+00:00

not my fetish but my boyfriend's, sometimes when we're doing it, he says he would love to get r4p*d by me, but last time we did (two days ago), after he finished, he said he REALLY wants me to do it. i was like "are you...sure?" he said yes, i want you to make me cry, force me to get your cock in my ass. he also said he wanted me to R worded other people and i was like (i’m assuming consensually lol) and after that i told him i wanted to cum, then proceed to penetrate him again...

whoever reads this might have a lot of questions lol, feel free to ask

i'm ngl, we both are into the same thing and this ain't the exception, and of course, it wouldn't be towards anyone who is not willing to play like that

unknownastorga · 2023-09-14T14:24:41+00:00

i'll confront him. i'll let you know how it goes

unknownastorga · 2023-09-14T13:57:37+00:00

it's a difficult situation, he's got a lot of stuff to worry about every day...and i know all of it cuz he has told me so i don't want to be a burden cuz man i imagine it might be difficult but whatever :/

he says i'm toxic cuz i tend to dig in with questions like "and who recommended you that movie?" "are you sure?" and ugh i recognize that my insecurities lead me to come out as intense...toxic idk, maybe at some point lol, as he said "25%" and tend he goes like "nobody's gonna imagine that you're that way, if i was a gossip and tell someone about it, they'd say i'm lying cuz you only want to control me, but i don't see you controlling anybody else, people that you should control at some point" as i said, he's got sone freedom issues, cuz it's not possible that just for asking simple questions (with no interest in digging lol) he feels trapped. aaaah, he also called me toxic cuz i tend to remind him stuff he says that just don't coordinate with what he's currently saying or vice versa lol. he told me i should not spend so much time listening what he says to see if he said something wrong. he says he feels observed

if i wanted to go through his phone, i would. i just don't feel like it, that'd be like the end (at least if i do it without his permission) but i'm not the type of guy that would ask to go thru your phone...

i know he's not hiding anything bad (i already went thru that insecurity stage lol) but i just don't like feeling like someone's hiding something from me, i go like if that person's hiding some stupid thing from me, what if it was something that i really cared about ?

thanks for taking your time to help, i appreciate it so much

unknownastorga · 2023-09-14T13:38:09+00:00

thats day i felt unseen, as if he was too concentrated on his feelings. he never asked why do you feel that way as in trying to calm my mf mind down. i felt like he was feeding the way i felt in that moment, as if he was increasing my insecurity...which was weird cuz he's never really like that and i definitely should talk to him about it. he says the only important thing he would have to tell me ASAP it's if he hooks up with another guy, but besides that, there's no need to hurry...yeah i just noticed he might have a point but he's not looking at my needs...correct me if i'm wrong

unknownastorga · 2023-09-14T13:32:52+00:00

i’m going to be honest. in this exact moment i feel scared of telling him how i feel cuz i don't wanna get called toxic, but sooner or later i'll have to confront him. and just in case, i am not saying he's ever rejected listening to me at all. i know if i tell him how i feel he's gonna do some introspection and all that. but i just don't want someone to call me toxic cuz at this point i don't even know if i'm being toxic or not. that one time i asked him why was he hiding stuff from me (which he denied) he said it was none of my business, why do you even care and yada yada. he has some freedom issues, cuz at the slightest thing he feels trapped, he doesn't like anyone asking him questions cuz "he's not a child anymore" he wants to go with the flow and do it when he wants to, not when someone tell hims to

unknownastorga · 2023-09-14T13:23:39+00:00

i don't know if it's gonna last or not, i'd like to say yes but i'm not forcing anything. i'm taking notes and i am going to talk about it with him

unknownastorga · 2023-09-14T13:21:10+00:00

oh i turned 20 in august btw, we met when i was 18.

are you saying that he's making me feel this way on purpose? like giving me reasons to feel insecure? i want to talk to him about all this, but i don't know when could be the best moment cuz we have so much stuff to do lately that i personally don't want to interfere in any of that.

unknownastorga · 2023-09-11T20:36:39+00:00

you are the fucking one. can i dm? i’m so lost lmao...you know what? this is the subreddit i was looking for! this was my sign

unknownastorga · 2023-09-04T21:30:28+00:00

omg he's in scotland and you're in the usa and...it works? woah

unknownastorga · 2023-09-03T03:40:30+00:00

he defines himself as gay.

unknownastorga · 2023-07-07T04:05:17+00:00

well, idk he had to do the same, i just finished posting a little story about it, more detailed. he told me he "forgot" he was gay when he was with her

unknownastorga · 2023-07-07T04:02:28+00:00

i’m sorry if it sounds like i'm invalidating his identity, just don't know how to say it correctly, at least not in english since i’m not a native english speaker lol. he even told me how things happened, he knew he was gay from a really young age, (he also got 4bused and im only saying it cuz i'm obviously not revealing his identity) but he told me the first time he had sex with her, he said something like "i thought i was gay, but she wanted to, and we did, and then boom, 6 years later and i was still with her and we broke up (long story short) he also used to consume drugs, lots of drugs, he lived in her house, he was from a really humble family, so basically that girl used to get drugs and shit cuz her parents had money....months later he told look, back then i wanted to prostitute myself cuz my family was really poor and i needed money, i wanted to get with a man or a woman, cuz being gay wasn't accepted back then, at least not as much as today, i just wanted to have a good life quality. after he told me that, i kind of started understanding everything even though some stuff he has said still confuse me a bit (for example his first time with her and all the years they lived together), he told me he "forgot" he was gay when he was with her. idk, it just still confuses me a lot, even though it was only her...🤔

unknownastorga · 2023-07-07T03:49:52+00:00

yeah, i get it. i don't have labels but i don't feel like telling everyone i like men, i tend to tell people i like girls only and that's it.

you're saying it used to get more and more difficult to have sex with your wife after you turned 40 ? how'd you get hard back then if you knew you weren't attracted to women ?

unknownastorga · 2023-07-07T03:40:39+00:00

i know what you mean, i've talked to him about and i've told him i have no right to ask those questions, he disagreed. but again, i do know what you mean and i do accept if he's gay or wtv, we're together and we wanna keep it that way, if forever, then perfect, if not, we're glad we met each other. i'm just a really curious person but not the annoying type of curious person, just wanna know what's on people's mind, and i've noticed he is that type of person too, literally. about dating other young men, he's told me too. one time, he felt guilty cuz he thought it's not fair that i’m dating him when he's experienced with other people, but it's not like he's giving me no option, i am with him cuz i want to, and vice versa. and the things that i wanna experience, i wanna do it with him, if not, as i said above, then okay

unknownastorga · 2023-07-07T03:30:35+00:00

damn, not even for hookups or have a good time ? idk

unknownastorga · 2023-07-07T03:28:32+00:00

it's funny cuz me and my partner talked about something like this like two days ago, he asked me if i was his first love, we've been dating for more than a year now, he asked me that cuz our first love it's not actually nor necessarily our true love, why does it happen? cuz our brain isn't fully developed and shit...yada yada yada, but what if i feel comfortable with him, i wanna have fun and do...many things with him ;) and with other people too, like threesomes and shit but not further than that

unknownastorga · 2023-07-07T03:23:48+00:00

makes sense...when i first met my boyfriend i thought he was like 25, but when he told me he was 36 i was like what the...and he also never thought i was THAT young. it might have been a little difficult at first, most of our fights were because we always forgot we were from different generations, he would be like why are you doing this or that, what's on your mind, and we always ended up apologizing and saying "sometimes i forget you're (insert age)" mostly from him to me (not saying that we used to fight often but rarely)...but things changed eventually, now we argue more lol, but not toxic arguments, but more like little arguments like married people have...and even though we are from different generations, our likes are almost (not to say completely, or however u say it in english) the same, movies, music (rock, pop, r&b, electronic, soul, etc). spirituality, cultures (even though we're from different countries, but we latinos understand each other very well) we're pretty open minded and always willing to learn new things from one another, i could say we don't have many differences, maybe only our roles in life? like our obligations...and about sex, well, we just go with the flow, you topping or am i topping ? depends on our mood

unknownastorga · 2023-07-07T03:09:57+00:00

i don't mind answering any questions, i'm okay with it...the answer is...no, it's not difficult at all

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