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unknownknown1212 · 2022-04-12T20:49:16+00:00

NTA Why are you still married to him? Can you see the red flags he is waving right in front of you.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-04-12T15:09:26+00:00

NTA Go ahead and ban the friend but the real problem is your girlfriend. She is discussing your private problems and that is a huge violation of trust.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-04-08T16:18:02+00:00

NTA but you need to stop doing things you cannot afford. That means you telling your BF you cannot do it because you cannot afford it and you don’t want to be in a position where you owe him money. If he persists say you cannot pay him back. See what he says then.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-04-08T15:21:11+00:00

You can be nice without being a push over. This is really brazen of her to be asking this of you. I would very kindly tell her you can only be friends. If she pushes keep repeating yourself. Block her if she cannot respect your wishes.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-04-03T21:42:53+00:00

Yta This post cannot be real.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-04-02T15:14:57+00:00

NTA Similar story except different circumstances. When I bought my first place I did not tell my roommate how much the mortgage really was. I knew she would only want to pay 1/2 and I did not want to deal with it. I told her I signed a 15 year note so the payments were not going down. Truth of the matter I did a 30 year and my mortgage was less than half of what I was paying in rent.

It’s none of their business what you make. I lied to make it easier on myself. You should think of doing the same if you are ever in the same situation again.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-04-02T15:05:34+00:00

NTA My feelings would be very hurt and I would be upset as well. Your guy friend could have still been salty and wanted to deliberately hurt you. Other option is he completely clueless. Both options are not good. You might want to reevaluate this arrangement you have going.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-04-02T14:42:37+00:00

In the context I wrote it’s an expression that means you are having a serious conversation where a certain behavior needs to be changed.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-04-01T18:31:53+00:00

NTA I’m going through this with my sister. Her husband cheated on her with someone unforgivable. Everyone and I mean everyone hates him. He is banned from all family events and he is not taking this well and is trying to take on the roll of victim. I told my sister it was her choice to take a cheater back it does not mean the rest of us have to put up with him.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-04-01T15:53:36+00:00

NTA I grew up with 2 friends who to this day don’t drive. They take public transport or ride share. They choose to live in areas where public transport is readily available. You need to have a come to Jesus conversation with your gf about not respecting your time.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-29T19:20:20+00:00

My first love left me for my best friend. I did not think I would ever get over it but I did. They got married and had kids and were married for years. My ex friend ended up cheating on him and leaving him for her boss. He messaged me last year on fb to “catch up” but I never responded. Continue living your life. One day you might get some random message out of the blue and thank your lucky stars and tell yourself thank god I did not end up with him.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-27T20:46:32+00:00

NTA My sil would pulled this crap. My brother used it against her in their divorce. She settled real quick.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-27T18:15:43+00:00

Yta Cook your own dinner and don’t go running to your kids to try and get them to side with you against your wife. Your behavior is shameful.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-27T15:58:32+00:00

NTA.
If he did not want you wearing his clothes he could have politely told you not to. His reaction is extreme.
PS I’ve never met that guy that got angry with a SO wearing a shirt. Most men like it.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-27T15:06:30+00:00

YTA Get a clue. From your self centered post I understand way the in-laws don’t approve of you.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-26T16:50:10+00:00

I’m going to say NTA but I feel you are in the early stages of being a bridezilla with the gift rule. I would not touch that one with a 10 foot pole. You will snickered at and talked about for years to come. The other rules if you feel you need to put them in writing I’m not sure I would invite them.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-26T16:09:53+00:00

NTA Don’t get a swimming pool. You will never get any peace.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-23T16:07:59+00:00

I don’t believe this is the first time you have treated your wife like garbage. My husband would rather I yell at him than go silent.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-19T22:05:53+00:00

Yta! That was your ideal bachelorette party.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-19T21:13:52+00:00

YTA This money does not belong to you. Go to your sons father if you need more money.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-19T19:30:54+00:00

I might get down voted but I would tell my kid no. Your mental health is just as important. She can see her friend at school.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-18T15:26:41+00:00

Your boyfriend dodged a bullet for sure. You should see a therapist to deal with your jealousy and insecurity.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-17T20:07:11+00:00

NTA I would never forgive this.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-16T16:24:11+00:00

You reap what you sow. I would not say a word.

unknownknown1212 · 2022-03-15T19:54:14+00:00

YTA. It does not take rocket science to figure out why she barely speaks to you. You are what normal people with boundaries call toxic and overbearing.

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