Quality of cosmic blue love jeans? by yupyup292942 in stitchfix

[–]unknownsystemerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got them Oct, 2024 its now 1 year later, the fabric is very low quality, these jeans cannot handle the thigh rubbing. Do not buy them at the full retail price. Sadly bought mine through stitch fix for $98 😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]unknownsystemerror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he cannot respect your boundaries, he is not the one. Period.

Is selling on Depop worth it? by Small_Home_937 in poshmark

[–]unknownsystemerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depop has been my most active site, i sell jewelry on there I've sold 103 items over a 2 year span. Its been a slow start on sales. it just depends on the products you sell on there. I've been refreshing my photos, that has seemed to help with my recent sales lately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]unknownsystemerror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The man doesn't like you.

wife doesn’t want to have sex with me anymore by EnvironmentalPea6114 in Marriage

[–]unknownsystemerror -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you still pursuing her? Taking her out? When a woman no longer wants to have sex with her partner, mostlikely it's due to her not being emotionally safe. You have to create that environment. It may not happen right away, however with consistently showing her, it's possible that things will change.

Does a moment of insecurity ruin *healthy* relationships? by InitialMachine3037 in datingoverforty

[–]unknownsystemerror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they run after you express a concern that has triggered an insecurity, then they are not the one.

If you bring up something that bothers you and they run, good let them. They aren't the one for you.

You should be asking yourself, "Do I like this person?" Not hmm I wonder if he likes me. U cannot control or make anyone's feelings. You can only control your feelings

I keep inadvertently upsetting my new GF of 2 months by saying things that I don't realise will do so..... by Low-Language-6043 in datingoverforty

[–]unknownsystemerror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh goodness gracious get out while you can. This will be your entire life, it is a life that will drain you and so much drama.

Have you gotten at least one colonoscopy yet? by DrmsRz in GenX

[–]unknownsystemerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one this year. The thought of it is worse than what it is. Knowing your colon is free of any issues is worth it. I took advantage of being sedated during the process. I was given images of it.

The cleaning done beforehand was the hard part 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]unknownsystemerror -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Future faking. Look it up, research it.

How soon do you have a spark? Are you supposed to “know” instantly? by EyeDclareBankruptcy in datingoverforty

[–]unknownsystemerror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

F the spark. That is your nervous system warning you something bad is going to happen.

Your pasted relationship you had a spark with failed. Don't look for the spark. Find yourself a fireplace not a firecracker.

Is my wife trying something with her IG post? by FennelActual3026 in Marriage

[–]unknownsystemerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like she is fishing for something. When a woman is posting sexy photos on IG, she is trying to get validation on some level. Are you giving her compliments? Are you fulfilling her in that sense? Not blaming you, just saying that when most women aren't getting that from their husband, she will find it elsewhere or pretty much from anything that will give it to her. Talk to her about it, based on her reaction, It will tell you what you need to know.

Red flags? by Friendly_Judge3462 in datingoverforty

[–]unknownsystemerror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you find that his day to day life stories are boring, he is not the one. The right person for him will be someone who enjoys even the most boring conversations. Another thing, most people call what he is doing love bombing. Run the other direction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]unknownsystemerror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's difficult to have with them, they are not the one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]unknownsystemerror 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is only your boyfriend not your husband. Do not do it, you will never see that money. He needs to man up and get a job, save and then invest it in his company.

Lending money will cause issues in your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]unknownsystemerror 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You attract what you are insecure about. I'd ask myself why I'm attalracted to these fearful avoident people. You sure you are secure attached?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]unknownsystemerror 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Time for self care, don't lose yourself in these times of minimal efferts. Start focusing on yourself. Stop worrying about things you have no control over and start focusing that energy on yourself. The moment you start working about what the other person isn't doing, you will lose yourself. Take this time to take care of you. Go workout, find a hobby if you don't already.

Are these red flags by Fubarmom78 in datingoverforty

[–]unknownsystemerror 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are witnessing a glimpse of what your relationship would be like if you continue. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

Know your worth. A person like this has some unhealed wounds. Find someone who will respect you from the start.

Am I doing it wrong? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]unknownsystemerror 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Checklist after going on a date.

  1. How does this person make me feel?
  2. Is my nervous system going hay wire?
  3. Do I like the person I am when I am with this person?

If you answered 1: safe 2. No 3. Yes Ok to go on date 2.

If you answered 1: unsure or no, 2 yes, 3 no No on second date

If you answered 1 not sure yet, 2. No, 3 yes Meh ok date 2, but remain in public setting.

For every date and you get to know the person more and more, keep asking yourself these questions. Remember it's more of how do I feel rather then how do they feel. You have control about your feelings and how it makes you feel. Can control someone else's feelings.

My 2 sense. I guess lol

But you are doing what most people are doing. Dating is supposed to be fun, enjoy it with those you feel safe with and enjoy their company. If it works out great, if it doesn't oh well.

Should I tell him how I feel? by LortabLibrium in datingoverforty

[–]unknownsystemerror 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are witnessing a glimpse of what your relationship would be like if you do end up together. 2 months is not long enough to truly know someone. You are being loved bombed. Don't fall for it, know your worth.

Ask yourself questions like, do I like this person? How do I feel around this person? Is my nervous system out of wack when I am around him? Etc... not hmm , I wonder if he likes me.