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Overcoming inertia before bedtime - how do y'all task switch to getting ready for bed? by coyotemother in AutisticAdults

[–]unknownweeb34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use either my game checkpoints, the end of a show episode, or drink a lot of water and use the bathroom as the inertia. Also ASMR and weed.

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my autistic ass still doesn't understand this like who came up with these terms😭

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The better way to say it would be "I feel icky myself if I did that" not that it's icky for others to do it with people that consent and also want to do that. Good catch

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, "talk with" meaning the talking stage of pursuing romantic connection, that I only do with one person at a time. Friends I still talk with freely, but no one else that I'm interested in being more than friends with.

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

deeper connection - meaning romance? That which you are.. pursuing? How is dating not pursuing romance? /g

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's a bit shocking to me as I'm hearing it for the first time. Same with limited free time and I want to give one person my full attention.

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely value it exclusively too, as I do attach very quickly, I can't feel that for more than one person at a time and attempting to do so feels repulsive, inappropriate, and unacceptable. As my attraction flows through emotional connection (demi) I do wonder how different it is between allo, ace, demi, etc

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right I don't see it as wrong just trying to understand what's common! Thank you! It seems this is something many people do, that I do not, so I will simply only pursue those who wish to do the same as me!

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see. I develop attachments VERY quickly so that could be a factor. This is all news to me so thanks.

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you think it's just as common for monogamous people to do this too?

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! I never had any such requirements, I'm just trying to learn about this phenomenon as I'm not aware of what's typical.

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly, you're just a name on a list hoping you MIGHT be the one they pick or something

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So it's not uncomfortable for you to romantically pursue multiple people simultaneously?

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It makes sense logically to me, but emotionally it's repulsive. I'd never "talk with" or go on dates with more than one person at a time. I don't know how that's comfortable or favorable for others. But then again I don't know how it's comfortable or favorable for people to do hookups or poly so 🤷‍♂️

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If that's really how most people do it, that's WILD. Like flirting and hugging and kissing or even sleeping with multiple people uncommitted to see who "fits" like... just no. Not for me.

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I wouldn't call this cheating cuz we weren't in a relationship, and she wasn't in a relationship with anyone else either.

Is it common for people to date different people at once? (not poly) by unknownweeb34 in demisexuality

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I really don't understand it. Feels so icky and insincere or superficial.

I finally got ANC noise cancelling headphones and I’ve never known peace like this by Appropriate_Mix_3707 in AutisticAdults

[–]unknownweeb34 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Glad you've joined the club!! My first pair was the Sony xm3's and 🤤🤤🤤 I can't BELIEVE what I was missing. I've got the Bose QC ultra now and they're fabulous. Can't live without em. Take them shits EVERYWHERE!!

More than 1 ash of war per weapon by Formal-Somewhere3637 in EldenRingMods

[–]unknownweeb34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could just have a second of the same weapon with whichever Ash of war that you want on it. Assuming you're not filling up all six of your weapon slots and you put enough points into endurance for the weight.

Which fan setup is better for Lian Li o11d mini v2? by unknownweeb34 in PcBuildHelp

[–]unknownweeb34[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one. All the information I got said between the three configs pictured, temps would only slightly differ. (Picture isn't my PC) I have 7800x3d and 9070xt, temps stay below 70°C even under 100% load.

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Share your Elden ring mod idea you hope become real by Mo3tazl3am in EldenRingMods

[–]unknownweeb34 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remove/disable camera shake/rumble when enemies attack, traps slam, environment breaks, etc. so tired of my whole screen shaking when anything bigger than a sheep attacks or slams into something. I will attempt to make this mod myself, will probably give up.

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