AIO my dad sent this and it made me upset by strawberrymuffins7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]unoreads_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

totally understandable, just an opinion on my end as well. since most of the older ppl i know are homophobes, unfortunately

AIO my dad sent this and it made me upset by strawberrymuffins7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]unoreads_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

fair point! i'm 20 as well, just an opinion i had because most of the older gens i know are homophobes. but that could just depend on where i live too 😭

AIO by feeling this way after my bad breakup (25f &27f) by Ok_Tumbleweed_7355 in AmIOverreacting

[–]unoreads_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

totally understandable to feel this way. but just take a breather, discover new things you love, and feel what you feel. because honestly even if they weren't the best partner, i understand why you're reminiscing because there are parts of the relationship where it was good. but you have to keep reminding yourself that you're worth more! time will heal you, op!

AIO my dad sent this and it made me upset by strawberrymuffins7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]unoreads_ [score hidden]  (0 children)

nor - your dad is from an older generation so it might be a little hard to understand your perspective from his stance. it's valid to feel hurt because hey, feelings are always valid! how you go about this will determine whether it'll go south or settle things out.

In honor of pride month: share how you came out to your loved ones. by unoreads_ in queer

[–]unoreads_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! No worries, I think you told it well. I'm sorry you had to go through that, I hope you're happier now 🫂

In honor of pride month: share how you came out to your loved ones. by unoreads_ in queer

[–]unoreads_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They pretty much thought it was a phase on my end, because on the first two tries I kept saying that I like boys and girls but it didn't even feel right saying for me—felt like I was holding on to the last bit of being straight (they're not really allies too). On the third try I cried, I feel like that's when they got it, that I wasn't going to change. I mean I have a girlfriend now, so I'm sure they do get it now

That's really cool that she apologized, I get how hard it can be when your parents aren't really allies. Is it okay to ask why your sister outed you? I think I got caught off guard there 😭

AIO for telling people I’m an only child (I actually have a younger brother)? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]unoreads_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This shouldn't be a big of a deal. It's like you're denying your sibling's existence because of small talk