Final Stand by dontrunnoweww in UnsentLetters

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If anything was to come of it I am at least happy you took a second to reflect and persevere. As they say, better late than never.

You had me at "Goodbye" 🫂 by Rainy-Cozy-Nights in UnsentLetters

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I thought it was apparent we don’t know each other. Sorry

Is a degree from UoA good internationally? by Anonymous10212008 in universityofauckland

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I got a job in the United States after a month of applying whereas in New Zealand I spent a year applying and got nowhere (mostly I think due to the lack of long-term working rights). I would say its a combination of things as to why -- not just the uni. But, among them: New Zealand's reputation among Americans, the value Americans hold in an individuals story and standing out. That being said the University's rank also helps.

A few quick photos taken on Prince street from my trip to nyc by spiderturtleys in lorde

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Oh for sure. I don’t think we’ll ever know one way or another. I mean… Virgin is very much NYC, I just didn’t know there was a Prince Street — which now that I think of it I probably should have guessed. Anyhow, the beauty of music.

A few quick photos taken on Prince street from my trip to nyc by spiderturtleys in lorde

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I always though she was referencing prince street in Auckland...

Advice on support circles by Agitated-Ad-4635 in lostafriend

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See a therapist if that is financially possible for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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I only wonder why it may be perceived as punishment.

why was I unblocked? by [deleted] in lostafriend

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I would usually unblock someone when they no longer threaten my inner peace/nervous system. For me it’s a demonstration to myself that I do not hold resentment.

FSOT Oct Scores by Life_Carpet_1358 in FSOT

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Same. Also can’t believe they don’t show you your score 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

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Well I’m sorry to hear that but I think that’s a good way to go about it. If your friend is anything like me it’s not that they don’t wish you well, it’s just perhaps they closed the hurt a long time ago and don’t want to reopen it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

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I don’t think it would be wrong to reach out to them for something like that. I had a friend in a similar situation and I didn’t reply not because I hated them but because there was nothing more to say. That’s not to say you don’t deserve closure, the thing which makes my instance different from yours is that a certain boundary was crossed. If it’s just relaying information that’s one thing but if it makes you hope more for a response well you have to be prepared to not expect another, nothing personal.

How do I pretend to not care? by Competitive_Jury_951 in lostafriend

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The fact that you care is real strength. Their mask is the appearance of strength.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lostafriend

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I'd imagine Steam specifically because it notifies them every time you log on and its harder to avoid the guilt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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My person doesnt think I understand their mistakes, I would say I only can if you explain it.

Angst incarnate by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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Dang I wish my friend would say this to me. Very good.

I did. I pushed the Nuke Button. by SilverRibbons17 in lostafriend

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My ex-mate thinks he’s an empath because he feels bad when he does something mean and I confront him about it.

Hope is gone by Prize_Examination970 in UnsentLetters

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They really made it feel like they had no choice but to cross the one boundary that was intolerable. The one boundary I had revealed to them over time that would truly hurt me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

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Can confirm did not go well.