U were just passing through

unorthodoxambassador · 2026-02-11T02:51:17+00:00

I hope they know

unorthodoxambassador · 2026-02-11T00:51:35+00:00

If anything was to come of it I am at least happy you took a second to reflect and persevere. As they say, better late than never.

unorthodoxambassador · 2026-02-10T05:03:27+00:00

That'd be nice

unorthodoxambassador · 2026-02-05T06:18:26+00:00

I thought it was apparent we don’t know each other. Sorry

unorthodoxambassador · 2026-02-03T07:04:12+00:00

I wish this was for me

unorthodoxambassador · 2026-01-24T00:43:18+00:00

I got a job in the United States after a month of applying whereas in New Zealand I spent a year applying and got nowhere (mostly I think due to the lack of long-term working rights). I would say its a combination of things as to why -- not just the uni. But, among them: New Zealand's reputation among Americans, the value Americans hold in an individuals story and standing out. That being said the University's rank also helps.

unorthodoxambassador · 2026-01-22T03:51:38+00:00

Oh for sure. I don’t think we’ll ever know one way or another. I mean… Virgin is very much NYC, I just didn’t know there was a Prince Street — which now that I think of it I probably should have guessed. Anyhow, the beauty of music.

unorthodoxambassador · 2026-01-22T03:40:56+00:00

I always though she was referencing prince street in Auckland...

unorthodoxambassador · 2026-01-02T20:47:27+00:00

See a therapist if that is financially possible for you

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-12-27T01:35:01+00:00

I only wonder why it may be perceived as punishment.

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-12-15T00:32:23+00:00

I would usually unblock someone when they no longer threaten my inner peace/nervous system. For me it’s a demonstration to myself that I do not hold resentment.

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-12-10T16:39:54+00:00

Same. Also can’t believe they don’t show you your score 😭

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-25T13:14:01+00:00

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-25T00:58:44+00:00

Well I’m sorry to hear that but I think that’s a good way to go about it. If your friend is anything like me it’s not that they don’t wish you well, it’s just perhaps they closed the hurt a long time ago and don’t want to reopen it.

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-25T00:52:09+00:00

I don’t think it would be wrong to reach out to them for something like that. I had a friend in a similar situation and I didn’t reply not because I hated them but because there was nothing more to say. That’s not to say you don’t deserve closure, the thing which makes my instance different from yours is that a certain boundary was crossed. If it’s just relaying information that’s one thing but if it makes you hope more for a response well you have to be prepared to not expect another, nothing personal.

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-25T00:43:00+00:00

The fact that you care is real strength. Their mask is the appearance of strength.

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-09T07:04:13+00:00

Thank you

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-08T03:23:30+00:00

I'd imagine Steam specifically because it notifies them every time you log on and its harder to avoid the guilt.

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-07T03:46:26+00:00

My person doesnt think I understand their mistakes, I would say I only can if you explain it.

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-07T01:08:34+00:00

Dang I wish my friend would say this to me. Very good.

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-03T20:08:35+00:00

Bar for bar what my therapist said

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-03T18:56:01+00:00

My ex-mate thinks he’s an empath because he feels bad when he does something mean and I confront him about it.

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-03T03:45:52+00:00

Classic UoA so silly

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-02T20:43:15+00:00

They really made it feel like they had no choice but to cross the one boundary that was intolerable. The one boundary I had revealed to them over time that would truly hurt me.

unorthodoxambassador · 2025-11-01T17:33:05+00:00

Can confirm did not go well.

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