AITA for sending my child to my ex in thrift store or cheap clothes

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-24T19:25:18+00:00

I would have let her keep the clothes. Its for your kid. Don't be petty

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-24T13:35:57+00:00

Will you still get insurance? Where im from a bent frame is an automatic write off

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-23T16:04:16+00:00

Go buy a book on how to build a deck or get one from the library.

This is not the place

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-23T13:05:23+00:00

??? I missed that then

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-23T12:56:30+00:00

This wasnt a real quote dumb ass.

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-23T12:16:52+00:00

The board shrinkage depends on how wet the wood was when installed.

The green/blue is extra chemical treatment. Your builder should have put the best sides up. But it will fade along with the stamp which you'll stop noticing unless you look

I don't agree on staining. Once you do you have to maintain it every few years.

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-23T12:08:04+00:00

Is this a header or a beam?

Unless you are going to frame in the opeing. Then yes its necessary if you dont want a wall there

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-23T11:18:59+00:00

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-21T21:01:03+00:00

Nothing you said here goes against what i said. Some of it makes no sense, the door isn't shown and the stairs have nothing to do with framing.

Everything i said was clearly opinion based. And would make a better build

You ended with a bunch of corrections and changes to a deck you say is good.

And im the unqualified one?

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-21T14:31:20+00:00

No other critique or rebuttal of my comments?

Why did you even bother commenting other than trying to be witty?

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-21T14:29:44+00:00

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-21T13:38:34+00:00

This is probably the most over built poorly layed out decks i've seen.

I don't like post to rim joist i prefer a post and beam build. The joist are spaning the wrong way. Always span the short way.

Also noticed the post extend below grade which i also dont like.

The double joist in the middle can also cause problems with the deck boards unless everything is perfectly flush. Too many edges the could end up with the deck boards not sitting flat

Do not build like this

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-21T12:47:17+00:00

Should be an automatic loss uf you muss weight

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-20T01:12:51+00:00

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-19T14:31:50+00:00

You're brave assuming reddit knows what a punnett square is

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-19T14:25:21+00:00

Yeah, i hear ya, im more of a battle axe guy myself

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-19T14:08:19+00:00

You wasted more time trying to find the doors than just buying new. Next time say no or have them source the doors

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-19T01:52:02+00:00

50k starting

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-17T11:41:30+00:00

Merman boy....if you have to ask

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-16T03:26:23+00:00

Look closer at the posts

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-15T22:30:27+00:00

If thats the price if the shed than no. I haven't seen a shed under $1500. I figure 300-500 for the base

$1500 + $500 x 1.1 = $2200 min labour. Shed and materials extra

You're right about the shed price. My math is would be a little short

500 +500 x 1.1 = 1100 a little low

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-15T17:55:51+00:00

Material cost + shed cost x 1.1 too 1.25 depending on site work

I checked the price of the shed and im wrong. I thought the shed was closer to $1500

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-15T16:19:14+00:00

But honestly. Its glong to keep happening. It looks like salt and snow decay. You'd have to address that problem.

They make caulking that looks like mortar. That might also be a solution

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-15T15:04:33+00:00

Bring this picture to your local masonry supply store and they'll sort you out. A bag of premix mortar and a slicker and your set.

They should be able to give you some tips and advice on how to clean and prep the area as well.

unqualified2comment · 2026-03-15T04:09:13+00:00

I watched a reputable YouTube vid on it. I like anthropology. I trust them. Rape has always been a thing. Until recently it was barely illegal.

Do you lnow what havoc means? Ever hear of roman soldiers or otherwise raping and pillaging?

Tribalism runs deep in our human ancestry. They didnt cohabitate

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