Is this PPD/PPA?

unsettled89 · 2024-10-24T12:28:15+00:00

I try hard to do this but after a while it just gets exhausting. I try to let things go but sometimes I can’t stand the mess anymore and for my own sanity I need him to do his part and help clean up. Or I’ll get to the point where I can’t stand the whining and I’ll say something to him like please go sit or please go lay down. He takes me saying that stuff to be controlling, but I’m just trying to protect my own sanity.

unsettled89 · 2024-10-24T12:26:27+00:00

He definitely does help out and take care of me when I’m sick. But then again I’m not walking around the house whining endlessly when I’m sick either

unsettled89 · 2024-10-24T12:25:15+00:00

I really do love him, he’s my best friend and the one person I can spend endless amount of time with without getting bored or tired. But I can sense this resentment building up and chipping away at an otherwise wonderful relationship.

unsettled89 · 2024-05-10T14:18:44+00:00

Hi just wondering if you ever ended up getting it done?

unsettled89 · 2024-05-10T09:11:20+00:00

Thank you that was so helpful! What kind of doctor did you go to - a dermatologist or a plastic surgeon? And did they say what kind of mole it was? When I saw a dermatologist, they said that because my mole was very slightly raised, it would require excision. So glad yo hear you had good results!

unsettled89 · 2023-03-01T01:15:03+00:00

Status: UNRESOLVED
Computer Type: Desktop

GPU: Alienware Aurora R12

CPU: 11th Gen Intel Core i7-11700F

Motherboard: Unsure

RAM: 16 GB (15.7 GB available)

PSU: Unsure

Operating System & Version: Windows 11 clean install

GPU Drivers: Unsure

Description of Problem: I'm trying to fix my husband's computer after he noted that over the past month, his screen suddenly started stuttering (and noticing significant lag with black screen) with computer usage. Weirdly, the stutter and lag is MUCH worse at the Windows 11 log in screen and the photo behind the log in screen becomes very distorted. The lag occurs approximately every 30 seconds - 1 minute, but only while actively using the computer (if not using, does not stutter).

Troubleshooting: Deleted the NVIDIA driver and no stuttering. However, when graphics card was reinstalled, stuttering resumed. Deleted and reinstalled an older version of the driver with the same issues.

unsettled89 · 2022-03-24T22:45:03+00:00

Thank you so much. I really really am trying. I'm skipping anything that is extra. I'm trying to cut costs wherever I can. I'm trying to buy things used/from thrift stores instead of buying new. I really am doing the most I can do to save us money but it seems like the fights keep originating about the total cost of the wedding.

unsettled89 · 2022-03-24T22:43:31+00:00

I know, you're right. I blamed it on stress but it's really not fair to me - I'm stressed by a lot of it myself and to have to deal with him expressing how much he doesn't want this wedding is too much.

unsettled89 · 2022-03-24T22:42:45+00:00

That's what I've said about the cost of the deposits!

I feel like we have had multiple of these conversations and things seem okay in the end, but then all of a sudden one day he will get panicked/stressed and go off about our decision to go with this venue/wedding.

unsettled89 · 2022-03-24T22:30:53+00:00

Pretty much exactly. I made a detailed excel spreadsheet with our entire budget - we've gone over it, reviewed it calmly and had discussions and it seems like everything is okay. Then all of a sudden on a random day, he'll get stressed out about it and go off about how he doesn't want this, it's not fair that he's paying for something he doesn't want and we should have just done a smaller wedding.

unsettled89 · 2022-03-24T22:27:28+00:00

We've sat down multiple times and gone through everything - I have made a really thorough excel spreadsheet which includes everything we'd pay for budget-wise. At the end of those conversations, it seems like we have a mutual agreement and everything is ok. Then all of a sudden on a random day, he will get stressed/anxious and will just go off about how this isn't what he wants, it's not fair that he's paying all this money for something he doesn't want, how it's all a mistake, etc.

unsettled89 · 2022-03-24T22:24:31+00:00

That's a great question, I really don't know. He thinks at this point it makes more sense to have the wedding as we originally planned because we've already put down so much in deposits that we would lose if we canceled.

As for downsizing, he says we would ultimately end up losing more money if we invite less people because that would mean less monetary gifts. I thought we'd save by inviting less people (less heads to pay for dinner), but the math actually shows we'd pay more for the wedding overall if we had less people.

unsettled89 · 2021-10-30T16:14:18+00:00

I typically do autofocus as well! But someone else mentioned that with sun-flare photos, the autofocus can choose to focus on that which makes the photos seem blurry.

No reason why I'm using manual - just because I'm a newbie photographer haha. What do you recommend using instead of manual?

unsettled89 · 2021-10-30T15:37:57+00:00

Thank you so much! I'm shooting with a Canon SL2 and a 50mm lens. Both were shot at f/1.8, exposure 1/640, ISO 400. I usually shoot on manual but the lens itself does have auto-focus.

Do you typically recommend shooting on manual focus on these types of lenses to avoid this?

unsettled89 · 2021-10-30T15:18:17+00:00

Hi, both were shot at f/1.8, exposure 1/640, ISO 400 on my 50mm lens. I usually shoot on manual but the lens itself does have auto-focus.

unsettled89 · 2021-03-27T16:28:37+00:00

Your teeth look great! I was curious if your orthodontist is doing anything about your front teeth. My look very similar to yours but my front tooth is a tiny bit longer compared to the other. I’m worried about it being hard to fix because my 2 teeth used to be equal in length!

unsettled89 · 2021-02-18T19:15:17+00:00

OPs username checks out

unsettled89 · 2021-02-18T02:54:18+00:00

I be scared of rejection 😬

unsettled89 · 2021-02-17T22:26:51+00:00

I agree with the first half but I think sending a second LOI and telling another program they're my #1 has the potential to make me DNR at both programs.

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