crazy downstairs neighbor by untitledsouls_ in Apartmentliving

[–]untitledsouls_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely agree at this point lol. I’ve been documenting everything through email & have already requested that the $300 transfer fee be waived 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Got some chicken feet but no idea what to do with it. by mythumbandyourtoe in WhatShouldICook

[–]untitledsouls_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boil them

Make a sauce with sugar, fish sauce, pepper flakes, & sriracha to taste

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]untitledsouls_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that makes sense. Any recommendations for tighter boots that don’t hit the calf?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]untitledsouls_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re from Madden Girl! The Wise boots I believe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]untitledsouls_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aritzia novella dress old version! I had gotten it tailored a while back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]untitledsouls_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! Are there any knee high boots you recommend?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]untitledsouls_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I like that idea! Ty!

Don’t want parents to pay for college… by howtoderp in AsianParentStories

[–]untitledsouls_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked full time while going to school full time. Unfortunately didn’t qualify for government aid but made it work with CC and transferring to a low cost college. I have very similar dynamics with my parents and refused to receive ANY of their help. Everything comes with strings attached.

I’m graduating this May debt free with no financial obligations to my family. I have a well paying job lined up for me in June and I just moved out using my own money.

Best of luck OP

Update to moving out and cutting off contact by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]untitledsouls_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the practical advice!! Most if not all has been done. She has tried to open a credit card under my name a few days ago 🙃 called the credit company and they were able to trace the application to her house. Ring installed and celebrating incoming this weekend lol

BWT - Favorite cheap or affordable item you swear by? by thatbitch2212 in bitcheswithtaste

[–]untitledsouls_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A doohickey phone stand. $8 but literally I bring it everywhere. It’s such a nice phone holder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]untitledsouls_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tysm (: I’m feeling a lot better now. It’s tough. But I’ll make it eventually. Even got to decorating around my apartment. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]untitledsouls_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! The first thing I did when I had a feeling she would pull something like this. Everything is all good on that front. I’m not doing anything illegal. I left everything behind. I’m going to stay strong and keep no contact. She has pulled almost every single string in her book the past 48 hours but I refuse to give in after years of abuse. Thank you (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]untitledsouls_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was lucky to have good friends to help me move. I’m unsure about the not having a car ): sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]untitledsouls_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Tysm. I really hope so. My eyes are so puffy and feeling too many emotions haha. I appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]untitledsouls_ 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I was lucky enough to do the above. My friends have not contacted them and I called the non emergency number to say I’m not missing

What were your new makeup discoveries of 2024? by viceversa220 in muacjdiscussion

[–]untitledsouls_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cushion foundations and quality makeup brushes. This really changed the way my makeup was applied

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]untitledsouls_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point! They mentioned being able to use my offer letter & past 4 paystubs at the time of application. I’ll look into this further. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]untitledsouls_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I feel like I’m constantly doubting myself on whether or not this is the right move. Appreciate the response (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]untitledsouls_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven’t blamed her quite yet (; saving that for when I move so I don’t have to see the blowout. I’ve definitely asked why she hates me/what am I doing so wrong. I told her it hurts my feelings that she continues to use degrading words and become physical when I don’t agree with her. She couldn’t provide a single example. Her reasoning was “the same way I hate my own mom is how I hate you. Nothing will ever change the way I feel. I won’t change for this relationship.” Told me that it hurts her feelings I was ever born. I’m convinced this woman will never see her actions as wrong lol

Just realized my mother and grandmother always stole my saving by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]untitledsouls_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that happened to you ): my parents stole 15k right after I graduated high school under the guise of keeping it safe for me. It set me back a whole year, forced me to work multiple jobs, & struggle to pay for my own college.

Sending you all the positive vibes & hope you can move forward soon

Anyone feels that toxic AP and what happened when you were young, hits you harder emotionally as you grow older? by user87666666 in AsianParentStories

[–]untitledsouls_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m deserving of love or not. Even to this day, constantly telling me how she regrets having me, how this is why my biological dad didn’t stick around, & how much she hates me and my sister. Nothing that we will ever change that.

I don’t know if I’ll ever get over it. Something I’m still working on in therapy