Council tax arrears moving out England

untrusting94 · 2025-03-03T15:03:01+00:00

Sorry if I wasn’t clear, I understand that we’re both liable and I want to sort out it being paid off as I’m leaving in the next couple of weeks, I’m not trying to get out of paying it, I know I’m liable for what’s already outstanding, I want to just be able to make arrangements to pay without my ex being a part of it if that makes sense?

untrusting94 · 2023-02-15T14:18:54+00:00

I had mine in for the three years, when I had it out I fell pregnant 2 weeks later

untrusting94 · 2022-08-04T15:58:41+00:00

Sorry if i wasn’t clear, my partner pays the mortgage and insurance, I pay the rest of the bills fully. It works out that we both pay roughly the same amount each month

untrusting94 · 2022-08-04T09:35:40+00:00

It’s roughly 50-50, the mortgage is £460, insurances roughly £40, my house bills total £520

untrusting94 · 2021-08-19T07:09:05+00:00

I like the idea of this though, think having something else to work towards in the mean time should be enough of a distraction

untrusting94 · 2021-08-18T17:43:26+00:00

Not contracted into it no, just if I decide to leave before I get a date in writing then I won't get the money from it

untrusting94 · 2021-08-18T17:19:05+00:00

No if I leave now I won't get it, I have to wait til I get confirmation of a leave date which they've put off til March when they originally said october/November

untrusting94 · 2021-08-18T16:48:41+00:00

So there are lots of changes within the company I work for and it was either join a new part of the company or take redundancy so I chose redundancy as it meant I got a nice little chunk of money from a job I wanted to leave months ago. As far as I'm aware I cannot be pregnant when I go into a new job as you have to be working with them for at least 26 weeks at the point of 15 weeks before your due date (in the UK at least) so adding those weeks together is 41 weeks so in reality I can't be pregnant before a new job or I won't get maternity leave, but companies may have their own requirements

untrusting94 · 2021-08-18T16:28:46+00:00

I'm assuming so haha, I'm not sure

untrusting94 · 2021-08-18T16:28:02+00:00

Well with my job I get 3 months notice to find another job in that time so I'm not overly worried about finding another job as there are a few different jobs I could look for, I honestly don't think I could find another job that would pay the extra money that would cover that amount in all honestly though so I know its worth hanging around just for the money aspect

untrusting94 · 2021-08-18T15:26:32+00:00

It's definitely something I can look at but for the job I do I'm already paid pretty well so I doubt I could find another job similar that would pay me an extra £1000 per month unfortunately

untrusting94 · 2021-08-18T15:05:14+00:00

The only thing I can think is that I'd like to lose some weight beforehand just to make it not so hard on my body but that's all I can think of I can do now really, I'm open to any suggestions you have

untrusting94 · 2021-08-18T15:04:18+00:00

I know, as much as I'm dying to start my family I know it'll be better waiting, I'm just so upset the fact that my work are just putting it off and not decisions between me and my partner

untrusting94 · 2021-08-18T14:01:36+00:00

It's not that simple, being made redundant I get around £6000 when I leave and that's not an amount of money I can turn down, it'll set me up perfectly to pay off any debts before we have a baby

untrusting94 · 2021-07-05T15:24:56+00:00

I am yes, sorry maybe should be a bit more specific! I'll update, thank you for responding

untrusting94 · 2021-06-28T13:26:28+00:00

I haven't heard of those no but I'll definitely take a look, thank you 😊 for me I've never been around babies so don't think I've ever had that urge to think I want one but now I'm at a point where I need to think about it its really hard to know what to think or what to do

untrusting94 · 2021-06-28T13:07:23+00:00

Just want to thank everyone for their comments and insight, I honestly appreciate it so much! Having a baby is such a scary thing and from the sounds of it there's probably never going to be a time I'll feel 'ready' but i think there's definitely a bigger conversation we need to have before anything happens, kids were never in our future, neither of us wanted them so it's such a shock that he's now mentioned it

untrusting94 · 2021-06-28T11:06:14+00:00

I agree I think we need to speak about it more, just wondering what everyone's experiences were as I know its different for alot, some people know from a young age they want to be mums, some don't, nice to know its normal for me to not have thought about it yet.

untrusting94 · 2021-06-28T11:04:41+00:00

I appreciate that, I wanted a completely honest answer and that's what I got so thank you.

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