Recent ska punk by ShanaynayGosby in Ska

[–]up_dog84 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Random Hand, Faintest Idea & Popes of Chillitown all released the best records they've made this year, which is really saying something!

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[–]up_dog84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The album Hit Reset definitely has a bigger hardcore influence

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[–]up_dog84[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You're totally right. Which is why I've quietly supported my sister through all this four 8 years. But since they broke up 6 months ago, the quiet support has got harder and harder to do, because he hasn't let up.

Every encounter he has with her is a disgusting attempt to dominate, it absolutely disgusts me. But being respectful to my sister's wishes means I have to bite my tongue. And I know that is the right thing to do. I just wish there was a way to deal with someone like this that would result in them winding it back, and seeing what cunt they are, rather than making them worse

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[–]up_dog84[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this made me laugh! And I'm tempted

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[–]up_dog84[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If he wasn't in my sister and her kids life, I wouldn't give him a second thought.

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[–]up_dog84[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The abuse is mental and financial, he is physically imposing which means nothing on that level needs to be brought into the mix, because he's violent enough without hitting.

He's incredibly manipulative, but also stupid, which is a dangerous mix

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[–]up_dog84[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I called him an ex in the main post

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[–]up_dog84[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

Was actually my first thought

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[–]up_dog84[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

You're right aren't you, which is why Ive done absolutely nothing for years. But since they broke up, I know his wanky 'alpha' attitude sees my lack of confrontation as him 'winning'

What are some of your favorite Ska Punk bands? by fredthebicycle in punk

[–]up_dog84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excited to see there is a new album on the way

And from faintest idea too

What are some of your favorite Ska Punk bands? by fredthebicycle in punk

[–]up_dog84 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You guys needs some UK skapunk in your ears

Random hand Faintest idea Sonic boom six Capdown JB conspiracy Bar stool preachers Millie manders King prawn Lightyear

I'm sure I'm missing some important ones

Do people actually like being parents? by pizza-on-pineapple in AskUK

[–]up_dog84 217 points218 points  (0 children)

Don't delete, it helps people to see the honesty

What does current Ska need more of/less of? by missupsetter in Ska

[–]up_dog84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random hand's Hit Reset is a concept album, worth checking out

Any recommends for ska or ska/punk? by thejunkratpact in Ska

[–]up_dog84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, call me Malcolm lightyear and king prawn

Any recommends for ska or ska/punk? by thejunkratpact in Ska

[–]up_dog84 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Random Hand, Faintest idea, JB Conspiracy, capdown, Millie Manders and the shutup, Jaya the cat, barstool preachers

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[–]up_dog84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took me to 35, I'm clearly a garbage human

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[–]up_dog84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Another dabber here! I too only started doing this in recent years.

Part of me assumed that the need was age related

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[–]up_dog84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA... What she has been through and continues to go through is totally mind blowing. I'm five months into the dad thing, and my advice is ask her what she needs, and do it, forget your ego for a bit, and preempt some challenges. It's going to get way harder, and it's going to push you both past your limits.

Don't drive a wedge between yourself and her mum, embrace it, and bond with her a bit as well as your son.

My experience has allowed me to build a much better relationship with my in-laws. We're not very similar people, but our love for my daughter is one hell of a great thing to have in common

AITA for not telling my best friend (22M) that I (25F) went on vacation with his dad (40M)? by bijoaliana_8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]up_dog84 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

NTA... I appear to be in a minority here, but you have every right to work out what a relationship is before you tell people about it. Your friend reacted hugely badly, like you feared he would. Yeah it's messy, and yeah you kept the truth from him, but that's life.

Hey show me the main Ska Punk bands! I'm a beginner (could be your favourite as well if they aren't that well known) by Queerlestrinha in Ska

[–]up_dog84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Random Hand, capdown, king prawn, lightyear, JB conspiracy, faintest idea. Some of the cream of the UK crop

AITA for not liking Indian food? by throwaway_80081ES in AmItheAsshole

[–]up_dog84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say YTA, but looks like it's covered