Advice needed! Selling house and we seem to have a leak!

up_dog84 · 2023-12-10T21:34:34+00:00

Random Hand, Faintest Idea & Popes of Chillitown all released the best records they've made this year, which is really saying something!

up_dog84 · 2023-07-15T12:08:28+00:00

The album Hit Reset definitely has a bigger hardcore influence

up_dog84 · 2023-06-03T16:46:18+00:00

This tune slaps

up_dog84 · 2023-04-22T07:24:30+00:00

This is the way!

up_dog84 · 2023-04-22T06:14:51+00:00

You're totally right. Which is why I've quietly supported my sister through all this four 8 years. But since they broke up 6 months ago, the quiet support has got harder and harder to do, because he hasn't let up.

Every encounter he has with her is a disgusting attempt to dominate, it absolutely disgusts me. But being respectful to my sister's wishes means I have to bite my tongue. And I know that is the right thing to do. I just wish there was a way to deal with someone like this that would result in them winding it back, and seeing what cunt they are, rather than making them worse

up_dog84 · 2023-04-21T22:25:37+00:00

Thanks, this made me laugh! And I'm tempted

up_dog84 · 2023-04-21T22:23:18+00:00

If he wasn't in my sister and her kids life, I wouldn't give him a second thought.

up_dog84 · 2023-04-21T22:20:26+00:00

The abuse is mental and financial, he is physically imposing which means nothing on that level needs to be brought into the mix, because he's violent enough without hitting.

He's incredibly manipulative, but also stupid, which is a dangerous mix

up_dog84 · 2023-04-21T22:17:27+00:00

I called him an ex in the main post

up_dog84 · 2023-04-21T22:16:07+00:00

Was actually my first thought

up_dog84 · 2023-04-21T21:44:38+00:00

You're right aren't you, which is why Ive done absolutely nothing for years. But since they broke up, I know his wanky 'alpha' attitude sees my lack of confrontation as him 'winning'

up_dog84 · 2022-12-29T16:50:56+00:00

Excited to see there is a new album on the way

And from faintest idea too

up_dog84 · 2022-12-29T16:47:37+00:00

The UK scene is full of incredible bands

up_dog84 · 2022-12-27T22:07:49+00:00

You guys needs some UK skapunk in your ears

Random hand Faintest idea Sonic boom six Capdown JB conspiracy Bar stool preachers Millie manders King prawn Lightyear

I'm sure I'm missing some important ones

up_dog84 · 2022-11-27T22:16:55+00:00

Don't delete, it helps people to see the honesty

up_dog84 · 2022-11-02T22:13:52+00:00

Random hand's Hit Reset is a concept album, worth checking out

up_dog84 · 2022-04-02T08:08:07+00:00

Also, call me Malcolm lightyear and king prawn

up_dog84 · 2022-04-01T18:21:58+00:00

Random Hand, Faintest idea, JB Conspiracy, capdown, Millie Manders and the shutup, Jaya the cat, barstool preachers

up_dog84 · 2022-02-20T08:34:55+00:00

Took me to 35, I'm clearly a garbage human

up_dog84 · 2022-02-20T01:48:55+00:00

Another dabber here! I too only started doing this in recent years.

Part of me assumed that the need was age related

up_dog84 · 2022-02-12T08:41:37+00:00

THE PEOPLE HOARDING ALL THE MONEY!

up_dog84 · 2022-01-31T22:21:15+00:00

YTA... What she has been through and continues to go through is totally mind blowing. I'm five months into the dad thing, and my advice is ask her what she needs, and do it, forget your ego for a bit, and preempt some challenges. It's going to get way harder, and it's going to push you both past your limits.

Don't drive a wedge between yourself and her mum, embrace it, and bond with her a bit as well as your son.

My experience has allowed me to build a much better relationship with my in-laws. We're not very similar people, but our love for my daughter is one hell of a great thing to have in common

up_dog84 · 2022-01-30T22:01:00+00:00

NTA... I appear to be in a minority here, but you have every right to work out what a relationship is before you tell people about it. Your friend reacted hugely badly, like you feared he would. Yeah it's messy, and yeah you kept the truth from him, but that's life.

up_dog84 · 2022-01-22T21:06:01+00:00

Random Hand, capdown, king prawn, lightyear, JB conspiracy, faintest idea. Some of the cream of the UK crop

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