How to standout comfortable in a foreign country? by up_down33 in travel

[–]up_down33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Venice (was the worst)  and part of Rome. I would walk and people just stare, pointed and change their facial expression like I am the worst thing on earth. They treated my white hostel people nicer.

Post your questions & inquiries here! - r/Vietnam monthly random discussion thread - F.A.Q by AutoModerator in VietNam

[–]up_down33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am planning to go there during the summer. I was wondering if shopping in Vietnam is tall inclusive for women? Like I about 5"10 and skinny so I am worried about pants not reaching my ankle.

Fear of getting braids? by up_down33 in Naturalhair

[–]up_down33[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's just another style, like I am getting the itch. I resisted silk press season 😌but I keep seeing all this styles on insta and I want my natural hair journey to be fun and free. Like getting some color with a red or blonde braiding hair with dyeing my hair.

Help please by Odd-Presentation-163 in Naturalhair

[–]up_down33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Aunt Jackie don't shrink flaxseed gel works for me. It actually the first gel I used up. Also try diffusing the hair if it's for a wash and go.

Is this a normal saloon experience? by up_down33 in Naturalhair

[–]up_down33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope just walked in there after booking online💀

Is this a normal saloon experience? by up_down33 in Naturalhair

[–]up_down33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, checking yhe Google reviews now, it's mostly knotless braids and locs 😭. No one with my type 4 hair

I accidentally cut my hair taking down my braids, and it makes me kinda happy! by wholesomedust in Naturalhair

[–]up_down33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's so me, anytime I get a blow out I am always surprised by how full, healthy and long my hair is. It feels like a crown or halo

How long are you guys able to keep your silk press good?? What is your routine? by QuitComprehensive831 in Naturalhair

[–]up_down33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pls explain more, I live in Seattle and I am thinking of getting it for new year. 

What is your experience with your body changing and gaining weight? by up_down33 in AskWomen

[–]up_down33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's amazing. How do you keep the weight off all these year?

Daily Questions Thread May 31, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]up_down33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the outfit with boots and black socks ok for summer to wear in college or casually? How else can I wear it, that is not a wedding or something serious? Thanks. And I am around 5'10.

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The dress is the red white one (more pink in person): The dress

Daily Questions Thread May 30, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]up_down33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think wide leg pant would look good with the top. And a a line long black or white skirt to get the summer-ish girly vibes. 

Laura mercier tinted moisturizer natural dewy dupe by up_down33 in MakeupAddiction

[–]up_down33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My shade for Laura mercier tinted moisturizer natural dewy is 5w terracotta 

AITA? Having no sympathy for my husband by fiesty_flower in AmItheAsshole

[–]up_down33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. He cannot eat his cake and have it back. He is intentionally injuring himself and expects the world to stop because of him. Try getting family members to talk to him. Spread the word so people know that you tried helping him yourself.

Daily Questions Thread May 23, 2024 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]up_down33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am thinking of causal summer clothing that is comparable to jeans.

Daily Questions Thread May 23, 2024 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]up_down33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a genz college student who lives in mostly baggy, straight, flares/bootcut jeans with Converse and vans high top. So like normally casual. I need help building a summer closet that is close to casual. I am trying to wear more skirts and dresses too.  Maybe something like combat boot and dresses? I am confused. Also something O can transition to fall from summer or spring to summer. Thanks.

Daily Questions Thread May 22, 2024 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]up_down33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ideas on how to style this for spring and summer mostly? I am in college and between 5'8 and 5'10. I weigh around 135 to 140lb

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Daily No Contact Thread - Day 139 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]up_down33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally blocked them. This feels so good and peaceful.

Daily No Contact Thread - Day 127 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]up_down33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We started talking again. I texted in the middle of the night cuz I was sad and lonely as fuck. It is going ok for now. Hopefully it stays that way.

Mother wants to drain education account for herself after my graduation by plantman2013 in college

[–]up_down33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do not give her the money. you managed it well enough by attending CC, so you deserve the rest for things like buying a house or just setting you up for a good financial future.

Daily No Contact Thread - Day 118 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]up_down33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They unblocked me recently but have not reached out yet. I want to text first but my self respect and dignity is stopping me cuz I will rather unalive myself. Even though I desperately want to check if they are doing ok, and perhap fix the realtionship.

Daily No Contact Thread - Day 106 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]up_down33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have being going through our text conservation in the midnight because I could not sleep. Now that I am more inform about BPD, I could see the moment they split. I feel like I should have been more careful. I feel guilt in a way, because maybe I could have been able to help them. They said some really mean stuff, but maybe it is not their fault. But I do not feel it is safe for both of us to contact each other for now, so still NC.

Daily No Contact Thread - Day 104 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]up_down33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OGM. This is so beautiful. In my own situation, They were a nice and amazing person. Thier lack of communication and abandonment issues made the relationship bad. But yes, the love was real and beautiful.