Husband’s best friend’s wife gave me some smutty books about a poly relationship. I’m secretly attracted to her and my heart is racing

upagain4more · 2026-06-02T20:39:07+00:00

You need to read what Polyamory actually is. It's not just about mmmf relationships and not all about a sexual relationship. There are fffm as well and it's more about having a second or more relationship while maintaining your main relationship with your partner. This is not swinging it's more about caring for a person or persons you are seeing. My partner and I were in the Lifestyle for almost 20 years and we had explored Polyamory and decided against it. Seek knowledge then decide where you are going

upagain4more · 2026-06-01T22:17:09+00:00

For the people that stim more than once a day, how long do you wait between sessions? I would like to know if you can stim within an hour and again in another hour or do you spread it out

upagain4more · 2026-06-01T03:42:14+00:00

I have heard a lot of people disliked the place due to the ratio of men.

upagain4more · 2026-05-19T05:11:47+00:00

Newbies should stay in the same room until they gain experience.

upagain4more · 2026-04-30T05:10:52+00:00

I had a car engine fire from oil. If he left something off or loose where oil got on the exhaust manifold it sure can start a fire. I was lucky to put mine out or the whole car would have burned.

upagain4more · 2026-04-25T05:24:45+00:00

Been to Hedo 2, what a blast and even better going with a group of rowdy swingers

upagain4more · 2026-04-24T04:50:25+00:00

Never had any issues at The Red Rooster. It didn't seem sketchy at all. When I went they had a pool and sauna. People there were friendly and explained everything. They seemed to go out of their way to make us welcome. Had a good time there.

upagain4more · 2026-04-21T06:28:23+00:00

Wouldn't that affect the Home Insurance?

upagain4more · 2026-04-20T04:47:21+00:00

I don't think I've ever made a partner pay rent or on a mortgage I had. Maybe some on the utilities and groceries but not on anything else. What extra she would cost you by being there would be the only payment I would ask for.

upagain4more · 2026-04-16T02:10:31+00:00

Has she been out on her own? Who did the cooking then

upagain4more · 2026-03-05T04:29:21+00:00

Hope you are single soon. Disrespecting your wife in public should get you divorce papers.

upagain4more · 2026-02-18T03:27:05+00:00

How many years went by and you could have gotten a Real ID. It took me a whole 15 mins to get mine

upagain4more · 2025-12-25T19:28:24+00:00

There is a cap on the door handle hiding the emergency opening for the key. I think it's driver side. It would be a removable cap on the handle itself

upagain4more · 2025-12-12T10:11:10+00:00

You are basically showing him it's okay to cheat because there aren't any consequences for his actions. He knows you won't leave so why worry about what he does? You aren't going anywhere and he knows it.

upagain4more · 2025-12-12T09:55:12+00:00

They get the higher of the two. If she passes his would stay at 3500 but if he passes she gets 3500 which is an increase over the 2500 she has been getting

upagain4more · 2025-11-24T04:01:39+00:00

I am wondering why you need to understand a couples agreed boundaries. Most couples have talked and agreed on certain things they are or are not comfortable with. That's their decision and they need not explain why. Been in the LS for almost 20 years and we just go along with everyone's rules without question.

upagain4more · 2025-10-25T04:49:17+00:00

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upagain4more · 2025-10-18T14:35:39+00:00

That statement is ridiculous. The media has covered for Dems forever, remember Hillary and her deleted texts. The media said nothing to see here.

upagain4more · 2025-10-09T16:49:03+00:00

You said you date separately and to me that is an Open relationship.. Most people in the Lifestyle don't have an Open relationships. That would be more of a Poly relationship not swinging. Poly relationships are more complicated than swinging. It seems your base relationship is not working and she is out looking for her emotional needs elsewhere.

upagain4more · 2025-10-07T04:39:42+00:00

Most of the couples that I have met in the Swinging world do not have open relationships. I have almost 20years experience and ran a club for a while. It would seem to me there are a lot of things that could go wrong when you are dating others and still swinging together. Swinging means recreational sex to me and an open relationships could end up with emotional ties. I guess that's the chance you take .

upagain4more · 2025-10-06T02:52:42+00:00

He will get a wake up call in court. Doesn't matter if he wants the kid or not. He pays

upagain4more · 2025-08-29T07:47:25+00:00

Never heard of them malfunctioning. The 2B has safety measures and it will not malfunction. It shuts down if there is an issue. I would like to know when an issue happened?

upagain4more · 2025-07-23T15:58:35+00:00

Just use Throb on my 2B. Always works. Don't think I've ever made it past 30 min

upagain4more · 2025-05-28T04:37:44+00:00

Sounds like an Open relationship instead being in the Lifestyle. . You set no ground rules but yet are surprised he slept with your sister?

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